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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: HippoSucks
Yes, the root cause of all the problems is everyone but Maya herself.

Even after they went to live alone, they weren't happy. Why is that? What did Vandana do when they lived separately for 3 years? Many people have issues with their daughter-in-law and in this case, Vandana was completely justified.

But no MIL would go to the extent of humiliating her DIL to the extent of throwing garbage on her whether good or bad. Her actions cannot be justified.

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MrsAkyurek

@MrsAkyurek

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

I can not believe people are still looking for scapegoats to pin the blame and can absolve Maya of all her crimes🤣

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JOY2529

@JOY2529

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

maya wholeheartedly tried to change but vandana mata ,saanj and arjun actions compelled maya to loose trust on them.so maya started manipulating again

Edited by JOY2529 - 8 years ago

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HadhSeZyada

@HadhSeZyada

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#14

agreed. You can't force people to love you. But just to remind you, Maya doesn't know the "l" of "love".

It sure doesn't justify what she's done to make Arjun love her but it gives an insight why she's doing it. But can you give me an insight to why did Vandana do all that?

Maya ain't all bad. She still can be healed. She's delusional, and the first step towards normality would be her getting a reality check, just like Saanjh got one today from Suman (I'm so glad it happened). Maya herself would be guilty.

So much guilt, that it'd kill her.

But will Vandana ever feel guilty? Nah.

She's just like Ashwin, who deprived Maya of love.

She doesn't even realise what's she's done wrong.

She broke what Maya was trying, with all her remnants of hope(she never had much, in the first place), to build. Now the shards of the broken hope, trust and dreams are hurting everyone.

Edited by HadhSeJyada - 8 years ago

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HippoSucks

@HippoSucks

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: HadhSeJyada
agreed. You can't force people to love you. But just to remind you, Maya doesn't know the "l" of "love".
It sure doesn't justify what she's done to make Arjun love her but it gives an insight why she's doing it. But can you give me an insight to why did Vandana do all that?
Maya ain't all bad. She still can be healed. She's delusional, and the first step towards normality would be her getting a reality check, just like Saaanjh got one today from Suman (I'm so glad it happened). She herself would be guilty.
So much guilt, that it'd kill her.

But will Vandana ever feel guilty? Nah.
She's just like Ashwin, who deprived Maya of love.
She doesn't even realise what's she's done wrong.
She broke what Maya was trying, with all her remnants of hope(she never had much, in the first place), to build. Now the shards of the broken hope, trust and dreams are hurting everyone.

Vandana knew from everything that happened with Ashwin that she was not a good choice for Arjun. What is the problem with that? That is her opinion, which turned out to be right. Vandana would feel guilty if Arjun had come back to her and told her how wonderful his life has been with Maya. Instead, he came back and told her that Maya ruined her life, so Vandana was right.

Someone who did what she did cannot be healed.

Edited by HippoSucks - 8 years ago

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Jane

@janecastle

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: CaputDraconis
I can not believe people are still looking for scapegoats to pin the blame and can absolve Maya of all her crimes🤣

I can't believe that some people are so delusional. 🤪

I'm not looking for scapegoats to pin the blame. I like Maya the way she is. Strong, manipulative and intelligent and yes a little evil. I love her character with all it's flaws. So the LAST time I don't need to make posts to put Maya's blame on others. I say this in all the posts I make. But some people just need a reason to bash anyone who support Maya.

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MrsAkyurek

@MrsAkyurek

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: janecastle

I can't believe that some people are so delusional. 🤪
I'm not looking for scapegoats to pin the blame. I like Maya the way she is. Strong, manipulative and intelligent and yes a little evil. I love her character with all it's flaws. So the LAST time I don't need to make posts to put Maya's blame on others. I say this in all the posts I make. But some people just need a reason to bash anyone who support Maya.

Framing an innocent guy for a heinous crime like rape is where I draw a line with Maya. She's tarred black and is NO LONGER in the realm of grey hues.

Stop getting personal if you can't counter logically🤢

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Jane

@janecastle

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: CaputDraconis

Framing an innocent guy for a heinous crime like rape is where I draw a line with Maya. She's tarred black and is NO LONGER in the realm of grey hues.

Stop getting personal if you can't counter logically🤢

Go and read your comment again. Then you'll understand who became personal first. 🤢

Logic and some people are just poles apart. I tried using logic but some people are blind fans of a certain someone that they don't understand any logic.

Anyways did I ask you to love Maya, no right. So go and hate her but don't come and judge others.

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MrsAkyurek

@MrsAkyurek

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: janecastle

Go and read your comment again. Then you'll understand who became personal first. 🤢
Logic and some people are just poles apart. I tried using logic but some people are blind fans of a certain someone that they don't understand any logic.
Anyways did I ask you to love Maya, no right. So go and hate her but don't come and judge others.

How can you put the blame on Vanadana for all of Maya's crimes? Illogical and BLIND to the core😃

I am not a fan of any of the characters in this show. So you're extremely mistaken!

Edit: Maya as a standalone character is nauseating. One needn't be a fan of any other character to opine on that fwiw.

Edited by CaputDraconis - 8 years ago

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Jane

@janecastle

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: CaputDraconis

How can you put the blame on Vanadana for all of Maya's crimes? Illogical and BLIND to the core😃

I am not a fan of any of the characters in this show. So you're extremely mistaken!

Edit: Maya as a standalone character is nauseating. One needn't be a fan of any other character to opine that fwiw.

When did I put the entire blame on VM. I said she's the MAIN problem and not the only problem.

@bold- Maybe, but your comments speak otherwise.

Maya is the one who carries the entire show on her shoulders. Leave it Dusky and duffer the show'll shut down in a month.

I love the character of Maya because she's different. But I don't go around imposing my views on others like some people do.

I made a post because I felt that VM is the MAIN problem but I don't expect everybody to agree with me.