wounds and scars

"scars have the strange power to remind us that our past is real"- C.McCarthy

Originally posted by: --geny--

I Agree here!

Just my POV 😊

Originally posted by: angel_nonu

Just my POV 😊

I feel that their wounds have started healing once they were under same roof. Their presence around each other was healing their wounds all though they weren't actually together.

We saw that after annika came back to OM how Shivaay started coming out from that zombie state. Started feeling alive again. So their mere presence around each other, their fights nok-jhok, working as team to bring other 2 couples together in all this somewhere there pain.wound was getting healed.

Once Shivaay got to know that there was some reason then it was more clearer to him as well that annika is same as his heart believes. SO all this have already healed them to some extent if not fully. Then in yellow dress scene they accepted their mistake,promised to not hide truth, Touching each other, feeling each other.

Yes they still need to talk but I think that will come time to time as in forced wedding also they did not talk about it for so long. Even though shivaay knew that it was wrong but still it look long to verbally admit it and talk about it.

Here also now they are feeling happy,content for now being with each other, enjoying this phase so not even trying to talk about past things. Once something happens (I mean even something small) which can trigger that fear of being away from each other etc then it will all come in full force 😊

Originally posted by: ShivaayAnika

Agreed with everything you said Anju 😳

Even HS mentioned something like that their healing process will be a gradual one and will start when they will meet again.

I get it after the heavy drama writers wanted to have some light hearted episodes but a talk about separation is a must. They really need to talk about how their lives without each other was filled with misery. Your theory about a trigger needed can be true and I hope we get that soon. And my personal wish is for other things to get addressed also like Shivaay wanting Anika's chawl and how he kept watch over her. I have mentioned this so many times in hopes ki somehow this gets writers' attention 😆

@Ashika I think both Shivaay and Anika have forgiven each other from their hearts like there are no grudges remaining. This is similar to when the Daksh MU got cleared. Post that also their issues were not fully resolved but they were back to joking with each other.

Hello

Originally posted by: nebuna

Hello

I did read a lot of comments on this forum about they not being the same old shivay with tadi and I would like to say if writers show him with tadi it will show no character growth in him.His character change has been subtle and great to be honest he was angry now gradually he is changing.He can't be shown the same man with tadi and arrogance coz he is content and happy in his life at the moment so why would he be the same where he started off at the beginning and if by chance is shown then they are going back in their character sketch and not forward.

Second with shivika being not intense and no passion,my point is yes they are in love and they had a rough time with separation emotionally both were apart and in a bad position,but now they are together they have to connect emotionally before they get physical, being in love doesn't mean they should get comfortable physically.They have been under a lot of testing times so yes that is fair to be shown them the way it was shown.Chawl scene was important for shivay to understand that even she has certain memories to live with which is why he changed his idea about not destroying her memories of her childhood which is Chawl.

Scenes were perfect under the current circumstances after their reunion ,being in love doesn't mean jumping on to each other and kissing it is also about understanding what each other are as a person.If to go for passion it can happen because shivay has been passionate but even he needs reciprocation from anika which he isn't getting so he wouldn't force her at any cost.To add she was emotionally down about her traumatic childhood memories and I think writers can't show shivay's raging hormones when she was in such a turmoil and if had been shown it would look really bad.

This is my POV of what they had shown and I hope I haven't offended anyone here.

At times in a relationship, the hurt and pain are so grave that one does not want to venture into that territory again. Especially men don't like talking a lot about how they are hurting. It is at times very hard to illicit even a sentence from them. Women, on the other hand, are far more likely to discuss things but it depends on how they have grown up. Shivay would definitely not want to tread the same waters that had led to their separation. It is pretty murky actually and anyone would want to be done with it asap. For someone, as Shivay who is so action oriented words would never come easily. He would rather want to do things that would heal Anika than speak. For someone like Anika who prefers to believe in Raat gayi baat gayi, It is equally normal to move ahead of the past after taking her due lessons. Even after separation she had not dwelled on it for days and cried and pined in solitude. Actually, to me, they were like normal human beings instead of the exaggerated versions of melancholic lovers.

Originally posted by: ashti1234

I understand your POV, but I don't see where I talk about passion, raging hormones or jumping on the other😆

Since when does serious talking equate to sex?

I'm just saying that they needed a sort of continuity before jumping to this light comedy mode😊