Time to walk the talk, SSO.. 24.4 - Page 9

Created

Last reply

Replies

84

Views

10.4k

Users

32

Likes

634

Frequent Posters

Khidki thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 8 years ago
#81
Quoting Pritzz
"Because when Annika watches Shivaay ignoring the talks and arguments about her NKK will only hurt her more. Will make her think that yes this man is doing "compromise" for the sacrifices she has done. The one thing she hates "compromise".

Accepting and Adjusting are very different things. Right now What Shivaay is doing is Adjusting."

@Bold
Will make her think..!!!
What if she is wrong..!?
He is trying to accept, its sure enough difficult for him to digest, the fact that, his Anika is more important than hi ideals. What if he is in the process of choosing, Anika, but the process is like a battle , is like a dancing fire, it will spill over a few sparks on Anika, because she doesn't yet see the fight...the internal battle..! The battle on the inside which makes him compromise and adjust on the outside... Which she miscomprehends...

Those words for some reason still ring in my ear-
"Main Karta Kuch hoon, Tum Samjathi Kuch Aur Ho, Aur Apna Dimaag Lagaatu Ho..!"

No Doubt, what you said up there about Anika is true, "Her Existence Is In Question..! Despite the fact that she made it very clear, that usse apne Anika hone par Garv hai..!!

I m so looking forward to the coming episodes (except Pinky Aunty's evil smirks) :D

AnnzSageflower7 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 8 years ago
#82
@pritzz.. rant away! 👏
If we look at how Shivaay as a character deals with problems, we will find that he just cuts the parts that are poking at them. He throws money at blackmailers just to make them give back what was taken. He exposes and then let's conspirators go.

Whereas Annika goes down to the root, and pulls out the cause kinda girl. Which is what she's doing with Mahi right now.

Yes, of course, Shivaay is more than capable to do a flip and go partially back to his aristocratic purist behaviour and reject Annika. But he won't. He'll avoid the question when it comes to Annika, because she is precious to him. He wants to make exceptions for her only. Which is fine, because the big raita is coming for Pinky and him, in the form of Shakti-Kamini-Mahi mystery.

NKK is not about Annika only. It's SSO's idealist principles. He was embarrassed that she was the daughter of a home based soap maker. But he cares for her, and doesn't want to lose her, so he avoids the question. Typical SSO.

She may be hurt, or she will be busy unearthing Mahi's connection to the Oberois. I hope the writers make it good whatever they have planned. But the truth is she never expected to be accepted by him as a wife and was waiting for it to end.

That's why she deliberately misunderstands every time he tries to make a strong statement.of commitment to her. She doesn't want it, at the risk of him going back on it when push comes to shove. When he has to make a choice, he always choses his family over her.

Here he says do I chose losing myself, who I am, over losing her?

His mother knows this is not a few minutes kinda decision, and she is shrewd to push it so he has no time to think and counter move to avoid. Nasty mom she is.

I am guessing Annika removes herself so he won't have to decide. But he will suffer the consequences of it. He is far more attached to her than he realizes. That is what is going to torture him inside.

Good discussion!
pritzz thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 8 years ago
#83
@Annika @Anisa
Exactly my point.

Annika is deliberately Putting it forward again and again the "Zimmedari" term. And Shivaay first very confident about this now very much confused and half heartedly nodding to the constant mention of "Zimmedari" from her side.

Where he keeps saying "For You I will...Because You are my..." She fills it with "Zimmedari" even before he completes it.. Because Annika doesn't want to listen anything else other than this now.

Initially when Shivaay was taking care of a clumsy Annika , He was sure about How dependent she is , how she NEEDS him. That gave food to his ego and nutrition to his attitude. He felt Hero and Perfect , he felt The Great Wall for her. He then knew that Annika will always need him and therefore there is no need to tell her what I feel or what she means to mean.

But slowly He as the time has passed and one by one as they fought the problems, he realised that Annika will do anything but NEED him.
And that is why now he is trying to become expressive, trying to tell her what she means to him. Trying to tell her Why he is doing all this for her. Trying to make her realize that NO YOU CAN'T LIVE ALONE , you will need a SAATHI i.e Me.

He now fears her. Because she is anything but dependent. She needs nothing that Shivaay has to give her.

