Pati Patni aur Woh (Saanvi ka baccha!) 06.07.17 - Page 3

Originally posted by: -RadhaMohan-

i love this song very much ...and i am early waiting for this movie 😳
waise love Anushka's that red dress 😳😆

Radha!

Tu pan Sejal ne maate Gujrati che na? :-D

Originally posted by: C0raline

Radha!

Tu pan Sejal ne maate Gujrati che na? :-D

ha dear hu Gujarati 😊but born and brought up in mumbai i can speak write read marathi more😆
BTW missing you here😳

Thanks for the update Vio.

Originally posted by: -RadhaMohan-

Radha!

Tu pan Sejal ne maate Gujrati che na? :-D

ha dear hu Gujarati 😊but born and brought up in mumbai i can speak write read marathi more😆
BTW missing you here😳


Ani mi Marathi ahe pan Gujrati pan yete! :-D

Originally posted by: C0raline

Ani mi Marathi ahe pan Gujrati pan yete! :-D

And I grew up in Mumbai but in a suburb with prominent Gujrati presence. :-D

Did my article ship with a Gujarati CA and even audited chopdi written in Gujarati! :-D

Can speak, read and write it at a point of time. But now have not done either since more than a decade!

😆Hi Violette...commenting on your thread..your review was exactly how I felt...torn..my comments inline. Great writing btw!

Originally posted by: violette

Okay.. I really don't now what to write abt today's epi...

it was fine.. and explored many emotions..

and I m left with many mixed feelings..

and really cannot pick sides..

Mukhi did hurt Aru and apologized for it too...

Aru behaved like a spoiled child.. and didn't accept his apology..

I really don't like such attitudes.. bt her anger was fuelled by Raami's words..

and her blind rage has turned into blind hatred..

This is not good!

neither Mukhi nor Saanvi ever have given any reason to dbt thr relation..

bt thy haven't been open to Aru either..

Mukhi shud've talked to Aru abt his relation with Saanvi.. bt thr biggest and foremost problem is thy do not communicate.. (bcoz thy have not given a recognition to thr relation to do so.. uff its complicated.. ) - DITTO DITTO DITTO.

first of all, thy don't understand thmslvs.. thn, thy don't try to understand each other.. WORD

this just piles up discontent..and leads to discord and heartbreak..

I don't blame Raami for perfectly gauging Aru's dil ka haal.. and taking advantage of the situation..

Bt Aru in her blind jealousy has forgotten everything.. forgotten Mukhi's character.. forgotten Saanvi's sweetness.. forgotten her own nonjudgmental open and kind nature..

thr r certain things tht r secret from her.. bt this is no way to handle a situation...

Agree Mukhi didn't give a proper answer to her queries.. bcoz he jst didn't understand her problem..

Saanvi didn't enlighten him either.. which was good.. coz I never wanted Saanvi to make Mukhi realize tht ARu has started developing feelings for him..Agree completely..want Mukhi to think on his own about what Aru means to him.

it mst b he who shud realize the change.. bt alas our Mukhi is not so receptive..

plus he has really short temper.. he cannot and wud not pamper a spoiled kid further..

I agree with him.. neither wud I.. thrs a limit for everything.. and Aru doesn't understand how she shud behave..

I wud like to give it to her immature age and to her impulsive temperament.. bt she needs to understand where advocating for her rights stops and where a rude/ill willed, ill tempered behaviour starts..Absolutely..she was way rude over the tops today..If she was my daughter I would have given her a tight one...albeit if she was my daughter she would not be married to a village man 22 years her senior..her situation is so so weird..weird marriage, weird age gap, weird BFF behavior she doesn't understand, weird man trying to kill her in weird ways...
Actually I now want Aru to go away from here. She needs a time out.

she was being a tantrum queen today.. and too kiddish and immature.. no dbt Mukhi can only c this spoiled kid in her.. she has to grow up if she wants to become Mukhi's woman..

