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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today I am too much disapointed with Jhanvi. Om told her clearly that he did the marriage only to save her and he is not happy and he wants Gauri to leave but she is not at all ready to listen to his own son. I dont know what kind of mom she is ? Its the same Jhanvi who said Shivaay accepting and not accepting Anikaa is his decision we shld not force but now when it comes to Omkara then she doesnt care about his feelings she is just forcing him when she knows that OmGauri's marriage is not at all a proper marriage.

Not only Jhanvi the entire family is forcing him when it is very clear from Om's face that he is not happy. Om needs time to understand why cant the family members give him some time. Now only he has come out from a problem so he needs time . The guy never had time to think about his own life and he spent all the time thinking and trying to solve his parents problems and he was doing everything to make his mom happy and only thinking about his parents life but the same parents cant even understand him.


Om is still not in love ...yes he cares about Gauri but why should he ask her to stay in the house when he doesnt love her. I like how he is very clear about his decision and he is correct in his pov . Why should he accept Gauri or let her stay in his house when their marriage itself is not at all a proper marriage.
Hope the family members and Gauri give Om some time first instead of everybody forcing him. Forcing Om is not the right way its just like emotionally blackmailing him. May it be Svetlana or Kali Thakur or his Own family memebers everyone make use of his emotional side and attacking him emotionally knowing that he is sensitive.

I want Om to first be friend with Gauri then trust her and then I want him to fall in love 😊 but for all that to happen the family members and Gauri should give him some time so that he can think. Hope they understand him and stop forcing him.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post loved your views. Agree what you said about Om.
But think in a way Om is getting what he did with others. He forced Tej to stay with Janvi even when he clearly knows Tej despises Janvi so much and Janvi being too much in love with Tej taking revenge from Om by forcing him to stay with Gauri. Both Tej and Om married runaway brides. Difference is Janvi ran away from good person and married a monster Tej/ janvi who did it for his personal satisfaction and gain where as Gauri ran away from the monster and married a good person Om who married her to save her reputation without any personal benefit.
Om exposed Shiv-Annika before family so Shivaye exposed his and Gauri wedding in front of family. Difference here is they showed how Om got to know about it and also Om knew Shiv Annika status always still they were forced to stay together whereas we don't know how shivaye came to know and Shivaye thinks OmGauri have a love wedding. So I won't say it's shivaye or dadi's too much fault as they have no idea about the real deal between rikara. Only one complaint they didn't even asked them clearly.
My point is It's Oberoi tradition that they force everyone to stay in marriage even if person don't want to they don't give other chance to breath and think. So Om is not the only one to be forced and MAIN Reason: OmGauri has to stay in same house to fall in love so without anyone forcing them they won't stay.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Itna rational thinking and gul.. 😲
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dilbole_ShiOmRu

Nice post loved your views. Agree what you said about Om.
But think in a way Om is getting what he did with others. He forced Tej to stay with Janvi even when he clearly knows Tej despises Janvi so much and Janvi being too much in love with Tej taking revenge from Om by forcing him to stay with Gauri. Both Tej and Om married runaway brides. Difference is Janvi ran away from good person and married a monster Tej/ janvi who did it for his personal satisfaction and gain where as Gauri ran away from the monster and married a good person Om who married her to save her reputation without any personal benefit.
Om exposed Shiv-Annika before family so Shivaye exposed his and Gauri wedding in front of family. Difference here is they showed how Om got to know about it and also Om knew Shiv Annika status always still they were forced to stay together whereas we don't know how shivaye came to know and Shivaye thinks OmGauri have a love wedding. So I won't say it's shivaye or dadi's too much fault as they have no idea about the real deal between rikara. Only one complaint they didn't even asked them clearly.
My point is It's Oberoi tradition that they force everyone to stay in marriage even if person don't want to they don't give other chance to breath and think. So Om is not the only one to be forced and MAIN Reason: OmGauri has to stay in same house to fall in love so without anyone forcing them they won't stay.

Agree with you they want everything to happen inside Oberoi Mansion but still the entire family not understanding Om and completely ignoring him looks too much illogical and not at all believable . Daadi was always like that but Shivaay should have talked to Om because Shivaay always said that he understands Om more than Om understands himself and that is how their relationship was but now he dint ask Om anything and he also could not read his brothers face. It was so much evident from Om's face that he is not happy but no one bothered to ask him anything . All the rituals they did today and that ring ceremony should be done with both their consent and wholeheartedly but here it's just forced and like Om said to Jhanvi it's all fake and jhoot. I just wished that at least Shivaay or Jhanvi would understand him and give him some time but no the makers just want everything to be forced . But still I liked Om Jhanvi's scene he said everything to his mom thinking that she will understand him and when Jhanvi just said him to get ready and come down even after hearing everything... Om dint argue further he just obeyed his moms order and just came down 😊
Edited by -yami - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Omkara can do a big favour on himself , Gauri n his family by announcing n telling the whole story infront of his family n finish this drama :)

