Parth is overconfident

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Rashmi

@goofyCat

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Posted: 8 years ago

Parth is an idiot. At one moment when he got carried away by the urge of feeling the touch of the baby in the bathroom, he looked so naive that I actually felt pity as his stupidity. No doubt his intentions were pure and he knew he should not cross a certain limit, otherwise he wouldn't have hesitated putting his hand on Teni's stomach at first. But he needs to realize that no matter how he himself looks at things, other may not perceive it in a similar way.. He is too overconfident about this feeling of friendship from his side with Teni. So much that he crossed a thin boundary line yesterday that landed him in an absolutely embarrassing and compromising situation.

I can understand that initially he got mad at Shorvori because she doubted his loyalty towards their relationship. But as his anger melts down, I expect him to think from Shorvori's perspective, and realize how his actions are hurting her.. I want him to maintain a distance from Teni after realizing his own mistakes and not in the moment of anger. Unfortunately the segments indicate otherwise. And I am sure the CVs are going to show more of how Parth Teni relationship gets affected by this turn of events, rather than how the husband wife understand and support each other in testing situations. 🤢

I don't blame Shorvori at all. Which wife can keep quiet after seeing her husband locked inside a bathroom with another woman in middle of night!!

Teni- I would be interested in seeing if there is any change in her after this incident.. Now that she knows Shorvori isn't comfortable with her closeness with Parth, lets see if she also realizes that she is intruding too much into their personal space and is unknowingly snatching Shorvori's rights as wife.

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Sudha

@Sudharies

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Posted: 8 years ago

I watched the episode just now. Couldn't miss this wonderful performance of SidMi. They both were very good, absolutely natural, literally living their characters. I applaud their talent, and Rashmi, like you mentioned in AT, I'm also very happy Sid got to act with an actress like Rashami, who compliments him both in looks and acting prowess...❤️

Coming to your topic, yes he's very much overconfident about his friendly feelings for Teni. He would've probably been a bit reluctant with her if she had continued to harbor feelings for him, but since she acknowledged their relationship as friendship he is under a delusion that anything is acceptable between the two of them since they're only friends according to him. And he did deserve a reality check badly, which he received from Shorvari yesterday.

He was flabbergasted that Shorvari has started doubting him with Teni. But one thing I'd like him to think and introspect about himself, what would be his reaction if Shorvari was in his place. Definitely it'll hurt you bad if you see your spouse get proximate with a third woman. In the heat of moment of feeling his kid he got carried away. He never understood that was wrong on his part. Hope he realizes his folly and keeps a distance from Teni hereafter, not only coz Shorvari is unhappy about it, but also that he should've maintained a distance from Teni owing to the fact that he's a happily married man, and she's their surrogate. He's not Teni's husband to get so intimate with her that he touched her tummy to feel the baby in her bathroom both being wet. It was a disgusting behavior. What was he even thinking??

I honestly felt a wicked satisfaction when she literally harassed him when she took his hand to touch Teni's stomach more, saying here and there, also where she says Teni will change in front of you too, Why are you leaving. I was surprised to see Parth look astounded at her words, coz If that sounded atrocious to him, then what he had been doing with Teni so far, was hundred times more atrocious and intolerable.

Shorvari, I loved her for voicing out all her feelings without any hesitation. Her tears moved me. And I can't stop feeling for her as a fellow woman. Love her always. And I support her yesterday's actions and words completely.

As for the surrogate, I don't think she's gonna realize her mistakes anytime soon, and start being matured. Knowing her obsession for Parth I don't have any hopes left for her. And after watching the precap scene I can't stop cursing her. What does she think of herself? What makes her think that the kid will keep her and Parth united always. Like Parth said the parents of that kid is him and Shorvari. Does she have hopes to stay in the Bhanushalis house all through her life?? That character is an insult to the real surrogates. I blame the creatives for turning this character so worse that people have started disliking her behavior so much and find her deadly annoying.

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Rashmi

@goofyCat

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: SudHaVeN-
I watched the episode just now. Couldn't miss this wonderful performance of SidMi. They both were very good, absolutely natural, literally living their characters. I applaud their talent, and Rashmi, like you mentioned in AT, I'm also very happy Sid got to act with an actress like Rashami, who compliments him both in looks and acting prowess...❤️

Coming to your topic, yes he's very much overconfident about his friendly feelings for Teni. He would've probably been a bit reluctant with her if she had continued to harbor feelings for him, but since she acknowledged their relationship as friendship he is under a delusion that anything is acceptable between the two of them since they're only friends according to him. And he did deserve a reality check badly, which he received from Shorvari yesterday.

Absolutely agree on this!!

He was flabbergasted that Shorvari has started doubting him with Teni. But one thing I'd like him to think and introspect about himself, what would be his reaction if Shorvari was in his place. Definitely it'll hurt you bad if you see your spouse get proximate with a third woman. In the heat of moment of feeling his kid he got carried away. He never understood that was wrong on his part. Hope he realizes his folly and keeps a distance from Teni hereafter, not only coz Shorvari is unhappy about it, but also that he should've maintained a distance from Teni owing to the fact that he's a happily married man, and she's their surrogate. He's not Teni's husband to get so intimate with her that he touched her tummy to feel the baby in her bathroom both being wet. It was a disgusting behavior. What was he even thinking??

