big boned or skinny?

why is it that indian guys always want a skinny model like looking girl, rather than a girl with some meat on her bones? i mean is it really fair to the big boned people who were born that way? are they doomed to marry some fat balding old guy who wants young wives and only thinks about himself? or can they keep looking for a partner who matches their own qualities and values? but it turns out that they are really gorgeous and because the girl is big boned, she has no hopes of ever marrying him?

(sry if i sound confusing)

My questions is have the "guys" ever taken a look in the mirror at themselves lately? Why do girls always have to worry about being skinny or healthy? Why is being skinny or big boned always a quality that guys look for in a girl? Did you ever hear a girl saying she wants a guy who isn't fat? The answer........NO. The reason........cause that's how society and media have brainwashed young minds to think like. Everyone has their own personal preference.....but no one cares to look what's on the inside rather than outside.

My advice to girls...........be who are, don't change yourself for anyone.....and if a guy ever comments on your weight/figure......tell him to look in the mirror and then get back to you on that one. 😉

Originally posted by: TiN24

My questions is have the "guys" ever taken a look in the mirror at themselves lately? Why do girls always have to worry about being skinny or healthy? Why is being skinny or big boned always a quality that guys look for in a girl? Did you ever hear a girl saying she wants a guy who isn't fat? The answer........NO. The reason........cause that's how society and media have brainwashed young minds to think like. Everyone has their own personal preference.....but no one cares to look what's on the inside rather than outside.

My advice to girls...........be who are, don't change yourself for anyone.....and if a guy ever comments on your weight/figure......tell him to look in the mirror and then get back to you on that one. 😉

good one😆

Originally posted by: TiN24

My questions is have the "guys" ever taken a look in the mirror at themselves lately? Why do girls always have to worry about being skinny or healthy? Why is being skinny or big boned always a quality that guys look for in a girl? Did you ever hear a girl saying she wants a guy who isn't fat? The answer........NO. The reason........cause that's how society and media have brainwashed young minds to think like. Everyone has their own personal preference.....but no one cares to look what's on the inside rather than outside.

My advice to girls...........be who are, don't change yourself for anyone.....and if a guy ever comments on your weight/figure......tell him to look in the mirror and then get back to you on that one. 😉

Very well said indeed !!

I guess all this is to be blameed on the kinda image we expect of that perfect partner.. also boys go for looks first .. but girls go for how a guy is inside !!

so who cares what ur body type is.. if someone actually likes u.. they wont see if u r skinny or fuller... u dont need 2 change 4 anyone.

welli agree with Tin in most part, but i disagree here "Did you ever hear a girl saying she wants a guy who isn't fat? The answer........NO." Welli think there are girls out there who do have choices and they do prefere handsome, hunk, intelligetn dude!! Yes, this is also true that some girls have no right to raise their voice due to family pressure, but nowadays there are girls who do raise their voice for their preference. I think it's both the side. And i don't think its only "indian"...beauty, good figure, and looks are appreciated and wanted everywhere in world ... even in west guys want beauty. To see it rationally, your eyes like to see good things and there is nothing wrong in it... but all things that look good is not beautiful inside or good. just like rose have thorns, good looking girls/guy could not be pretty from inside and could not make you happy long term.

YEA WHY DO GUYZ LIKE SKINNY CHICKZ ..I DON'T NOE WHY THEY DO DAT, BUT IF I WAS A GUY I COULD LIKE SOMETHING TO GRAB ON ..NOT SKINNY BONES 😆 ..JUST MY OPINION

Cool topic!
Hmm.. I gueess being skinny is the trend today. If you are a little chubby, guys don't like you, especially in India. Thankfully, I live outside India and here, girls with at least some meat are considered to be the most beautiful ones. Beinf fair-skinned is a plus! Though my book on weight loss is proposed for a launch next month, I am still experimenting myself with various strategies. The point is to be in the right BMI and not in the right "look" range.
Guys, you better change your perspectives. Girls who are big boned look much better than extremely skinny ones!

Best wishes,
Fatmah

Originally posted by: lub_u

YEA WHY DO GUYZ LIKE SKINNY CHICKZ ..I DON'T NOE WHY THEY DO DAT, BUT IF I WAS A GUY I COULD LIKE SOMETHING TO GRAB ON ..NOT SKINNY BONES 😆 ..JUST MY OPINION

😆 😆 😆 omg thats sarcastically funny!! 😆