I really loved the way Mukhi attempted to appease her.. thy were so close.. I thought Aru wud ask for a kiss.. 😆 and he luked in the mood to give it.. 😆
😉

so thy have eased into having this close physical proximity now.. even Mukhi doesn't feel impulse to retreat..

kaash Aru wasn't being so stubborn.. to aaj mukhi ki pappi bhi milti aur unke haath se khana bhi khaati..❤️
Kiss would have been great😉 but not when there is so much gap in their thoughts. He keeps asking her what she wants...she wants him to behave like a husband to her in public..and he has spoilt her by supporting Mukhiyani publicly so far. Physical affection in privacy does not make up for loss of pride in public. So she was in no mood for a kiss I guess..maybe he was. Maybe he was like BFF ko cake khilaya tujhe to kiss doonga...😆😆Madam didnt want any.

bt alas tht is not going to happen...

coz things r gonna take bad turn due to Aru's jealousy..

and we are gonna sympathise with Saanvi.. coz she has started to have trouble with her bacha.


and obviously Mukhi is gonna help her and b thr for her .. any time.. anywhere.. leaving his jealous wife behind..Yep..felt bad for Saanvi today..AruMu are raising her BP...

Precap is all abt tht.

Hope Saanvi ke bacche ke baap ka raaz jald hi open ho.. kyunki jab tak vo nahi hoga.. things betn Mukhi Aru and Saanvi r going to remain sour..

I don't know if Mukhi knows abt Saanvi's secret.. bt he is going to fulfil his duty of being her childhood friend.

At this point I don't think Saanvi has any ulterior motives..I agree. She came out clean today. Hope they don't twist her in future.

She is too preoccupied with her own pain and situation to b meddling with Aru-Mukhi's story..uske apne problems hai..

I think Raami will have a very good sleep tonight.. uske dil ko aaj bada sukunn mila.. Aru ke dil ko jala ke..😆

so yup we will have to wait a few more epis.. to vent out our gussa on Mukhi.. bt the way things r going I think we are going to support Mukhi coz.. ARu is hell bent on justifying Mukhi's rukhapan with her rude behaviour.. 😆

Till thn enjoy the epi... Nice epi.. thrs drama bt watchable..

esp for the opening scene.. guess what Mukhi seeks in his murad before blowing off the candles.. !!

Tht was love!❤️

@Dear Wally:

No humne palti nahi maari.. we r saving equal brickbats for both Aru and Mukhi.. par dande Mukhi ko zyada padenge bcoz we r women brigade.. and totally unabashedly biased towards women.. and unka dard.. 😆

@Cora:

Please come back.

Song of the Day

Dil Ibadat Kar Raha Hai
Dhadkane Meri Sun
Tujhko Main Kar Loo Hasil, Lagi Hai Yahi Dhun

Jo Bhi Jitne Pal Jeeyu
Unhe Tere Sang Jeeyu
Jo Bhi Kal Ho Ab Tera Use Tere Sang Jeeyu
Jo Bhi Saanse Main Bharoo Unhe Tere Sang Bharoo
Chahe Jo Hona Rasta Use Tere Sang Chalu

Dil Ibadat Kar Raha Hai
Dhadkane Meri Sun
Tujhko Main Kar Loo Hasil Lagi Hai Yahi Dhun


enjoy the epi.. and do hit the chaska meter if u loved it..

Luv

c ya..

Originally posted by: violette

Okay.. I really don't now what to write abt today's epi...

it was fine.. and explored many emotions..

and I m left with many mixed feelings..

and really cannot pick sides..

Mukhi did hurt Aru and apologized for it too...

Aru behaved like a spoiled child.. and didn't accept his apology..

I really don't like such attitudes.. bt her anger was fuelled by Raami's words..

and her blind rage has turned into blind hatred..

This is not good!

neither Mukhi nor Saanvi ever have given any reason to dbt thr relation..

bt thy haven't been open to Aru either..

Mukhi shud've talked to Aru abt his relation with Saanvi.. bt thr biggest and foremost problem is thy do not communicate.. (bcoz thy have not given a recognition to thr relation to do so.. uff its complicated.. )

first of all, thy don't understand thmslvs.. thn, thy don't try to understand each other..

this just piles up discontent..and leads to discord and heartbreak..

I don't blame Raami for perfectly gauging Aru's dil ka haal.. and taking advantage of the situation..

Bt Aru in her blind jealousy has forgotten everything.. forgotten Mukhi's character.. forgotten Saanvi's sweetness.. forgotten her own nonjudgmental open and kind nature..

thr r certain things tht r secret from her.. bt this is no way to handle a situation...

