If your talking about insecurity part based on the IF article and segs saying Shivin are insecure, then please get that these all are just rumors. Kaira Shivin who have been and still are the saviour of this show have, the ones who have been praised by the producer for saving the sinking show are definitely not insecure of a side couple.
Dadi loving Karthik because he is the male child, I am not so sure. I don't blame you for thinking that as I thought the same first but as time has past I have got second thoughts. If it was only about male child than she would have loved Luv Kush similar to Karthik. Okay let's say he gets that love from her because he is the eldest male child of the family but somewhere I don't think it is just that, Dadi is a person who always follows her rules yet she is willing to bend them in Karthik's case, whether that is not being able to say no when Karthik ask permission for Naira's dance or letting Karthik to eat whatever he wants while others follow an organic food diet. That love can't merely come from Karthik being a boy, it also comes from the fact that she truly loves Karthik for the wonderful person he is.
Dadi forcing her views, is everyone's fault, no one ever stood am and calmly confidently told her she was wrong. Suvarna sometimes opposes but her tone is as such that it sounds that even she doesn't trust in what she is saying so how will Dadi listen to her. Karthik was the only person who could have Dadi's views but he was sent away. Now as Kaira are here things will change, slowly, for the better.
What made Aditya torture Kirti was the fact that Kirti had no faith on her family, though I admit that loss of faith was the fault of Goenkas (except Kaira) themselves, but still what about her brother, if she had just said one word, would not he stand up for her, even if the whole family was against wouldn't he fight for her. The man who when was a young boy had stood up for what he thought was right (not accepting SuvarNish as his parents thinking that their affair was the cause of his mother's suicide and wanting them to be punished), why wouldn't that guy stand up again for what is right.
Kaira have both led similar lives. Both were/are attached to their fathers and had to part because of a misunderstanding (not so sure about Karthik's case even that is a misunderstanding) regarding their step mother / mother. Both lived away from their families, which I guess has made them the person they are today, the people who value the smallest things of life.
Kirti Naksh on the other hand have had somewhat opposite lives. The only similarity is that both lost their partners. Naksh wanted to get married to Tara but she left him and Tara was partially right in her own place. Kirti wanted to leave Aditya but he didn't want that to happen and we all know Aditya is a creep. Naksh and Tara had to have a love marriage, while creep and Kirti was arranged. Even after 8 years Naksh remembers and somewhere she is in his heart, while just few months after her divorce, Kirti has already started liking Naksh (don't think am saying a divorced girl can't fall in love soon am just stating the difference between Kirti and Naksh).
No the Goenkas didn't start looking for matches the next morning. Even when a friend of theirs came with a proposal of her son, Dadi denied it because she had heard that the man who's proposal had been bought wasn't of good character. It was only after Bua Dadi spoke craps that caused Dadi to want to rush. Then also she noticed Kirti and realized that her granddaughter has started to like the guy, then she proposed the relation in front of the other Goenkas and asked Naira to take Rishta to Singhanias.
NaKsh (Naitik Akshara) story was Singhania based but now their story is over. The show is about Kaira and the story will be based where they are so for now the story is based in Goenka Villa. Now Goenkas are basically the old Singhanias (though I find Goenkas a lot better then that) and Singhanias are like Maheshwari's (though I find Maheshwari a lot better). Kirti Naksh are going to be like Varsha Shaurya.
Kirti Naksh moments being cute I completely disagree, there chemistry is zero to me.
They are unable to understand each other without words. Who are you talking about Kirti Naksh or Kaira. Because if Kirti Naksh understood each other without words then who come Kirti doesn't understand that Naksh doesn't love her.
The reason why Kaira fans felt bad was Naksh Kirti were made radha krishna for janmashtami along with Kaira, which was wrong, since first when Naitik Akshara were referred to as Ram Sita no one was ever given the same reference and the same should have been maintained for Kaira, even if it was just for the occasion and Kaira are the forever radha krishna of the show, it was still wrong to give the side characters a name (radha krishna) something the leads are called even if it was for one day.
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