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Posted: 17 years ago
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hi,

I want u r help and guide ness. Someone please help me, actually I have got engaged. We have 2 months time for marriage but my would be wants to move very closely even in these two months. But the same I am unable to do. I have told him many times that every thing we will continue after marriage. And now we will just share the views. But sometimes he will accepts it but Sometimes his expressions make me frighten make me think that I am hurting him.

In this situation in what way I should connivance him so that he is not hurt and there should not be any indifference between us.

These things even I am unable to discuss with my parents. Even I have got no good friends to take opinion

So please take initiative and help me.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I am glad you discussed it here with us. But I am confused as to what should I suggest.. the situation is really complicated . Try convincing your fiancee that it's not possible rite now nd tell him that you won't say no to him after you get married to him.. so jus tell him to be patient. Try discussin it wid him on fone.. try making him understand. 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: shizajaved

I am glad you discussed it here with us. But I am confused as to what should I suggest.. the situation is really complicated . Try convincing your fiancee that it's not possible rite now nd tell him that you won't say no to him after you get married to him.. so jus tell him to be patient. Try discussin it wid him on fone.. try making him understand. 😳

totally agree.........

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: shizajaved

I am glad you discussed it here with us. But I am confused as to what should I suggest.. the situation is really complicated . Try convincing your fiancee that it's not possible rite now nd tell him that you won't say no to him after you get married to him.. so jus tell him to be patient. Try discussin it wid him on fone.. try making him understand. 😳

ya i agrre wid u on dis
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Yeah u should try to make him understand. U really need to tell him that doing that is not really right before marriage and u want to wait.

Two months isn't that long its only 8 weeks and I'm sure he can wait.

Good Luck

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angeleyes 2

Yeah u should try to make him understand. U really need to tell him that doing that is not really right before marriage and u want to wait.

Two months isn't that long its only 8 weeks and I'm sure he can wait.

Good Luck

Aww i agree to watch Pooja &nd Shiza said😊 Try to explain him your feelings so you won't think you're hurting him.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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i think that you should just talk to him and tell him that your not comfortable doing anything before marriage, and ask im to respect that and just wait 2 months

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