Let's forgive anika!!! The Victim and Condemn The Abuser

Yupp all thanks to those who posted in my recent post "if we can accept anika with her faults why not shivaay too?" you guys have inspired me to make this post, because what I have gathered from your POV is that anika is only a "Victim" of all the injustice,hatred,misery so whatever she will do even if it is wrong she will always win because many have wronged her and despite of their efforts to make her feel better and special they will never be able to heal her wounds and hurts even if she's responsible for most of her miseries and allowed everyone to abuse her she's not wrong she will always be seen and pitied as a victim, so it's time to feel pity for her because that's how her character has been developed particularly after marriage track, so many chances she had to walk out of the life of all oberois with dignity but she stayed and chosen to be humiliated and insulted all thanks to fatima(Pickachu) for pointing it out that after marriage anika shouldn't have listened to dadi's lectures and should have remained firmed in her decision of not going to live with oberois after what shivaay put her through from that point till date it was anika's decision to stay because shivaay told her after the reception that he start the divorce proceedings and even after that she stayed and performed all post wedding ceremonies, it was anika who chose to be a victim.