NKK or Not- it's a long fight..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't know what to say... It's all just so confusing.. I'm making a post on this issue after a long time so bare with me lol

First of all, I am actually so happy with the way they are finally shaping up Anika's character. I like the fact she has no hope in this relationship and she is stubborn regarding this issue.. Because that is what you truly become after being abandoned all your life. After learning the little tidbits of Anika's childhood, she should have clear abandonment issues. She should find it difficult to rely on anyone because relying on someone means having expectations and having expectations mean disappointments. Her character should realistically spook easy with any sort of relationship development and that's what I'm Seeing in Anika's character which makes me very happy!😊

Another thing that makes me happy are Shivaay's issues. They are realistic and something that people can relate to. I can understand his NKK obsession because that is what has been ingrained into his brain from childhood. It's not going to be easy to break this coconut...

Anika's past has come as a major shock to Shivaay now clearly. he is at crossroads. He doesn't know what he should do..All his life, he spent obsessing over NKK. But he was not privy to a few things. Unconditional Love. Loyalty. Companionship. How when you find these things with someone, life can be so damn beautiful. He has just now gained this knowledge. The knowledge of Anika. He is living in a bubble where life isn't as hard, where it's ok to laugh and have a few moments to yourself.. It's ok to want something.. It's ok to be selfish.. It's ok to be truly happy.

BUT this is all BRAND NEW! COMPLETE 360 degree change. And it takes time to adjust to something so new.. If you watch Big Bang Theory, then you can understand how long it took for Sheldon to adjust to a new life with Amy lol. I know I know stark difference in couples but the complexities are similar..



I think Anika leaving right now (regardless of whatever reason) is just the tip of the iceberg.. I think the CV's have bigger and better plans.. It would just be too easy if her leaving for two days would break all of his prejudices. Becuase he still hasn't had an inkling of realisation that NKK are merely just words. There hasn't been a single clink in this armour. He is still very passionate and stubborn about his beliefs. I still remember the scene between him and Om, I didn't even see a shadow of uncertainty in his eyes regarding his beliefs.

So let's just all hold on... Becuase if they made it this easy.. then this love story wouldn't be as special. Every love story requires its time and nurturing..

After Shivaay's NKK belief system breaks, what I truly want to see is his fight against Anika's insecurities and issues. Becuase if they are truly calling them " takkar ki jodi", then it shouldn't JUST BE ABOUT SHIVAAY"S BELIEFS. There should be a struggle with Anika's issues too. Her difficulty in relying on him, her clear abandonment issues, her lack of hope regarding their relationship. In reality, convincing Anika that this relationship does have a future should be a fight. It should be borderline impossible for Shivaay to convince Anika that he does not care about her NKK and that he is not making some sort of adjustment with her. And even if by chance she believes that he doesn't care for her NKK, she can't trust the future. what if one day he regrets his choice? What if one day he resents her for who she is? What if he regrets his decision?
It's too scary to even think about it and just these questions should make her want to run for the hills. This is where I want to see Shivaay fighting with Anika FOR ANIKA.


Sorry for the long ramble.. Haven't made such a long post since the Daksh-Hogaya-Mama fiasco..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wonderful analysis👏 I was also thinking the same if shivaay really overcomes NKK so easily then what's left in the story? It definitely has something big in store which will start after this mahi track I guess! I really do hope cvs take time to analyze shivika's dynamics & take the story forward in the right direction! Also I don't want any girl for shivaay,he has to experience what is life without anika when she leaves him! He shud yearn for her,crave for her! And I for once would like to c a nice guy opposite anika who supports her during the tough phase as a friend & shivaay's possessive side can b explored! Possessive billu is my favorite!😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramz21

Wonderful analysis👏 I was also thinking the same if shivaay really overcomes NKK so easily then what's left in the story? It definitely has something big in store which will start after this mahi track I guess! I really do hope cvs take time to analyze shivika's dynamics & take the story forward in the right direction! Also I don't want any girl for shivaay,he has to experience what is life without anika when she leaves him! He shud yearn for her,crave for her! And I for once would like to c a nice guy opposite anika who supports her during the tough phase as a friend & shivaay's possessive side can b explored! Possessive billu is my favorite!😳



