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anu023

@anu023

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Posted: 8 years ago

I don't know why you girls see k dadi's asking singhus to stay in limits as insulting them.

Singhaniyas have a very "over mingling" attitude which comes across as interfering.

Frankly speaking i never liked singhus forR the chameleons that they are. The only realistic families here are maheswaris and goenkas.

Maheswaris being the realistic good family and goenkas being realistic rich family.

Stop acting like kindergarden kids. Kartik has every right to stand up against someone who badmouths his sister.

Dadi never insulted singhus she just doesn't like those people interfering in her family stuff. Showing someone their place isn't insult imo. And naira who lectures kartik about not interfering in suwarna's money transfers is the same one who time and again keeps poking her head nose when elders talk

Newly wedded girls don't do that even in arranged marriages.

And buadadi is a vile woman who once ruined naksh's shaadi at the mandap. Did u girls forget her insults to tara who was a hockey player who.left the mandap and ditched naksh?? And u all support her just because u hate k dadi.Don't u think it's hypocrisy??

And deny as much as u can u all want kartik.to be a jhoru ka.ghulam with no.mind of his own just like naitik was to akshara. But in real life such relationships don't last long.

It's just that we are all worried about the way kaira story isn't taking off the way it is supposed to. By calling kirti rotlu or anything we are insulting real life women in similar conditions. That shows we are no different from the group of didi fans that insulted us around same time last year..

Our fandom was the most tolerant one once upon a time but now we sound like didi fans who were insecure about kaira.

Oopar se mohsin liking and retweeting tweets that say we want kaira romance.Looks like he too doesn't want anything.more than romance itseems.

Why don't we all wait and let keesh shaadi happen. Who knows we may get k reconciling with manish.

Thanks for reading.

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joysoflife

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Posted: 8 years ago

@anu agree I also recalled bd insulting tara &that time except ak no singhu stood for tara.and in sawan festival bd made kirti awkward. its not said by none bd several times insulted ak upbringing saying naksh is a bad mannerd boy when he was a child.i think both k dadi&bd 're irritating.naira also sometimes overinturrupts

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beatsdongandy

@beatsdongandy

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Posted: 8 years ago

1stly try to b polite when u r just stating ur opinion.if sum ppl r not liking the storyline or the way characters r behaving or thr POV is not matching with u thr is no need of showing so much atitude towards them through ur post n acting like whatever u think is the ultimate truth.if u feel so bad if sumbody called keerti rotlu n think its an insult towards real women then u wouldnt hv been picking up on naira time n again just coz u dont like that character.keep the reel ppl as reel only n dont mix up with ppl in real life whose lives r much more than this serialistic problems..now lets come to the storyline everybody including kartik n naira bashing bua dadi as if shes the only one who is creating a mess?the way kdadi n kchachi desperately want marriage asap isnt a initiative to create mess?kartik gets offended if bua dadi says his sister is a divorcee but nvr got offended when kdadi repeatedly told keerti to adjust n try to b a good wife of that aditya infront of kartik.when dadi behaves rudely with naira,kartik stood up for her but the moment dadi starts her drama of being victimised kartik is aall guilty n sorry.that time he remembers that dadi is a elder n she is just gussa but in case oof bua dadi's one taunt hes all "rishtedar rishtedar hote hai" y wont he ask dadi y is she hurrying up for marriage if he can shut bua dadi nn naira up. bua dadi is a vile,she has done many bad things bt dadi is a hypocrite who can only preach but nvr practice.just coz she has brought a rishta for gayu so singhus dont hv right to say anything on thatt.she behaves rudely with everyone but kiran?who was just tthr ffor his professional reason?insulting naira's hardworkk for so many days just for the sake of her dictator ego?n above all when bua dadi is wrong tthey show her as wrong.they dont make her cry buckets that she has being victimised n kaira become culprit unlike kdadi's case.

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anu023

@anu023

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Posted: 8 years ago

I Don't want to comment on ur personal attack saying i act like what i speak is ultimate truth because i am not here to fight with u.

Gayu could have politely declned the rishta instead of her and naira talking about scaring the guy away.

It's basic manners that u don't talk ill or make fun of the proposal that someone has brought at that person's home itself.that's not manners.

There is a proper way to address such people who.bribng proposals even if u don't like.

Naira poking lher nose in others matter isn't good manners at all.she doesn't let the other person speak but starts sermonizing them.

U don't do that to elders.on the other hand same naira lectures kartik not to interfere in others matters.

As far as k dadi is concerned she never insulted singhus when k was around. And kartik always lectures manish ..manish or dadi kartik always stood for singhaniyas..

Kiran deserved all the insults because he wasn't being professional any way..and.naira never verbally told dadi that she was dancing with a man.According to story naira is a khatak dancer not some salsa or other couple dance form.that whole track was crap as such.

Kartik was at his polite best while defending his sister but people would see it as insult to jhoru and her family..because kartik is supposed to disown goenkas and do seva of his wife and her family

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ErisedWitch45

@ErisedWitch45

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Posted: 8 years ago

@anu - I agree with the Bua Dadi part.

I have never liked her character since she was first introduced. During her early intercations with Akshara, she was always rude and dominating to her. Which I still thought was "okay" coz we all have those kind of overbearing relatives in the family.

But during Naksh-Tara r/lship, she was just evil. I made a post long back about that. She humiliated Tara many times and slapped her coach who was like a father to Tara. Always made snarky comments about Tara's mannerisms and sometimes dress. She was instrumental in breaking that alliance. What I didn't like about the Singhanias that time was they were all embarrassed about BD and supported Tara but none of them ever made Bua Dadi stop. No one stopped her when she was on an insulting spree. They would look worried and cajole Tara later but none stopped her. This bugged me a lot.

