Most husband's to their wife's - Page 4

Originally posted by: thelostgirl

Hi

Whatever happened with u is just so unfortunate..and I really dont know what to say

My papa is a gem ...though my papa s parents hell torture us emotionally and mentallly

All I want to say is may god give u all courage to fight this situation and come out of it gracefully

And M really happy that u r sharing ur problems as there r many people here who can help or suggest ...also u must be also feeling light hearted after sharing all this

Just one thing I want to tell u is ...Dont let ur son grow in such a environment where he learns that a man can treat women like shit and women have to tolerate all this in the name of marriage...this will certainly harm ur son s mentality some where

M sorry for what m going to say bt dont let ur son become another abuser like ur Father in law and husband

One suggestion I have for u...There s show called Kuch Rang Pyar k aise bhi which airs on Sony at 9:30 pm...on its forum there a girl her user id is Tia.O...every day from mon to fri she posts a thread called Tia's Analysis ir discussion thread...which is sooo morally boosting ...u should read her threads...they ll make u more strong and clear as to what to do next...really her posts r worth reading

http://www.india-forums.com/member_posts.asp?PF=740022

This above link is of Tia s profile...do read all her threads...they ll surely help u a lot

All the best..!!

You and ur son deserve the best

Priya

Originally posted by: _Darling_

Mamma boy? But aren't most men like that? In my culture most men side with mom unless the wife knows how to manipulate and smart enough to survive and make the husband side with her. But those wives too only can do that if they came from normal family and financially stable family. Then they get lucky and the in-laws are actually scared to do anything more or don't treat her bad. They know the girls family is there and will protect her.

But if the wife didn't have parents, or had divorced parents, or abusive parents or came from a poor family, then it doesn't matter. They will abuse the girl and think it's okay to do so. No manipulations, goodness, begging, etc from the wife will work then.

Originally posted by: MissIamTheBoss

hey, a very practical reply, actually i am married and my husband is very sweet and naive type. He never argued with anyone. But my in law are dominating and they manipulates my husbands too but as u said if the wife knows how to manipulate and smart enough to survive and make the husband side with her. But those wives too only can do that if they came from normal family and financially stable family. Then they get lucky and the in-laws are actually scared to do anything more or don't treat her bad. They know the girls family is there and will protect her, same case is with me 😉...in starting my in laws were very dominating with me in wrong ways and wanted everything of mine as per their wish, i tolerated 1-2 months then i gave them back and showed my nature that i cant be dominated for wrong things and cannot live as per their wish, also my husband is very against with such dominating nature so silently he was with me though he never said anything to his parents not me...but i was alone capable of handle everything also my family was with me. Now me, my husband and in laws lives with peace in a same home. My in laws do not have guts to mess with me😆, so moral of the story is "do not do torture others and do not tolerate torture of others at any cost".

@Ktiluvu...dear that's really sad to know about your married life, but seriously you need to do something to get rid of this situation, life is too long to bear such behavior of family members. Only you can help yourself, i learned this from experience in my life.

I hope some positive regarding this issue happens with you.