What you like and dislike in US

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Posted: 8 years ago
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we all are discussing US actions, some of his actions are not forgivable - he may have some good trait, too.

Let's see what we like and dislike the most in US - please share.


I like his knowledge of Ayurveda ...(NOT dharma)
He did force Kanak to marry him - still did not force her in physical relationship.


that's it...can't find any more +


I do NOT like:
Forced marriage
home prisoning Kanak and Payal
forcing dharam on others
asking to drink feet water...
thinking...wife as daasi...LOL


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Posted: 8 years ago
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+ve : he cares and respects elders. I love his patience and I totally respect that.
-ve: he doesn't tthink of women as independent , rather thinks that they r nothing without a man. Doesn't think of gender equality.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I really like that he is honest, and believes in a simple lifestyle. He has no attitude, ego issues, or habit of class distinguishion like other male leads.
I don't like that he does not support the idea of working females. He does everything by force if he can't get a work done easily.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Star_Wonder

+ve : he cares and respects elders. I love his patience and I totally respect that.

-ve: he doesn't tthink of women as independent , rather thinks that they r nothing without a man. Doesn't think of gender equality.

U r r8 . that's y I want kanak to be an independent girl. If she is IPS officer like her ma, then it will be the best lesson to uma.
But I think the makers like to make kanak an ideal bahu who depends on hubby. Even staying w8 uma in so many days, i don't think she could could correct uma's thought even in 1 percent🤢

And beside, describing uma's character, I will like to say he is the best personality who respects elders and woman.
But negative point, he forces his decisions upon everyone. He doesn't want to hear what's negativity falls on others due to his forcing decisions. He doesn't understand following dharam is good, but too much is the worst. But nobody here to correct his defeats. Even maasisa doesn't show him his wrong doings
Edited by prioty - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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deslike is Uma's soch is purana ...
apart from that caring,respect to elders,patience etc..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i like his brief smiles..
i like his patience..
i like hia silence...
i like how he treats his patients..
i like his small jokes to kanak
i like his fullhearted acceptation to.fulfill the responsibilities of a husband though some of it are irritating and not needed(like no freedom in outing and a lot more)..so if improvised..i would say he is the best husband..
his respect for kanaks decision to not sleep with him..
following meditation and being a shiv bhakth..😃
he has full heart in anything he does..he does not linger..

dislike..
forced marriage
disregard to kanaka belief..
too strict..
doesnt believe in women working and earning..
punishments for.not following the rules of.his.madhouse..
silence when massissa gets angry on kanak..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Uma and his patience thats the first thing i love . The way he explains things with so much calm , gentleness but assertiveness. I always admire that. His respect to elders ; he does every work with dedication from pooja to drying kanak's hair or tying her blouse dori.
His care fot Kanak avoiding her from hitting her head to table draw to stopping her pallu to fall on the diya ( the latest).
His devotion to shiva, his ayurvedic profession , his logic against mobile or getting up early or witnessng fullmoon with scientific reasoning. I can go on...
What i dont like is though he knows certain things dont have space in modern era -like untouchability against women on monthly periods, women going out with male protection.women have to be dependent onmale relations( father husband and son), and finally the inhuman practice of drinking the water after cleaning patis feet.
Why i say he knows or even kind of seeing some logic in those things when Kanak explained , i have seen him becoming quite or not angry with Kanak or even felt sad with helplessness feeling.
So far nobody had countered him on the above points especially relating to women, or he was not aware of the things as he had not felt it as his mother and sisters accepted them wholeheartedly oreven shown happiness in following such things. So now when Kanak showed him a different perspective he is kind of restless. I hope and verymuch sure he will change when Kanak actually comes in to his life.
Sorry big post. What to do i am so much fasinated by Uma a honest, pure and good soul with a biased broughtup regarding women. It can be changed is nt it?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I like Uma's honesty, knowledge, patience, commitment, confidence and cleverness.

Don't like - forced marriage and attitude towards working women
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: deeps07

i like his brief smiles..

i like his patience..
i like hia silence...
i like how he treats his patients..
i like his small jokes to kanak
i like his fullhearted acceptation to.fulfill the responsibilities of a husband though some of it are irritating and not needed(like no freedom in outing and a lot more)..so if improvised..i would say he is the best husband..
his respect for kanaks decision to not sleep with him..
following meditation and being a shiv bhakth..😃
he has full heart in anything he does..he does not linger..




Very good description of Uma , Deeps
Your one much better so My likes exactly same as you.

I don't dislike him for anything. He had faults but who don't have faults.
Even god himself did blunders like Rama asking Seetha to do the Agni Pariksha.

Sorry so much Lord Rama..(Please mujhe Maaf karo)
I hope it wont cause any religious discussion.

But he is still god.

So I wont have any grudges for Uma.

I just like him along with this faults.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Like -
Uma is best son, best brother, best ayurvedic practitioner.
He had knowledge of Vedas . He is really good in yogasan 😳 like meena said dole whole 😉. He is very calm and patient. He helps everyone. He speaks pure Hindi ( I love his dialogue, his knowledge in shloka..he speaks Sanskrit) He is really good husban. He never force kanak physically...he respect her decision. The way he said masi sa mujhe gruhlaxmi ka apman Karna ya sabke samne use phatkar na manjoor nahi means he don't want to insult his wife I front of the whole family.
He is best in everything.
Dislke -
Forced marriage, gender equality

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