Hating the way he is shouting screaming n calling Gauri gold digger n I m hating to see Gauri taking his crap n not giving bsck to him , where is Gauri dabangiri hating to see her becharipan

Gauri should run away far far from Omkara [LOL]

Omkara needs space to think n Gauri should go away from OM it's high time seeing both of them so unhappy around each other
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Gauri is not forcing hseself to Omkara btw his anger Mis judgement n his rudeness is getting out of order [BR][BR]Cvs please do not ruin his character anymore he is still old Om but sometime he behaves totally differev[BR][BR]Gauri fault too she should run away chup chap

Do not why she is taking all these crap from him , this annoys me big time

If he is unhappy finish it n tell everyone everything
Edited by Gaurika17 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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u said it finally a good post here and thank u so much for this :)


aftr the epi meri dil main jo bhi tha i said on twitter ..yaha forum main koi kesi k opinion respect nai kar sakta esp if u r n ML side and i will say dnt know about athrs but i am teamomkara gauri really irritated me by her non stop crying i know she is not wrong , khair i personally dnt care about what gauri think about omkara becz its aik tarfa pyaar only but i am khafa and very angry at Shivaay and Jhanvi Jeske lye omkara apni zindagi tabah karne k kye bhi tyaar tha from now shivaay is dadi part2 for me jhanvi alwys was selfish and still selfish she dnt deserves a son like Omkara
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -yami

Agree with you they want everything to happen inside Oberoi Mansion but still the entire family not understanding Om and completely ignoring him looks too much illogical and not at all believable . Daadi was always like that but Shivaay should have talked to Om because Shivaay always said that he understands Om more than Om understands himself and that is how their relationship was but now he dint ask Om anything and he also could not read his brothers face. It was so much evident from Om's face that he is not happy but no one bothered to ask him anything . All the rituals they did today and that ring ceremony should be done with both their consent and wholeheartedly but here it's just forced and like Om said to Jhanvi it's all fake and jhoot. I just wished that at least Shivaay or Jhanvi would understand him and give him some time but no the makers just want everything to be forced . But still I liked Om Jhanvi's scene he said everything to his mom thinking that she will understand him and when Jhanvi just said him to get ready and come down even after hearing everything... Om dint argue further he just obeyed his moms order and just came down😊

Shivaye not understanding Om is not something new. He don't know about accident till date, he couldn't understand why Om took drugs so him not knowing what's going in Om's heart is nothing new. It's always OmRu who seemed to understand shivaye and his problems more than he understand their problems. He do love them and support them but never understand what going inside their heart.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gaurika17

Omkara can do a big favour on himself , Gauri n his family by announcing n telling the whole story infront of his family n finish this drama :)

Hating the way he is shouting screaming n calling Gauri gold digger n I m hating to see Gauri taking his crap n not giving bsck to him , where is Gauri dabangiri hating to see her becharipan

Gauri should run away far far from Omkara 😆

Omkara needs space to think n Gauri should go away from OM it's high time seeing both of them so unhappy around each other

I understand Om's anger on Gauri is unreasonable but I will blame both of them for not revealing the truth ya more Om as he is the one who actually don't want this but Gauri is also blamable be it 10% but yes she is as she told Janvi and Bua Ma politely and firmly so she can even tell the family about it. Moreover I love her when she give back to Om instead of crying. The way she told him off on first night I want that Gauri.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gaurika17

Gauri is not forcing hseself to Omkara btw his anger Mis judgement n his rudeness is getting out of order

Cvs please do not ruin his character anymore he is still old Om but sometime he behaves totally differev

Gauri fault too she should run away chup chap

Do not why she is taking all these crap from him , this annoys me big time

If he is unhappy finish it n tell everyone everything

but Om wanted to say everyone that he doesn't accept the marriage but it was Gauri who stopped him and said him that she would leave. Om still shared everything with his mom but she was not ready to listen and I know it's of no use telling everyone because in TV soaps everyone would just support FL it's a common thing. I have the same question like Om asked in the episode. Gauri could escape from a person like Kali but she can't leave Oberoi Mansion ? even today whenever he saw her she was happily smiling with everyone and she looked happy so he thinks that may be Gauri is not interested in leaving and to add to that still the misunderstanding is there still he thinks that Gauri is also a reason for Jhanvi Thakurian's death. It's only we audience who know about Gauri ...Om doesn't know anything about Gauri so expecting him to trust her is irrational . He is just a human he doesn't have any sixth sense to read others mind. Anyways this post is just about Om's pov. I have not said anything about Gauri In this post. For me both are correct in their pov. I am not going to blame only one.
Edited by -yami - 8 years ago

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