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Posted: 8 years ago
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Normally looking at matters it does seem Maya is so creepy.. she's always stalking everyone... torturing the innocent people. These days she's really going overboard. Her actions cannot be justified.
But when I see from Maya's POV then I feel her actions can be completely justified. How can Maya trust anyone cuz I see she has only seen betrayals! The mom she loves or loved once used to throw herself at the person who had physically abused both her and her daughter at every opportunity. Twice we saw this so called mom of hers nearly got killed by this man but yet she betrays her daughter everytime. Once in a while her motherly instincts rise and she's all Maya baby Maya baby but the next moment she's yearning to get back with her abusive ex husband

Next Arjun... who you yourself think is actually in love with Saanjh...Now .this guy suddenly is showering his undying love for Maya only to take a U turn from time to time and play ILu ILu game with his bestie whenevs he feels suffocated in this relationship.
Did Maya ask him to propose her at gunpoint that he suddenly decided to add colour in her life...propose her underwater and promise to fill her life with happiness!! We all know he was more in love with her power money and having a beautiful wife was his dream. So you cannot say he loves her truly. You cannot make an excuse of his stupidity and say he's not bad just stupid... Same way we can also say Maya isn't bad she's just mental as people who surround her made her that way.

Saanjh never actually was a friend of Maya's. Both Saanjh and Ayaan actually tolerated Maya cuz of Arjun. If arjun hated Maya it wouldn't take a sec for these people to drop maya like a hot potato. They will not bother to introspect what went wrong in that marriage but will believe Arjun blindly. Did any of them ever say Arjun to get help for Maya.. Saanjh says teri biwi pagal hai like mental illness is some kinda disease.

Vandy always treated her like untouchable. So no expectation from her.

Tell me one person who has actually loved Maya genuinely and Maya betrayed him/her.

Jhanvi even once blamed Maya that cuz of her birth she cannot be with Ashwin... but did we ever see Ashwin actually craving for her? The guy despised her.. but yet she wanted him!

If a girl since childhood grew up without love care and only with hatred and betrayals from each and everyone how do you expect her to behave rationally? Of course she will never trust anyone.. Her own mom betrays her at every chance! She will obviously spy on people to see whether they are betraying her or not... what game are they playing behind her back and over the years this has taken its toll on her personality.

Even now no one besides that psycho Samay is with her. Even that Samay had given her dhoka once... that's what she had told him when they met ...so a girl who only got dhokas in life you hate her and want her dead but the guy Arjun who is loved by all in abundance but still landed in such a situation... who sleeps with a woman who he hates when there is no need actually.. and mouths cheesy lines to comfort her ...does not trust a brother enough who he grew up with but decides to trust the woman who he knows is a manipulater ...but yet has hallucinations of her killing people ...no sorry I have no sympathies for such a man! I can only blame this man for the position he is in

Edited by TheUnique - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: TheUnique

Normally looking at matters it does seem Maya is so creepy.. she's always stalking everyone... torturing the innocent people. These days she's really going overboard. Her actions cannot be justified.

But when I see from Maya's POV then I feel her actions can be completely justified. How can Maya trust anyone cuz I see she has only seen betrayals! The mom she loves or loved once used to throw herself at the person who had physically abused both her and her daughter at every opportunity. Twice we saw this so called mom of hers nearly got killed by this man but yet she betrays her daughter everytime. Once in a while her motherly instincts rise and she's all Maya baby Maya baby but the next moment she's yearning to get back with her abusive ex husband

Next Arjun... who you yourself think is actually in love with Saanjh...Now .this guy suddenly is showering his undying love for Maya only to take a U turn from time to time and play ILu ILu game with his bestie whenevs he feels suffocated in this relationship.
Did Maya ask him to propose her at gunpoint that he suddenly decided to add colour in her life...propose her underwater and promise to fill her life with happiness!! We all know he was more in love with her power money and having a beautiful wife was his dream. So you cannot say he loves her truly. You cannot make an excuse of his stupidity and say he's not bad just stupid... Same way we can also say Maya isn't bad she's just mental as people who surround her made her that way.

Saanjh never actually was a friend of Maya's. Both Saanjh and Ayaan actually tolerated Maya cuz of Arjun. If arjun hated Maya it wouldn't take a sec for these people to drop maya like a hot potato. They will not bother to introspect what went wrong in that marriage but will believe Arjun blindly. Did any of them ever say Arjun to get help for Maya.. Saanjh says teri biwi pagal hai like mental illness is some kinda disease.

Vandy always treated her like untouchable. So no expectation from her.

Tell me one person who has actually loved Maya genuinely and Maya betrayed him/her.