Agree Mukhi didn't give a proper answer to her queries.. bcoz he jst didn't understand her problem..

Saanvi didn't enlighten him either.. which was good.. coz I never wanted Saanvi to make Mukhi realize tht ARu has started developing feelings for him..

it mst b he who shud realize the change.. bt alas our Mukhi is not so receptive..

plus he has really short temper.. he cannot and wud not pamper a spoiled kid further..

I agree with him.. neither wud I.. thrs a limit for everything.. and Aru doesn't understand how she shud behave..

I wud like to give it to her immature age and to her impulsive temperament.. bt she needs to understand where advocating for her rights stops and where a rude/ill willed, ill tempered behaviour starts..

she was being a tantrum queen today.. and too kiddish and immature.. no dbt Mukhi can only c this spoiled kid in her.. she has to grow up if she wants to become Mukhi's woman..

I really loved the way Mukhi attempted to appease her.. thy were so close.. I thought Aru wud ask for a kiss.. 😆 and he luked in the mood to give it.. 😆

so thy have eased into having this close physical proximity now.. even Mukhi doesn't feel impulse to retreat..

kaash Aru wasn't being so stubborn.. to aaj mukhi ki pappi bhi milti aur unke haath se khana bhi khaati..❤️

bt alas tht is not going to happen...

coz things r gonna take bad turn due to Aru's jealousy..

and we are gonna sympathise with Saanvi.. coz she has started to have trouble with her bacha.

and obviously Mukhi is gonna help her and b thr for her .. any time.. anywhere.. leaving his jealous wife behind..

Precap is all abt tht.

Hope Saanvi ke bacche ke baap ka raaz jald hi open ho.. kyunki jab tak vo nahi hoga.. things betn Mukhi Aru and Saanvi r going to remain sour..

I don't know if Mukhi knows abt Saanvi's secret.. bt he is going to fulfil his duty of being her childhood friend.

At this point I don't think Saanvi has any ulterior motives..

She is too preoccupied with her own pain and situation to b meddling with Aru-Mukhi's story..uske apne problems hai..

I think Raami will have a very good sleep tonight.. uske dil ko aaj bada sukunn mila.. Aru ke dil ko jala ke..😆

so yup we will have to wait a few more epis.. to vent out our gussa on Mukhi.. bt the way things r going I think we are going to support Mukhi coz.. ARu is hell bent on justifying Mukhi's rukhapan with her rude behaviour.. 😆

Till thn enjoy the epi... Nice epi.. thrs drama bt watchable..

esp for the opening scene.. guess what Mukhi seeks in his murad before blowing off the candles.. !!

Tht was love!❤️

@Dear Wally:

No humne palti nahi maari.. we r saving equal brickbats for both Aru and Mukhi.. par dande Mukhi ko zyada padenge bcoz we r women brigade.. and totally unabashedly biased towards women.. and unka dard.. 😆

@Cora:

Please come back.

Song of the Day

Dil Ibadat Kar Raha Hai
Dhadkane Meri Sun
Tujhko Main Kar Loo Hasil, Lagi Hai Yahi Dhun

Jo Bhi Jitne Pal Jeeyu
Unhe Tere Sang Jeeyu
Jo Bhi Kal Ho Ab Tera Use Tere Sang Jeeyu
Jo Bhi Saanse Main Bharoo Unhe Tere Sang Bharoo
Chahe Jo Hona Rasta Use Tere Sang Chalu

Dil Ibadat Kar Raha Hai
Dhadkane Meri Sun
Tujhko Main Kar Loo Hasil Lagi Hai Yahi Dhun


enjoy the epi.. and do hit the chaska meter if u loved it..

Luv

c ya..

@bold hehehe...i so wanted thm to kiss. I actually thought mukhi ll kiss aru coz he was to so playful at that time...asking "kya chahiye"...i was like aru pappi de de aru ko dofford 😆

@Sana:

"aaj jo usne behaved kiya wo dekh k pata chal gaya k wo dharmi ki sis hai😆😆same dharmi k jaise wo apne pati k peeche pad gayi thi."


