Pati Patni aur Woh (Saanvi ka baccha!) 06.07.17

Okay.. I really don't now what to write abt today's epi...

it was fine.. and explored many emotions..

and I m left with many mixed feelings..

and really cannot pick sides..

Mukhi did hurt Aru and apologized for it too...

Aru behaved like a spoiled child.. and didn't accept his apology..

I really don't like such attitudes.. bt her anger was fuelled by Raami's words..

and her blind rage has turned into blind hatred..

This is not good!

neither Mukhi nor Saanvi ever have given any reason to dbt thr relation..

bt thy haven't been open to Aru either..

Mukhi shud've talked to Aru abt his relation with Saanvi.. bt thr biggest and foremost problem is thy do not communicate.. (bcoz thy have not given a recognition to thr relation to do so.. uff its complicated.. )

first of all, thy don't understand thmslvs.. thn, thy don't try to understand each other..

this just piles up discontent..and leads to discord and heartbreak..

I don't blame Raami for perfectly gauging Aru's dil ka haal.. and taking advantage of the situation..

Bt Aru in her blind jealousy has forgotten everything.. forgotten Mukhi's character.. forgotten Saanvi's sweetness.. forgotten her own nonjudgmental open and kind nature..

thr r certain things tht r secret from her.. bt this is no way to handle a situation...

Agree Mukhi didn't give a proper answer to her queries.. bcoz he jst didn't understand her problem..

Saanvi didn't enlighten him either.. which was good.. coz I never wanted Saanvi to make Mukhi realize tht ARu has started developing feelings for him..

it mst b he who shud realize the change.. bt alas our Mukhi is not so receptive..

plus he has really short temper.. he cannot and wud not pamper a spoiled kid further..

I agree with him.. neither wud I.. thrs a limit for everything.. and Aru doesn't understand how she shud behave..

I wud like to give it to her immature age and to her impulsive temperament.. bt she needs to understand where advocating for her rights stops and where a rude/ill willed, ill tempered behaviour starts..

she was being a tantrum queen today.. and too kiddish and immature.. no dbt Mukhi can only c this spoiled kid in her.. she has to grow up if she wants to become Mukhi's woman..

I really loved the way Mukhi attempted to appease her.. thy were so close.. I thought Aru wud ask for a kiss.. 😆 and he luked in the mood to give it.. 😆

so thy have eased into having this close physical proximity now.. even Mukhi doesn't feel impulse to retreat..

kaash Aru wasn't being so stubborn.. to aaj mukhi ki pappi bhi milti aur unke haath se khana bhi khaati..❤️

bt alas tht is not going to happen...

coz things r gonna take bad turn due to Aru's jealousy..

and we are gonna sympathise with Saanvi.. coz she has started to have trouble with her bacha.

and obviously Mukhi is gonna help her and b thr for her .. any time.. anywhere.. leaving his jealous wife behind..

Precap is all abt tht.

Hope Saanvi ke bacche ke baap ka raaz jald hi open ho.. kyunki jab tak vo nahi hoga.. things betn Mukhi Aru and Saanvi r going to remain sour..

I don't know if Mukhi knows abt Saanvi's secret.. bt he is going to fulfil his duty of being her childhood friend.

At this point I don't think Saanvi has any ulterior motives..

She is too preoccupied with her own pain and situation to b meddling with Aru-Mukhi's story..uske apne problems hai..

I think Raami will have a very good sleep tonight.. uske dil ko aaj bada sukunn mila.. Aru ke dil ko jala ke..😆

so yup we will have to wait a few more epis.. to vent out our gussa on Mukhi.. bt the way things r going I think we are going to support Mukhi coz.. ARu is hell bent on justifying Mukhi's rukhapan with her rude behaviour.. 😆

Till thn enjoy the epi... Nice epi.. thrs drama bt watchable..

esp for the opening scene.. guess what Mukhi seeks in his murad before blowing off the candles.. !!

Tht was love!❤️

@Dear Wally:

No humne palti nahi maari.. we r saving equal brickbats for both Aru and Mukhi.. par dande Mukhi ko zyada padenge bcoz we r women brigade.. and totally unabashedly biased towards women.. and unka dard.. 😆

@Cora:

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Song of the Day

Dil Ibadat Kar Raha Hai
Dhadkane Meri Sun
Tujhko Main Kar Loo Hasil, Lagi Hai Yahi Dhun

Jo Bhi Jitne Pal Jeeyu
Unhe Tere Sang Jeeyu
Jo Bhi Kal Ho Ab Tera Use Tere Sang Jeeyu
Jo Bhi Saanse Main Bharoo Unhe Tere Sang Bharoo
Chahe Jo Hona Rasta Use Tere Sang Chalu

Dil Ibadat Kar Raha Hai
Dhadkane Meri Sun
Tujhko Main Kar Loo Hasil Lagi Hai Yahi Dhun


enjoy the epi.. and do hit the chaska meter if u loved it..

Luv

c ya..


Some Points To Ponder From Reviews

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1. Aru's point was right bt method and behavior was wrong.
2. Mukhi was duffod. Jst bcoz his conscience is clear regarding Saanvi, he assumed Aru wud understand his equation with Saanvi.
3. Mukhi is blind deaf and mute to the glaring changes happening to Aru.. (may b age is catching on.. duffod kahin ka)
4. Emotional outburst and logical arguments dont go hand in hand. Inadvertantly, one is overshadowed by the other and valid points are overlooked under emotionally charged words, tears, and mental distress. Mukhi did say "hum HAMARA janmdin ek saath manate hai" I m sure most of us didnt hear this "fact."
5. Mukhi expected a mature wife.. Aru expected an understanding husband.. and thy fought over it. Classic case of when two fight, the third wins.