Also with characters like Bua Dadi, I have seen they always think themselves superior when she is in the boy's part of family - like with Akshara (at the start) and Tara and now with Keerti. But when she is in the girl's part of the family, she won't be that obvious in her dislike. I despise such characters.

Also I like that Kartik stood up for his sister infront of BD. We need people like him who can stand up and ask these characters to stop with their tirade. Just coz someone is elder, doesn't necessarily mean that they are always right or that they can dehumanize some other person.

Edit - just to add that Kartik's dadi is no better. Her treatment of Naira vs Aditya was evident of that. She is quite a hypocriite and very very biased.

Edited by ErisedWitch45 - 8 years ago

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janvi0513

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Posted: 8 years ago

KD can be annoying at times to people so I really didn't mind what BD said about her, but what she said about Kirti was definitely wrong, just because Kirti is a divorcee, she isn't good enough for Naksh, wasn't Naksh left during wedding as well, if Tara left a day after the wedding, if Tara had realized just a day later that this marriage wasn't for her, wouldn't Naksh be a divorcee as well and I would have thought that BD just spoke in the moment, but this hadn't been the first time, even during Savann Mili she said something which meant that, whatever happened to Kirti, the pain in her first marriage was due to her past life deeds, I mean who the hell tells a girl who has just gotten out of an abusive relationship that it was your past life deeds that gave you the pain. Even yesterday, she called Kirti abhagan, in her mind, when she saw Naksh injured. Well if I remember even Karthik's accident happened a day after Chachu chachi came over, so did it mean that Karthik life was in danger because Kaira marriage talks started, No, not at all those were two different matters and so is this.

Coming to Naira being interfering, I don't think that as much of a problem, I would not call it interference, this is a TV serial, it can be the one closest to reality, but it still can never be reality, there is no privacy of life for all the people in any show like there is in real. In real everyone solves there own problems, or the whole family comes together to do so if the matter goes out of hand, just one or two people don't do everything and aren't considered as God's (talking about a joint family, in a nuclear family two people who do everything for you would be your parents). But this isn't real, it is serial, here it FL, ML, Fl's brother, Fl's sister, Fl's father, Ml's Dadi, Ml's chachi and so on, everything is related to the leads and they are given this right to interfere, not just Kaira all of them, even though sometimes it getting annoying, and at times I am like why do they have to make Kaira solve everyone's problems, but then this is how it is.

Well I do agree that if she sees Karthik asking about Suvarna's matters as interfering than she should realize she is too. But then I guess her attempt was to make Karthik realize that he cares for Manish that is why it is effecting him.

Kirti, I just didn't like that she came back from the party without informing Kaira. Kaira had offered for all of them to go to dinner, Kirti was the one who asked them to go, she assured she would be at the cafe reading a book, they were in there for 15 minutes or less. I didn't think Kaira were wrong anyhow, yet it was Naira who had to hear from Dadi and a person commenting Kaira were at fault when I think they weren't at all, Kaira weren't antaryami to know that Kirti would not go to the cafe and stand there at the entrance, see couples coming up and down and get effected, what was their fault? that they can't see the future?

About keesh I didn't mind them at all until people came out of the blue demanding them to be leads. I had in fact been waiting for them, though I agree that when there scenes came I found no sparks but I would have still been looking forward if it was not for people I had never seen in the forum demanding for them to be leads.

Edited by janvi0513 - 8 years ago

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tvmylove

@tvmylove

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Posted: 8 years ago

@topic maker... thank you for pen downing it well.Agree with you post

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CaptiveFreedom

@CaptiveFreedom

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well I personally like KD's character she is conservative, traditional a woman with dual standards but she is not rigid like DB she can bend infront of her children's happiness which DB can't but in this situation DB is right...KD has always been straightforward she was never the one who would be too suave initially she wasn't rushing Keesh alliance I liked her stance but now she is like she want them to get married the very day proposal is accepted...She is acting wayy too sweet which I'm not liking much...Is he same Naksh whom she slapped once? Okey she always does her "damad puja" but still there is no need to be overly friendly and overly concerned with Singhania's all of sudden this is not the character I liked...Also I didn't liked DB's opinions about divorced women but I agree with her opinion on Goenka's selfishness...Bitter people are tolerable but fake people with sugary overly suave words all of sudden 360 degree turn isn't tolerable atleast for me...not all rich people are like Goenka's...Also DB insulted Keerthi not all the Singhania's insulted Keerthi so Karthik should have name DB only as the one who behave like rishtedar but I still liked his brotherly avatar...I loved it!

In this whole scenario Naira is directly involved so I don't mind her interference

Naksh is sacrificing for whom? Naira

KD is pressurizing whom? Naira

Chachi is giving all the gayan in this world to whom? Naira

BD is giving her side of gyaan and venting out her frustration on whom? Naira

So yess Naira's interference is mandatory otherwise how will she get to know Naksh is doing this all by his own will...does he like keerthi or he is sacrificing for her...No sister would want her brother to be bali ka bakra for her as no brother can hear a single word against his sister...

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anu023

@anu023

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Posted: 8 years ago

@ janvi i have always maintained that keesh are not parallel leads.. rohan couldn't cash the opportunity and now naksh can.never become lead.

As far as k dadi is concerned that's how.most of the elders are but that doesn't give a 2months old bahu to raise her voice when.she talks..naira has to remember that bahu enters a family full of people and has to adjust rather than try to change the whole.lot according to her. 1 person can change for 10 but not 10 changing for one.

That was the flaw in plot when whole singhu clan changed for.akshara and she became too interfering at one poing .It doesn't happen that way in real.life.

chachi was given.lenience by dadi so she can talk.and chachi is elder too.