😆Iss baat mein mujhe ek gana yaad aaya..

main hi main dekhu, tujhe aur na dekhe koi..
Ek Pal Bhi Ye Soch Rahe Na Kis Vidhi Milna Hoi
Sabse Tumhen Bachake, Kar Lungi Main Band Aankhen
pooja karungi teri, ho ke rahungi teri

dil mein tujhe bithaake, kar lungi main band aankhen
pooja karungi teri, ho ke rahungi teri


also agar adharmi bhi preggers ho jaaye to shayad Aru ko Saanvi ka problem and pain samajh aaye.. and thn she can move towards reconcilation with both her hubby and her hubby's BFF..




"Aru is like ye toffee meri hai mujhe do😆Aru kabhi bhi short temper nahi thi infact Aru hamesha situation ko acche se handle karna janti thi.. aaj jo bhi hungama hua ME FIRST ME FIRST PE wo OTT laga mujhe."


😆 Since when we talk sensibly when emotionally highly charged up! Who can know tht better thn us women.. jinka mood har 15 din mein badalta rehta hai.. (obviously solely due to biological reasons.. 😉 😆)

Cant really blame Aru, bt she cud've acted a bit maturely.. par ladki abhi 22 saal ki hai.. I have seen worst immaturity at this age by youngsters.. (including me!)



"Rami and uski pyaar MOHABBAT pr sayaris.. ohh god ye to ab koi chance nahi mis karegi Aru ko bhadkane ka😡"


--- Mujhe to darr hai kahin Raami Lalji ko bhool to nahi gayi.. 😆 khamkha dusro ke pachdo mein pad rahi hai.. isse to accha Lalji ke saath ramleela mein hi busy rehti..😆


"poor mukhi ji ek kuwaara baap tha yaha dhotiman shadisuda baap hoga.."

--- Really if Aru believes stupid Rami on this, I wud personaly go and smack her.. itna hi jaan usne apne Mukhijiko..


"Mukhi ji Aru ko sorry bole and khana laaye call bhi kiya BUT ARU RUT KI SAB LINES VAYASAT THI🤣"

--- vyast nahi trast thi.. 🤣🤣

"mukhi ji ne jab pucha kya chahiye bol tab mujhe bhi laga Aru want kiss😆VIO tere and mere vichaar kitne sanskari hai😉"

--- hamare asanskar bahot ucch koti ke hai.. 🤣.. Mukhi itna bhaav de raha tha.. clearcut signals de raha tha.. to asanskari vicchar to aane hi the.. 🤣🤣


"but sabse acchi baat thi mukhi ji ki wish😳jo unhone apni gaurani k liye maangi.."

--- The irony is tht.. ki vo fulfill nahi huyi.. Aru ko hasne bajaye rulayenge hamare pyaare Mukhiji...

"About saanvi i think mukhi ko saanvi k baby ka baap kaun hai sayad pata hoga.."

--- u may b right.. it seems he knows her secret and "supports" her.. so tht rules out Kailash being the illegitimate baap..

"vio teri wo baat se me agree karti hu k Aru ko mukhi ki woman banna chahiye..and i really want some mature talk ArMu k beach.now its a high time."

---I think Aru wud realize this soon enuf.. bt mature track to separation ke baad hi hoga.. when thy will realize thr love and give benaam sa hi bt a silent acceptance of thr relation..

Well written Sana..

Originally posted by: Sumo23

Aru's reaction might have been over the top but still felt bad for Aru today... I'd earlier thought mukhiji was doing it on purpose, but it wasn't the case...

There was no mention of Saanvi's birthday being on the same day.. Is it or is it not?? Why is it such a top level secret?? If he can see she is so hurt why can't he share with Aru the reason for feeding the cake to Saanvi first??

I hope they don't overdo the Saanvi angle.. They have enough reasons amongst themselves to separate they don't need Saanvi's involvement to this extent... Let her be the positive character that she is... They can handle her story as a separate track..

The wish part was the saving grace...

Edit - Thanks for the beautiful review...

@Sumo:

Mukhiji is a buddhuraam.. Saanvi is absolutely right in understanding her friend.. he is buddhu in mamla of women..

it is indeed Saanvi's birthday.. Mukhi said it.. it was so fleetingly mentioned I m sure most of us missed it..

bt thn y Uma ben didn't mention it.. y no one else knows abt it.. or more importantly y does Saanvi doesn't celebrate her birthday?