@Annika what said is a huge point to notice here. I have marked that sentence in my head with bold letters the day he said it

"Main Karta Kuch hoon, Tum Samjathi Kuch Aur Ho, Aur Apna Dimaag Lagaatu Ho..!"

But if u notice Shivaay never gives it straight forward, and Annika takes it the exact way Shivaay actually wants to potray it as. Because Annika knows anything apart from this at present is Shivaay trying to adjust for her. By saying such things like "Zimmedari" she wants to Make shivaay also comfortable and not mess up with the feelings and what relationship they share now.

Just like She is preparing herself for the future blast , she is making sure Shivaay also keeps it to that much only.

Otherwise flirting and fun is what They always do. And Shivaay has been obsessed and possessive and little touchy and drooly even when Annika was mere Kuda girl who angered him only.

Now she is sensing the intensity that shivaay is showing and that is scaring her. She is making every moment a Fun rather than a romantic one.

So the whole ranting I did (again) is to explain that Shivaay kuch bhi kare - Annika cares least. She is well prepared, but Shivaay isn't.

So whatever Shivaay does , Annika will keep looking at it the other way. Because she HAS DECIDED there is no future. Where as on the other side Shivaay is FIGHTING for this to work. Shivaay is doing everything but deciding. Again opposite paths they take. 😆


So we know what is going to happen.. no one but Shivaay himself will have to treat the NKK disease, because more than him , now Annika has grown it on her. And because Annika is stronger than him when it comes to emotions (all coming from her being an orphan), Nobody can make her believe the things she doesn't want to, Nobody can make her accept something she is not wanting to. Nobody can make her change her mind which is not willing to.

And this is the Task Shivaay has. Heal the NKK disease that u have transferred to her. Because Bro One day you will know. Nothing will help u nor ur Naam, nor you Khoon or Khaandan will help u get her back.

Because "Sirf Annika" is impossible to be tammed.

SSO must have forced her at situations but he could go through it smoothly and not be questioned only because Annika chose to.

The best part is. HE KNOWS THAT.


Edited by pritzz - 8 years ago
AnnzSageflower7 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 8 years ago
#84
@pritzz no one speaks Shivaay's mind quite like you !
I agree, Annika is a Lot stronger than he is. And needs nothing from him as such.

As cleverly he planned the 'catch-that-Farzi' plan, Mahi was the one who said it right. It was Annika who executed the plan perfectly for Shivaay, just as the fake memory loss-Kalavathy Thakur plan was all dependent upon her.

And in the end, it was Annika who protected him when the commandos were confused, and took the bullet for him ,albeit lightly injured.

All that excess drama was to establish how important and pivotal Annika is to Shivaay. He needs her, she's a Zaroori now, not a Zimmedari (Yeah, he's kidding himself).

I don't see him pushing her away, in contrast I think SHE will push him away. Reject him as a husband for his own sake. Because she can't see this relationship going on forever.

He will arrive at that point where he stakes his claim on her, because he wants to. But there will be hurdles in between.
pritzz thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 8 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

@pritzz no one speaks Shivaay's mind quite like you !

I agree, Annika is a Lot stronger than he is. And needs nothing from him as such.

As cleverly he planned the 'catch-that-Farzi' plan, Mahi was the one who said it right. It was Annika who executed the plan perfectly for Shivaay, just as the fake memory loss-Kalavathy Thakur plan was all dependent upon her.

And in the end, it was Annika who protected him when the commandos were confused, and took the bullet for him ,albeit lightly injured.

All that excess drama was to establish how important and pivotal Annika is to Shivaay. He needs her, she's a Zaroori now, not a Zimmedari (Yeah, he's kidding himself).

I don't see him pushing her away, in contrast I think SHE will push him away. Reject him as a husband for his own sake. Because she can't see this relationship going on forever.

He will arrive at that point where he stakes his claim on her, because he wants to. But there will be hurdles in between.

@Anisa U r being Modest. 😊

Annika is already doing it. The "Yaad hai na out of character wali baat, isiliye SIRF ANNIKA" was the move.

Shivaay did not catch it.

Shivaay is too consumed with the happiness he is getting to notice anything negative.


About Pinky. I will wait for today's episode.. she is such gross.. I am unable to gain any strength to even rant my anger on her😆. I think today she will do enough patheticness to force me to come and blast her here 😆

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".