Mother's loss of honour and her four pillars Nairan and megnal - Page 4

Originally posted by: eshasrk

I really don't like either one of them...I just hate ppl who act all sanskari , but when they need their job done, it doesn't matter what it takes and afterwards they cry drama for crying out loud 😡😡. Everything that comes out of her mouth is just rubbish and I really wonder how Vishal is son of badi mami...both brothers and their wives are just useless in my opinion...

Initially I felt choti mami was more of a hypocrite. She made a big deal about Meghna have a love story before marriage but had one herself (which I loved Meghna pointing out😆). Choti mami is exactly the kind of person's whose sanksaars change according to whom they can get the most benefit out of of. 🤢 But badi mami , though annoying, had felt more genuine. Like setting up Meghna with a rishta from her inlaws. She genuinely felt she was doing right by Meghna and felt insulted that her thoughts for the girls weren't valued. Then frankly speaking she wasn't wrong about her worries for Vishal's future. Unlike choti mami, who just likes to stir the pot, she has a genuine reason to be frustrated with Sharda. Sharda chose a family well above their station to have a relationship with... and that has had a negative impact on Vishal and the rest of the family. But by repeatedly berating that point she is getting more than a little annoying😆

I really want to know what is NK's problem actually..., coz right now I just don't get him. If he really wants Dadu to respect him, I think its about time that he changes his ways, coz whatever he does and wants to achieve, he never plays fair.

I sort of see some similarities in NK and Karan. Karan believes he is never going to get success or validation so he doesn't try for it. But by never trying he will never win at anything. So its a self fulfilling prophecy.

NK doesn't believe he is going to get success or validation by playing fair... so he never plays fair. Have you watched Gandhi My father? It was very hard for Gandhi's son to live in the shadow of his enormous father. While Gandhi wanted his son to fight for his ideals and causes in India, his son wanted to pursue his own ambitions.. in the end they ended up going in very different ways. I think the point is its very hard to create your own identity when you are always being compared to "perfection". So for NK--- he keeps trying to prove Dadu's vision of perfection wrong.