Most husband's to their wife's

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Husband relationship is the most selfish relationship amoung human relationships... They want everything from their wife especially Indian husband's demands dowry from wife parents, and think wife means his slave and also his parents slave... He expects his wife to cook, clean, wash, nurse, do foot massage to him and his parents... He will hurt his wife mentally and physically and think he is showing manliness...when his wife is not earning he discriminate her or won't give respect to her but if wife is working then he will be insecure on her character... He orders wife to take care of his parents but won't even allow his wife to talk to her parents even in a phone call but he forces his wife to bring her share in her parents property what a shamefull man... He is ready to take lakhs of dowry from wife and her parents but die to give very little amount of money as alimony to ex wife... Husband's will torture wife mentally, physically, financially what not... So amoung all human relationships husband Is selfish, cruel and rude relationship...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Why are you painting all Indian husbands in the same color?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sorry sweet but not all the husbands are the same. Those husband you described, they are simply pathetic and do not have knowledge.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This cannot be generalized.
Times have changed and so many woman can follow their heart even after marriage and even staying together with her in laws.

A double income really helps in running the household due to expenses which become difficult to bear for one person.

So many woman are highly educated these days and are at par with men in all spheres except perhaps in physical strength of which some sick minded men do take advantage of.

A woman's place is anywhere she chooses to be and so many husbands understand this.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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A it's happening under major scale..if we happen to meet small town girls we can hear them saying this!!!...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Excuse the language but I think this post is downright disgusting. There's no denying that there are certain husbands just the way you have described them, but not all husbands can be categorised to be as such.

Personal Example
For me, the biggest example in my life are my parents and let me tell you, my father isn't anywhere close to what you have generalised husbands as. There was no dowry involved in my parents' wedding. Neither does my father expect my mother to be a slave to him. My parents both divide all work between themselves, be it cleaning, cooking, and even the rest of the housework. It's not true that all men's ego is hurt if their wives are working, my mother earns more than my father and her working hours are longer as well, if anything, my father prepares dinner for her when she gets home so that she does not have to worry about stressing on such things. I think your classification was simply incorrect as there are relationships in the world where men aren't living in an imaginary male-chauvinistic society.

Regarding the most selfish relation in the world, I believe it would be children. At some point or the other, a child has thought only about themselves and not cared about anyone/anything else. I'm not saying all children are such, or that this is how they think 24/7 but most children would have come across such an instance.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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all the Indian husbands are not same!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi friends i didn't said all husband but i said majority of husbands are like this only... I want to share my personal life Iam a working women but my in-laws especially my mother in law dominate me so much she encourages my husband to beat me it happened many times... Even I'm working equally with my husband my mother in law orders me to do all household works without a maid ( i said to my mother in law I'll pay maid salary but she didn't agreed) staying with my in-laws is so horrible ...my brother in law (husband elder brother) wife divorced to him just cuz of my mother in law... And iam only daughter of my parents they did grand wedding given much dowry to my husband but still my mother in law and father in law won't satisfy... If i help my parents with my hard earned money ( which my father spend on my education ) then their will be so much fight... Some times I'll think i should divorce but we had 2 years son if I get divorced he will only have single parent... Just cuz of my son Iam bearing all this torture...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhrishti_

Excuse the language but I think this post is downright disgusting. There's no denying that there are certain husbands just the way you have described them, but not all husbands can be categorised to be as such.

Personal Example
For me, the biggest example in my life are my parents and let me tell you, my father isn't anywhere close to what you have generalised husbands as. There was no dowry involved in my parents' wedding. Neither does my father expect my mother to be a slave to him. My parents both divide all work between themselves, be it cleaning, cooking, and even the rest of the housework. It's not true that all men's ego is hurt if their wives are working, my mother earns more than my father and her working hours are longer as well, if anything, my father prepares dinner for her when she gets home so that she does not have to worry about stressing on such things. I think your classification was simply incorrect as there are relationships in the world where men aren't living in an imaginary male-chauvinistic society.

Regarding the most selfish relation in the world, I believe it would be children. At some point or the other, a child has thought only about themselves and not cared about anyone/anything else. I'm not saying all children are such, or that this is how they think 24/7 but most children would have come across such an instance.

Your mother is so lucky to have that type of husband god bless your parents but my father used to beat my mother very badly and even my father in law too beat my mother in law and you know my husband too beats me even though iam a working women and my female colleagues too say their husbands too beat them which is so sad to listen...
Edited by ktiluvu - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ktiluvu

Your mother is so lucky to have that type of husband god bless your parents but my father used to beat my mother very badly and even my father in law too beat my mother in law and you know my husband too beats me even though iam a working women and my female colleagues too say their husbands too beat them which is so sad to listen...

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