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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#211

Hello Lovelies!

How are you all doing?

Last time it was super fun to chat with you all.

I have updated the list of future chats in the 1st page if you are interested to know what are we going to do together.

As I said in my last post, I will be busy this WE.

So no chat with characters, so came with an idea.

May be an important subject.

ATTRACTION vs LOVE vs OBSESSION vs LUST (ALOL)

A lot of things are related in this world and I think these 4 words are related in their own ways according to people's POV.

The feeling one has for another person depends on the percentage level of ALOL

Few have higher % of LOVE than anything else.

Few 50-50 of LOVE/ATTRACTION or LOVE/OBSESSION...

So let's discuss about it.

I know it's not an easy subject to deal but that what rules the world.

And all of the stories we read are related to ALOL.

And all of my stories have a % more of something than other. Am I right or am I just thinking that I'm right?

For me:

ATTRACTION: at first sight, by appearance, by character

LOVE: something special, the need to by that person's side, something undefinable

OBSESSION: leads to harm, another level of need, longing and hurt are the emotions

LUST: physical, abuse, something which can lead to crime

These are the things I get when I hear those words.

What about you all? When you hear about ALOL, what do you think?

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ATTRACTION to LOVE? Yes possible 50% - Love will be always in the air with the attraction always attached to it.

ATTRACTION to OBSESSION? Possible 25% - The hurt will be there in the corner of heart to one of the partners.

ATTRACTION to LUST? 25% - Purely physical

LOVE to ATTRACTION? Rare

LOVE to OBSESSION? Highly possible and dangerous

LOVE to LUST? Kind of disgusting

OBSESSION to ATTRACTION? Don't know.

OBSESSION to LOVE? Possible when the obsessed person comes out of his or hers bubble.

OBSESSION to LUST? Possible.

LUST to ATTRACTION? 0.01%

LUST to LOVE? Possibilities are there.

LUST to OBSESSION? No idea.

This is what I think of the transformation of those feelings.

What do you think about it? I mean your opinion about these transformations.

If possible let me know for each category.

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ATTRACTION: TOFM - Flechazo

LOVE: POD

OBSESSION: MP - CAY (may be)

LUST: CAY

I don't know where I should put other stories.

Help me guys.

In which category you will put my stories in ALOL?

***

In the show:

Suraj: ATTRACTION & LOVE

Chakor: LOVE

It's in my POV!

Suraj was 1st attracted to her then it turned into respect and finally to LOVE.

Do you agree with me?

According to you it's same or not? If it's no tell us how you classify Sukor?

Finally the end!

It's a long post and I'm sorry for that.

Hope you all find this interesting to answer.

If it's not just tell me.

And buddies!

If you have any idea of what we can do here, let us all know.

Thanks a lot for reading!

If possible answer and give your opinions.

See you!

- Maithili

(Please don't quote, just reply.)

Edited by maithu_ - 8 years ago

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Chasa

@Chasa

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#212

nic analysis👏👏

in my pov

suraj: love, attraction and a little bit of lust

chakor: love

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sonali mishra

@Shivi_forever

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#213

Good analysis👏

For me

Suraj love , lust & attraction

Chakor Love & attraction

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Hope09

@Hope09

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#214

My pov 😃

For me ALOL is :

ATTRACTION- Infatuation or something which u feel for your crush

LOVE - Is when just sitting beside them u can share your everything... Who is willing to listen to your everything... Who can see through you, understand without any words ur inner feelings.

OBSESSION - When u r high on a feeling to not lose someone...

LUST- A shower of wrong inner desires of a person.

TRANSFORMATIONS :

Attraction to love - 20 %

Love to obsession-60%

Lust to love 15%

Attraction to Lust - 80%

In the Show :

Suraj : Love and 50% of obsession.

Chakor: Love

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Riddhima

@Khushi_Dillse

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#215

As buddha said :-

When you like(attraction) a flower you just pluck it .

But when you love a flower you watered it daily to keep alive.

When you like (attract) someone you want them to be with you because of your happiness

When you truly love someone,you will care for their happiness even if they are not with you..

Attraction is physical, its a sexual craving to someone.
Love is deeper than looks and sex , you crave someone's soul and mind.

Attraction is hot and rough.
Love is warm and gentle.

Attraction is Rapid and Suspenseful.
Love is Patient and Secure.

Attraction is wanting someone HOT.
Love is knowing your partner is a complete mess and still love them.

Attraction is, when he/she doesn't look good anymore.
Love is watching someone grow old/change still love them.

Obsession is when you are too interested in something/someone and not able to think about anything else except for themself. Which is good if it is at a particular level. If that threshold is crossed then it is not good for both.

And Lust means any addiction, whether it be sex, po*nography, drugs, alcohol, and even food. Lust affects the mind and causes the body to crave things which are bad for us.

Sorry I'm not good in mathematics...

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nemo316

@nemo316

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

#216

Great analysis.

-Attraction: attraction is superficial and can be temporary.

-Love: is a deep feeling that doesn't go away easily.

-Obsession: is an unhealthy, it implies lack of control on one's actions. Obsession can go on for a long time.

-Lust : is purely physical and in many cases is not accompanied by love. Lust is fleeting, it soon dies away after getting what you'r after.

Many times obsession and lust show a lack of inhibition and breaking moral codes.

attraction to love: 40%

attraction to obsession: 10%

attraction to lust: 10%

love to attraction: if it was true love, then no way.

love to obsession: 20%

love to lust: rare, I agree disgusting.

lust to love: 20%

lust to obsession: only if you don't get what you want.

In the show

Suraj: attraction with a little bit of lust that turned to love.

Chakor: love

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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#217

Originally posted by: chasa
nice analysis👏👏
in my pov
suraj: love, attraction and a little bit of lust
chakor: love

Thank you dear!
Agree with you for the Suraj in the show where a pinch of lust was shown in the beginning.

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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#218

Originally posted by: katheriene
Good analysis👏
For me
Suraj love , lust & attraction
Chakor Love & attraction

Thanks yaar!
I really don't know if I saw attraction from Chakor to Suraj may be when she started to feel for him.
I really don't know.
According to you, when did attraction take part in Chakor's side?

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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#219

Originally posted by: J.arora
My pov 😃

For me ALOL is :

ATTRACTION- Infatuation or something which u feel for your crush
LOVE - Is when just sitting beside them u can share your everything... Who is willing to listen to your everything... Who can see through you, understand without any words ur inner feelings.
OBSESSION - When u r high on a feeling to not lose someone...
LUST- A shower of wrong inner desires of a person.

TRANSFORMATIONS :

Attraction to love - 20 %
Love to obsession-60%
Lust to love 15%
Attraction to Lust - 80%

In the Show :
Suraj : Love and 50% of obsession.
Chakor: Love

It's interesting to see your definition of ALOL!
And the transformations you said somewhat were close to what I feel.
Nowadays we can see a bit of obsessed Suraj and I want possessiveness to overtake.
Have to wait as the CVs are bent on to make Chakor jealous.

Thanks for participating and sharing your views.

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sumsukor

@sumsukor

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#220

Originally posted by: maithu_

It's interesting to see your definition of ALOL!
And the transformations you said somewhat were close to what I feel.
Nowadays we can see a bit of obsessed Suraj and I want possessiveness to overtake.
Have to wait as the CVs are bent on to make Chakor jealous.

Thanks for participating and sharing your views.

Very much second it

Suraj.. Attraction, respect (a bit out of portion context) love now possessiveness due to obsession.

Chakor love with a bit of attraction(especially after the chain break and not slapping her)

Kudos for coming up with such a novel idea...