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Social Networking Sites... Public Forums... A platform to share ones views... they give people immense power, a power many of us cannot handle.
when I come here(or any other SNSs for that matter) I see all (*edited* Not all, but many) are extreme people. either they are loving something, or they are hating it. both very passionately. their is no midway between them.
And thats what I dont get.
If I like something, that doesnt mean I wont see its flaws.
If I dislike something, that too doesnt mean I wont see the good things it has.
Yes everyone has the right to express his/her views, both positive and negative. but there is a line between 'stating our point' and 'bashing those with whom our point doesnt match'. why this has be a place of judgement. say something and you will be judged, either positive or negative, doesnt matter. but who are we to judge others, we are noone to decide who's the real fan or who's the fake one. everyone has own POV, we all need to learn how to say that considerately.
it feels like we cannot tell a thing politely without hurting others anymore. this world has become such an ajeeb place. some people like me dont fit in here anymore. people like me who already has loads of pareshanis in AD, we come here to get away from the stress of life, to spend some time in our Sapno ki Duniya, where we can relax a bit. but so much negativity around, only the opposite happens.
I know may be my this blabbering wont make any faraq, still as someone who's been on this site for years, who stick to this place despite all the negativity for so much time, I am requesting you all, Be patient, Be considerate. when you express your thoughts, please think about the feeling of those who will read it. you can be a Lover, you can be a Hater, but YOU CAN ALWAYS BE POLITE.
I know this is not directly related to IPK3, but this forum compelled me to talk about this. if Mods(when we have one) think this topic should be closed, they can close it. i'll myself report if needed.
bas dont start any bashing here in this thread please. *PEACE*
when I come here(or any other SNSs for that matter) I see all (*edited* Not all, but many) are extreme people. either they are loving something, or they are hating it. both very passionately. their is no midway between them.
And thats what I dont get.
If I like something, that doesnt mean I wont see its flaws.
If I dislike something, that too doesnt mean I wont see the good things it has.
Yes everyone has the right to express his/her views, both positive and negative. but there is a line between 'stating our point' and 'bashing those with whom our point doesnt match'. why this has be a place of judgement. say something and you will be judged, either positive or negative, doesnt matter. but who are we to judge others, we are noone to decide who's the real fan or who's the fake one. everyone has own POV, we all need to learn how to say that considerately.
it feels like we cannot tell a thing politely without hurting others anymore. this world has become such an ajeeb place. some people like me dont fit in here anymore. people like me who already has loads of pareshanis in AD, we come here to get away from the stress of life, to spend some time in our Sapno ki Duniya, where we can relax a bit. but so much negativity around, only the opposite happens.
I know may be my this blabbering wont make any faraq, still as someone who's been on this site for years, who stick to this place despite all the negativity for so much time, I am requesting you all, Be patient, Be considerate. when you express your thoughts, please think about the feeling of those who will read it. you can be a Lover, you can be a Hater, but YOU CAN ALWAYS BE POLITE.
I know this is not directly related to IPK3, but this forum compelled me to talk about this. if Mods(when we have one) think this topic should be closed, they can close it. i'll myself report if needed.
bas dont start any bashing here in this thread please. *PEACE*
Anupamaa