Jhanvi even once blamed Maya that cuz of her birth she cannot be with Ashwin... but did we ever see Ashwin actually craving for her? The guy despised her.. but yet she wanted him!

If a girl since childhood grew up without love care and only with hatred and betrayals from each and everyone how do you expect her to behave rationally? Of course she will never trust anyone.. Her own mom betrays her at every chance! She will obviously spy on people to see whether they are betraying her or not... what game are they playing behind her back and over the years this has taken its toll on her personality.

Even now no one besides that psycho Samay is with her. Even that Samay had given her dhoka once... that's what she had told him when they met ...so a girl who only got dhokas in life you hate her and want her dead but the guy Arjun who is loved by all in abundance but still landed in such a situation... who sleeps with a woman who he hates when there is no need actually.. and mouths cheesy lines to comfort her ...does not trust a brother enough who he grew up with but decides to trust the woman who he knows is a manipulater ...but yet has hallucinations of her killing people ...no sorry I have no sympathies for such a man! I can only blame this man for the position he is in


So true. That's why I try to sympathize with Arjun but I can't for the most part.

Also did you also notice Arjun had actually thought of killing Maya when he imagined killing himself? In his monologue, he said he will kill her and then he says he will kill himself. How can that be justified? Then Vandana the goddess went with the intention of murdering Arjun only to drop the plan remembering how Arjun had come to apologize to her and eaten her parathas few days back, so then she decided to murder Maya. How can that he justified? Imagine the forum if Maya dared to do any of such intentions to kill, the forum would be on fire when the forum already gets on fire by just seeing Maya's smirk to saanjh on a misleading precap. So I can imagine how the forum would've been had maya went with the intention to kill, but in this forum no posts were made on Vandana or Arjun. Of course, in the show everyone can do whatever they want but if Maya even breathes then it's a crime.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Fragrance.


Wherever Arjun will go whether next railway station, another country, another planet or another universe Maya will follow... 😆




OMG 🤣🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: jodh57

But how come Arjun suddenly became a bheeghi billi infront of Maya..itne din toh divorce ka ultimatum de raha tha maya ko..how he suddenly became lovey dovey..?😡😡


because she threat them by doing suicidal actions. with Jhanvi she cut her wrist. with Arjun she did attempt quite a few.😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Darling_



OMG 🤣🤣


LOVE THIS

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I rewatched the Mauritius episodes. One he said, meri Saanjh but made Maya a family member. The second thing is when Saanjh called up Arjun, he asked her to come so he can speak his heart to her. Whatever message he left for Maya, she exactly did that. Saanjh too saw that & did that exactly. Looking at the current track, I really don't feel the same like I used to feel before. I feel that he has cheated on both the ladies.
He told Maya that jab jailor itni khoobsoorat hain toh mere liye qaidi banne ka koi harz nahin hain but it is the same person who is enjoying all the comforts & luxuries only to change sides according to his convenience. He also smirked after shifting to Maya's place wherein Jhanvi's eyeballs were rolling when she was looking at Arjun. I can sympathize with Arjun about being restricted to having his favorite food & no privacy even in the washroom but can't sympathize with him fully. Both Arjun & Maya have not been true to each other. On the contrary, I can sympathize with Maya not because I love her. If anyone else would be in that place, I still would have developed a soft corner for that person & even like that person. If Saanjh was in that place, I would have got the same feelings for her too. Maya is insecure because she has not been loved back. Jhanvi is the only person who can help Maya & fight with the whole world for her. But she does that very rarely. Though she knows the consequences of meeting Ashwin, she still does that. If Maya has caged Jhanvi it is for protecting herself & Jhanvi from getting killed by him. If anyone says it is wrong, then I will ask is caging a person really wrong if it affects you and if it comes to your life?

As for controlling Arjun, I don't say that it is fully wrong as any wife would definitely keep an eye on their husbands to an extent. If they don't, control, they will be taken for granted & it won't take time for them to slip off. Maya has experienced nothing but betrayals. Thanks to Ashwin for telling her friends & teachers that Maya is mad. Then the next person is Samay who betrayed her. He never bothered to contact her in those 8 years & now he wants her. If she is not taking him back, it shows that she is a self-respected woman. And now it is Arjun who has been playing with her feelings from the time Maya gave him the authority to take charge of F & C.

Having said that, I don't say that her actions are right. Most of her actions are condemnable. When she tried to cause an accident for Vandana, the forum was on fire but when Vandana came to stab her, there was no reaction at all.

For whatever reason, you murder a person the court does not consider any reason except for self-defense & for protecting others but you have got to kill that person immediately when they try to kill you. So both Maya & Vandana are wrong.

Yes, in a way it is better if she dies as she has got at least 100 reasons to die but not even a single reason to live unless she delivers a child.

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