Mine too 😳😳😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Honestly this story has a lot of potential but the cvs are throwing random scenes,not continuity at all in the story! Let's hope & pray that they deal with shivika's story properly! And I want a tadapta hua billu😳😆 pls cvs give me that I have been waiting for this!😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great analysis dear, even I feel that Shivaay's khoon khandaan wali problem itni assani se solve nahi hogi
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completely agree with you. 👏 😃 Spot on analysis!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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While I'm all for some deep and meaningful tracks, hearing Shivaay and Annika's problems are going to be a long fight is off-putting. It sounds like they'll be dragging for the sake of the show. I love IB, but I don't want to see it go on forever. Love stories should not try to drag on forever.

Shivaay's NKK should already be part broken with Daksh, Tia, and mostly Annika. I don't understand why he still carries so much weight on it. Shivaay is partly right too, NKK does matter in situations, but that should not make your final decision. That does not define a person in their totality. Why is that factor not already broken?

Shivaay should grow to learn to accept people like Dev. Dev was not a bad person, he was just illegitimate and just on that basis he was removed from Prinku's life - something entirely out of his control.

Well, either way, I'll stop here. I won't rant, but I just dislike this idea that it sounds like we're going to have to wait a while before Shivaay sees Annika in his future.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post, this is what I say , if they say TAKKAR they showed be flaws in both , not like shivay prejudice changing n anika waiting for him to accept her, it shouldn't be like typical FL changing ml, shivay has 100. Flaws but loves her passionately, n like anika has no flaws n waiting for him to love her back but without expectations obviously because of his nkk, where is Anika's part in this love story it will be too little if CVS will just show a little hardwork of shivaay to make sure anika doesn't feel inferiority, iAm hoping for Anika's past, how she struggles to open up about her pain to shivay, it should be long journey just like his nkk , not like in one episode she cries n tell everything, she should hide her fear, her chuttki accident, her terrible childhood n shivay should explore it, it should be couple journey towards endless love not shivay changing n accepting anika
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ultimatewinnerr

Beautiful post, this is what I say , if they say TAKKAR they showed be flaws in both , not like shivay prejudice changing n anika waiting for him to accept her, it shouldn't be like typical FL changing ml, shivay has 100. Flaws but loves her passionately, n like anika has no flaws n waiting for him to love her back but without expectations obviously because of his nkk, where is Anika's part in this love story it will be too little if CVS will just show a little hardwork of shivaay to make sure anika doesn't feel inferiority, iAm hoping for Anika's past, how she struggles to open up about her pain to shivay, it should be long journey just like his nkk , not like in one episode she cries n tell everything, she should hide her fear, her chuttki accident, her terrible childhood n shivay should explore it, it should be couple journey towards endless love not shivay changing n accepting anika



Exactly 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LordLuminous

While I'm all for some deep and meaningful tracks, hearing Shivaay and Annika's problems are going to be a long fight is off-putting. It sounds like they'll be dragging for the sake of the show. I love IB, but I don't want to see it go on forever. Love stories should not try to drag on forever.

Shivaay's NKK should already be part broken with Daksh, Tia, and mostly Annika. I don't understand why he still carries so much weight on it. Shivaay is partly right too, NKK does matter in situations, but that should not make your final decision. That does not define a person in their totality. Why is that factor not already broken?

Shivaay should grow to learn to accept people like Dev. Dev was not a bad person, he was just illegitimate and just on that basis he was removed from Prinku's life - something entirely out of his control.

Well, either way, I'll stop here. I won't rant, but I just dislike this idea that it sounds like we're going to have to wait a while before Shivaay sees Annika in his future.



I understand your feelings. Even I find the fact that we have to wait longer for Shivika love story off-putting. But this is what epic love stories are. They are difficult, painful and also just about damn
impossible to find.. It is these conflicts and issues that make them so dream-worthy and irresistible 😳😳

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