@bold, that's an interesting thought. But somehow I feel that his reaction won't be extreme, given that he is really sensible and understanding person (sans this Teni saga)..
The whole thing looked extremely bad, and as I wrote in AT, it would have damaged his character and reputation badly had it been anyone else in the family in place of Shorvori, catching him and Teni in the bathroom in that situation.. I will still say it was nothing else but plain stupidity on his part to get carried away like that, and I hope he will learn a lesson that it is a sensitive relationship that he shares with Teni and it is his responsibility to handle it maturely.

I honestly felt a wicked satisfaction when she literally harassed him when she took his hand to touch Teni's stomach more, saying here and there, also where she says Teni will change in front of you too, Why are you leaving. I was surprised to see Parth look astounded at her words, coz If that sounded atrocious to him, then what he had been doing with Teni so far, was hundred times more atrocious and intolerable.

Shorvari, I loved her for voicing out all her feelings without any hesitation. Her tears moved me. And I can't stop feeling for her as a fellow woman. Love her always. And I support her yesterday's actions and words completely.

I don't blame Shorvori for the way she reacted. It was natural for her to react that way. I also applaud it that she voiced out all her feelings without any hesitation. However, as her anger subsides, I hope to see her realizing that her doubts about Parth's loyalty towards their relationship are baseless and giving him a chance to prove it, because Parth has always been supportive of her through thick and thin.

As for the surrogate, I don't think she's gonna realize her mistakes anytime soon, and start being matured. Knowing her obsession for Parth I don't have any hopes left for her. And after watching the precap scene I can't stop cursing her. What does she think of herself? What makes her think that the kid will keep her and Parth united always. Like Parth said the parents of that kid is him and Shorvari. Does she have hopes to stay in the Bhanushalis house all through her life?? That character is an insult to the real surrogates. I blame the creatives for turning this character so worse that people have started disliking her behavior so much and find her deadly annoying.

What do you expect from her when she doesn't even realize that it was wrong on her part being so close to a married man like this.. I was literally taken aback by her reaction!!

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snowflakes2119

@snowflakes2119

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Posted: 8 years ago

Shourvari issued an ultimatum to Parth that he should end his interactions and dialogues with Teni with immediate effect, If he really wishes to win her trust. Her directive may appear fascist in nature to many. But we can't overlook her present state of mind. She feels isolated, in view of the love and attention being provided to the surrogate. She is assuming that the family members are deliberately sidelining her. Her observations are true to some extent. The Mil is intentionally pampering Teni to kindle jealousy in the heart of the Dil. Shourvari may appear harsh with her command on Parth. Since beginning there has been a mention that none of the leads are perfect in their respective characters. Hence only time will say, how at the onset of dawn, Parth is going to maintain distance with the surrogate... What explanations he would give to Teni for the sudden change in his behaviour towards her...Whether with his wife's diktat it would be permissible for him to give a clarification.

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Kavita Gupta

@uknaik99

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Posted: 8 years ago

Brilliant acting by Rashmi and Siddarth.

As wife I will be super upset if I catch my husband with another woman at 2 AM in a bathroom.. I don't know why parth is not thinking logically.

Hope both Teni and Parth will draw a line , even if it is pure friendship every relationship has a limit.. I don't blame Shorvari..

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snowflakes2119

@snowflakes2119

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Posted: 8 years ago

The kashmkash , tension of the couple is very well displayed by SidMi. The restlessness of the surrogate and her desperation to access the cause leading to sudden distancing with the father of the child, was well depicted. The surrogate has been vouching for her love being selfless and unconditional. Now if Parth is not attending to her beck and calls, why she is expecting him to do so. She must learn to follow her words, for at present there doesn't seem to be a sync between her action and talkings. Loving someone is not a sin but expecting a reciprocation is selfishness. Parth and Teni can never unite as a couple. Our socio and legal system does not approve of such relationships especially when the wife is perfectly normal and devoted towards her in laws and husband. Also Parth can't continue to entertain and maintain overfriendly tie when the girl is his surrogate. By doing so he is further encouraging her aspirations for him. As a consequence he might have to bear the accusation of protecting and igniting her emotions. The is bound to give rise to serious objections both by the wife and his family ( provided the family happens to know about the truth) . Therefore the wife gets all the support as she is right in protesting and raising her voice against the relationship.

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Rashmi

@goofyCat

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: uknaik99
Brilliant acting by Rashmi and Siddarth.
As wife I will be super upset if I catch my husband with another woman at 2 AM in a bathroom.. I don't know why parth is not thinking logically.

Hope both Teni and Parth will draw a line , even if it is pure friendship every relationship has a limit.. I don't blame Shorvari..

@bold, that's the main thing that is not going well with his character sketch so far.. It was so evident in yesterday's episode. Don't know why he was so restless when he couldn't give chocolate to Teni 😕 As Shorvori rightly pointed out, there are so many people in the family including Shorvori herself who can take care of Teni, Parth doesn't need to do that himself every time. He could have easily asked Shorvori to give that chocolate to Teni. It was strange why he could not find a simple logical solution like that.

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cygnet9

@cygnet9

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Posted: 8 years ago

@TM must say Parth is over confident, but I liked Shorovari today for standing up for herself by giving polite reply to her MIL. As for Teni don't know how suddenly she became dumb. Knowing what a husband and wife mean to each other she is intruding in their lives and she is unaware of Shorovari's feelings which otherwise she does😕.

I have this feeling that once when Teni realises how much damage has been caused in Parth and Shorovari's relation because of her then she will be the most effected person. She will never forgive herself. Mark my words.

Will Parth realise what is his mistake? His mistake is not to draw a line between him and Teni. Everything is not acceptable under the guise of friendship.

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