Originally posted by: raj5000
Sooo hear yaa Gauri..and LH too living within means.👏..my point...things changed from one income to two...isn't it right time to seek neccessity of third income..before hand..keeping in mind ever increasing cost of living...children's future wants...and never ending want of living a x-factored lifes...
like i said above, people can make out their own minds how much efforts they want to put in for earning that third income by investing some of their savings from other two incomes first. managing a RE or a portfolio yourself is not easy and returns are always not guaranteed.
as far as double salary, anyone with kids will tell you how important it is to provide a safety net for the family and kids😊. As u mentioned above, college tuitions etc cost a lot. brilliant people and kids get scholarships and manage just fine but there still remain the boarding and lodging and then kids' marriages to be taken care of as most parents want to celebrate the kids' D-day with them in style😊 then, there are activities that one wants to take their kids to and they all cost money. any parent can tell u that right away😊
agree with mermaid_QT to some extent on mentality of some now a days. it's not gender specific, imo, but have seen cases where people just cool off their heels, pretend to be between jobs and shamelessly live-off their spouse's salary until they r practically shown the door😆 😆 bahar nikaal phenko tab job milta unhey😆 😆extreme measures are needed for extreme people. similarly, extreme hardwork needed to provide a safety net against extreme conditions and both spouses working while raising kids is a lot of hardwork😊. I feel , now a days, double income is absolute neccessity for middle class households with kids😊 . third income depends on how much more time and money one is ready to devote after both spouses work. rest depends on outlook😊
Edited by Gauri_3 - 18 years ago