Aise ladenge to kisi ko kuch nahi milega.. aur inki ladayi mein Raami baazi maar le jayegi
6. Mukhi has such gentle tender and subtle romantic ways to pacify his wifey. Makes it so hard for us to hate this man!
7. Saanvi track might b to highlight Aru's strength by redemption and elevate her to role of a mature lady instead of a cranky kid in Mukhi's eyes..

Sounds like a drama filled episode. Looking forward to watching it. Thanks Vi.

Thanks for the update !
I am actually a little surprised by Aru. I wish she took the high road . I can't wait to watch it during my lunch break

Originally posted by: -Namita-

Sounds like a drama filled episode. Looking forward to watching it. Thanks Vi.

drama tha.. unnecessary bhi laga mujhe.. perhaps slightly overstretched..

and overacted by Niyati..

bt mst watch ArMu love scenes for its lingering romance.. ❤️

Originally posted by: nycgal

Thanks for the update !
I am actually a little surprised by Aru. I wish she took the high road . I can't wait to watch it during my lunch break

she wud've if it wasn't for Mukhi, her new found love..

when it comes to Mukhi her brain shuts down.. 😆

this is called jealous love.. and blind rage.. 😆

VIO that was superbb review hamesha k tarah😳

this is what I wrote abt Saanvi on the other thrd..

quite points to ponder.. thnk u Deba for ur wonderful post..tht inspired me to write this..

Originally posted by: Debashri123

Although, I am fond of a lot of people on this forum...but Vio & Mallika...sending u guys a huge bear hug from my side...loved the discourse and dissection of Aru-Mukhi-Saanvi dynamics, by you two. Jalpari...thanks for your review for u got all of us thinking.
Well, I don't think I am palti-maaroing or something...but I watched the complete episode of 5th July today...so, in a better position to comment, also, we all can re-visit our statements after a bit of pondering...and we may then arrive at a different conclusion whatsoever. We gain new perspectives...every day. So, here is what I feel after having watched the entire episode without being judgmental at all...Saanvi is not negative...she does not romantically think about Mukhi...and definitely finds Aru perfect for her friend. They are just very good friends...just that they belong to opposite genders is leading to so much of a problem. I still remember...Mishri's mehendi rituals...how Mishri and Saanvi were making all efforts to bring ArMu close. I feel, Saanvi also refrained from divulging about the Halwa thing...because she could sense Aru's insecurity with her previous day's snapping...she could sense the girl is vulnerable and might take the Halwa thing in a negative way. But, when she thought so...she need not have brought that Halwa as well...why hide it only to let Mastana find it...I just feel she made the halwa as a ritual...but kind of hesistated looking at Aru's excitement and that flashy party...and fancy cake. Anyhow, I am enjoying the confusion right now. Just that, I do not want Saanvi to be disrespected by anyone...or judged because she is widow, pregnant etc. I, at times feel, she is much more vulnerable (if not insecure) than Aru...just think about why am I saying this?? The woman...must have seen a lot in her life...just let her be. I am quite sure that she would not even try coming between the couple. Aru-Mukhi...need to grow and evolve...Saanvi should just be a little careful with her words..I can see, that she means no malice.

Oh Deba I just love what u said..

I jst love this "woman" Saanvi.. and understand totally when u say tht she is more vulnerable..

indeed in every way.. and if u watch today's epi.. I m sure ur sympathies too wud lie with Saanvi..

one cannot jst rebuff someone bcoz she is preggers out of wedlock.. and all for societal norms..

first and foremost we are human.. and shud support a fellow human being in need..

I really hope Aru matures up and supports Mukhi-Saanvi's fship and stands for the right of Saanvi as she has always stood for the right thing..

I hope this track ends with Aru supporting Saanvi and both Aru-Mukhi fighting for Saanvi's rights.. and safety of her supposedly illegitimate bacha..

this wud also elevate Aru in Mukhi's eyes.. 😳

Violette...I have openly expressed my heartfelt appreciation for you and Mallika in another thread...and I do it once again in your post...right here. Woman, I just so appreciate your views..sensitive yet pragmatic. 100% agree about Aru's character dynamics. I don't understand why ITV always shows that love makes a person immature...why can't they keep the character balanced...and not loose his/her mind. Aru was a, what should I say...yes, irritating. She is in love and that has made her totally confused about things...and that is more because Mukhi is not on the same page as hers. The couple is funnily as well as irritatingly flawed.
Anyway, I have no qualms in declaring that I am Team Saanvi...yes, she is a friend to Mukhi...but that does not mean...she has no identity of her own...no life of her own. I find Saanvi having a lot of self-respect!! And Aru doesn't even know..how much Saanvi adores her. I still remember the episode when Raami was uttering some rubbish about Aru...and Saanvi just interrupted her by saying "Raami Ben, Bas kijiye...Aru jaa rahi hai ab...kitna bura bolengi..." She actually could sense Raami's repulsive behaviour towards Aru. So, Saanvi I love you...more power to such mature, open-hearted and sane people.
Another thing, I am very glad to say that Vio, I just loved your support towards Saanvi...I am glad to see a married person appreciating such relationships...why do we get so hyper...and specially Aru...who comes from a city, she needs to be a little more appreciative with all kinds of friendship...and direct her anger, hurt anxiety towards the main cause of it all...her teddy Mukhiji...who is the mother of all problems.

dont know what to say...thoda upset hoon.