May b further truth abt it will b revealed today.

Wen Mukhi got sense to talk to Aru, Aru lost it! Such dumbo these two r.. inka kuch nahi ho sakta.. inhe unke haal pe chod dena chahiye..

laato ke bhooot baton se nahi mante.. separate honge tab hi akal ayegi.. 😆

I think Saanvi's story is imp for Aru's redemption and to elevate her character in Mukhi's eyes..

otherwise I see no other purpose for Saanvi's preggy thing bringing in at this point in story..

viewers r clear tht it cannot b Mukhi's child and no one wud ever suspect it.. and she is not going to b third angle in this story..

so obviously it has one purpose, to highlight Aru's strengths and elevate her to the level of a mature lady instead of a cranky kid!

@Deba:

"I don't understand why ITV always shows that love makes a person immature...why can't they keep the character balanced...and not loose his/her mind. "

-- I understand ur annoyance.. I too have followed previous shows with age gap hoping the same thing.. the two most popular one being Kuch to Log Kahenge (KTLK) based on pak serial Dhoop Kinarey and Reporters both on Sony in hopes of seeing a revolution..in terms of modern, sensible, smart, intelligent female protagonists.. bt alas how badly thy failed us..




Aru was a, what should I say...yes, irritating. She is in love and that has made her totally confused about things...and that is more because Mukhi is not on the same page as hers. The couple is funnily as well as irritatingly flawed."

-- and adorable too.. jst wen we start to get annoyed with thr chrctr traits thy come up with tht we go awe abt.. 😆 --


"And Aru doesn't even know..how much Saanvi adores her. I still remember the episode when Raami was uttering some rubbish about Aru...and Saanvi just interrupted her by saying "Raami Ben, Bas kijiye...Aru jaa rahi hai ab...kitna bura bolengi..." She actually could sense Raami's repulsive behaviour towards Aru."

-- u r right.. Aru forgot how supportive saanvi was to her.. she is observant, sensitive, and v mature. I guess age and experience speaks..

"So, Saanvi I love you...more power to such mature, open-hearted and sane people."

-- while we love such characters, I understand ppl's apprehension abt Saanvi's character...

the show KTLK tht I mentioned abv had same story as its premises.. a 42 year old doc falling for 23 year old young intern.. and it too had a third angle.. male protagonists BFF and colleague of 12 years.. who harboured one-sided love.. bt I had no high hopes on her.. as her character was always this obsessive and pushy kind of character.. bt I had loved/sympathized with her too .. coz she had waited 12 years for this man to say yes, and eventually lost him to a much younger girl. So cud understand her bitterness.. bt instead of handling her character maturely.. and giving her honourable exit. thy turned her into a regular vamp.. and ironically, tht track brot the highest ever TRPs for the show . 😆 so yes.. ppl's apprehensions r not unfounded.. its us who r having supreme faith on Moh Moh CVs😆.


"Another thing, I am very glad to say that Vio, I just loved your support towards Saanvi...I am glad to see a married person appreciating such relationships..."

-- if education doesn't enlighten us and make us better person, thn wats the use of such education.. I don't understand so called "educated" ppl.. and thr biases.. fear is overcome by knowledge.. otherwise such knowledge is useless.. I will always support humanity/kindness towards over other living beings over anything..

"why do we get so hyper...and specially Aru...who comes from a city, she needs to be a little more appreciative with all kinds of friendship...and direct her anger, hurt anxiety towards the main cause of it all...her teddy Mukhiji...who is the mother of all problems."

-- u r so right here.. 😆 bt she does try to direct her anger towards Mukhi.. her primary anger is towards Mukhi and not Saanvi..it is evident bt we overlook bcoz of Saanvi's presence .. bt really Mukhi is such a dumbo.. and Saanvi is found as an easy scapegoat here.. 😆..

Aru doesn't have any prejudice or bias towards ppl like Saanvi, its jst tht she is not in her right senses. Once she is back into being herself, the very fine and brilliant girl Arundhati Nanavati, we will see tht she wud b the first one to support Saanvi in her cause..

now I believe Saanvi track is introduce to redeem and elevate Aru in Mukhi's eyes..


thnk u so much for your lovely post Deba.. Keep writing..