wasnt SOna right about families not accepting

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Posted: 8 years ago
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When sona said she has suffered what happned when once the families didnt belive in each other.,. wasnt she right
Iswari hated Sona from the start when she knew dev and sona was in love and was hiding from her.

She never liked sona's family She was so insecure about dev that she never wanted to part dev with SOna that created all the problems still she walks around as though she was the only innocent party in this

and Dev knew that it was because of ishwari that he couldnt meet with his daughter 6 years before still he feels that sona is the culprit.

and still he says "Sona cant talk about mom like that"

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev cant see beyond Ishwari. He would rather believe his illusions and lies.. He failed to understand what she was saying, as usual cause mind doesnt work!
Edited by vibg - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona was absolutely right with what she said yesterday about her not being accepted. I think Dev's irritation and dialogue came from two things
1. His ego is still hurt that Sona left him and he cannot fathom what his family had to do with it
2. He is fuelling his hate against Sona using whatever weapon/reason he gets.. each day is different 😆

However, I think Dev's view on marriage was quite clear yesterday. He thinks love conquers all and two people in love should stay together no matter the situation. He has parasites in his family that he cannot disown. That is the same reason why he feels Ronita and family can also be part of Bose family and can live happily despite Mrs. Mondals actions.

Yesterday, he was asked to leave the house similar to how he asked Sona to leave his house. But Dev stood his ground and considered the Bose household his (although Soha is the reason now) and announced that he is going nowhere. Sona on the other hand had walked away from Dev when asked to do so. Dev's biggest issue is that Sona did not consider him and his love enough to want to stay. He considered them as one and wanted Sona also to fight for their togetherness.

Hope I was able to provide some clarity!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krpkab_superfan

Sona was absolutely right with what she said yesterday about her not being accepted. I think Dev's irritation and dialogue came from two things

1. His ego is still hurt that Sona left him and he cannot fathom what his family had to do with it
2. He is fuelling his hate against Sona using whatever weapon/reason he gets.. each day is different 😆

However, I think Dev's view on marriage was quite clear yesterday. He thinks love conquers all and two people in love should stay together no matter the situation. He has parasites in his family that he cannot disown. That is the same reason why he feels Ronita and family can also be part of Bose family and can live happily despite Mrs. Mondals actions.

Yesterday, he was asked to leave the house similar to how he asked Sona to leave his house. But Dev stood his ground and considered the Bose household his (although Soha is the reason now) and announced that he is going nowhere. Sona on the other hand had walked away from Dev when asked to do so. Dev's biggest issue is that Sona did not consider him and his love enough to want to stay. He considered them as one and wanted Sona also to fight for their togetherness.

Hope I was able to provide some clarity!


i think you make sense here. you drew a very good parallel. everyone in the forum has a complaint that gkb and vikki who were still an extended family of Dev asked Sona to leave while they have no right. Yesterday Jatin who is no way related to the family too asked dev to leave. if really analysed, when dev asked sona to leave, they were still related and she had more HAQ on him and ishwari nivas, yet she left without fighting back. Today Dev does not have the same haq either on the boses or in the house. he is there only for his daughter and since the boses are unwilling to leave soha, he is going to stay put no matter what.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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So even after getting taunted and tortured by his family from day 1, she went back home after him slapping her own father, he pushed her on to his mother and yelled at her for hurting his mother; she should have still stayed back? I won't do it if it was me. I would have left long time back when they Ish started excluding her from family matters, asked her to stay away from family issues like she is an outsider. She was the most understanding one. At some point of time Sona should have realised she isn't really considered family. And then all the torture on baby making machine. Like she hid it all and made Dev lie. To be frank I would have sent divorce to Dev like Neha.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krpkab_superfan

Sona was absolutely right with what she said yesterday about her not being accepted. I think Dev's irritation and dialogue came from two things

1. His ego is still hurt that Sona left him and he cannot fathom what his family had to do with it
2. He is fuelling his hate against Sona using whatever weapon/reason he gets.. each day is different😆

However, I think Dev's view on marriage was quite clear yesterday. He thinks love conquers all and two people in love should stay together no matter the situation. He has parasites in his family that he cannot disown. That is the same reason why he feels Ronita and family can also be part of Bose family and can live happily despite Mrs. Mondals actions.

Yesterday, he was asked to leave the house similar to how he asked Sona to leave his house. But Dev stood his ground and considered the Bose household his (although Soha is the reason now) and announced that he is going nowhere. Sona on the other hand had walked away from Dev when asked to do so. Dev's biggest issue is that Sona did not consider him and his love enough to want to stay. He considered them as one and wanted Sona also to fight for their togetherness.

Hope I was able to provide some clarity!



Dev is blind and dumb if he couldnt see how much and how many times Sonakshi considered him her all and how manytimes she fought for them with no help from him!!! ... Sona took everything that GKB, Vicky and Evil Queen Ishwari threw at her. Even after his pregnancy lie, attwmpting fertility treatment without her consent, manipulating herto go thru fertility treatments to satisfy Ishwari's tantrum.. she stood by and stood with him cause she felt it was haq onhim and they were one. But in the end, he pushedher, didnt believe when she was shocked and toldhim that Ishwari wants themto seperate, then pushed her and accused her of tryingto hurt her mom.. and asked her to leave his house and his family... how much could a human being take???? If Sona had a Soha in that house, just like today.. maybe she wouldnt have left either andcontinued to take the Dixit abuse and Dev's lack of treating her like family!!! But the difference here is, at leadt one person had eyes open for truthhere.. and Sona when she calmed down.. didnt believe Dev could do this! Not one soul in dixit house stood for sona 😲
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krpkab_superfan

Sona was absolutely right with what she said yesterday about her not being accepted. I think Dev's irritation and dialogue came from two things

1. His ego is still hurt that Sona left him and he cannot fathom what his family had to do with it
2. He is fuelling his hate against Sona using whatever weapon/reason he gets.. each day is different 😆

However, I think Dev's view on marriage was quite clear yesterday. He thinks love conquers all and two people in love should stay together no matter the situation. He has parasites in his family that he cannot disown. That is the same reason why he feels Ronita and family can also be part of Bose family and can live happily despite Mrs. Mondals actions.

Yesterday, he was asked to leave the house similar to how he asked Sona to leave his house. But Dev stood his ground and considered the Bose household his (although Soha is the reason now) and announced that he is going nowhere. Sona on the other hand had walked away from Dev when asked to do so. Dev's biggest issue is that Sona did not consider him and his love enough to want to stay. He considered them as one and wanted Sona also to fight for their togetherness.

Hope I was able to provide some clarity!



I was sure some one will bring this parallel. The difference I see is just this, Sona left when Dev asked her to not when Ishwari, Neha, GKB or Vicky did. We don't know how Dev would have reacted if Soha had asked him to go though! I am guessing he would expect Sona to step up and support him, perhaps or even Asha Bose at that point. He got lucky that the one person he loves now, actually saw that he was lying for a reason!

In fact, Sona very similar to Dev, fought all the adversities for her love right from their first breakup when she gave a piece of her mind to Ishwari and GKB in the pretext of looking for her bracelet.
If anything, Sona's (and audience) gripe is Dev doesn't fight for his love.

I think both Sona and Dev acknowledge the reason for their breakup (from their conversation on how to live together for Soha). It is not their love, it is the lack of acceptance among their families.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krpkab_superfan

Sona was absolutely right with what she said yesterday about her not being accepted. I think Dev's irritation and dialogue came from two things

1. His ego is still hurt that Sona left him and he cannot fathom what his family had to do with it
2. He is fuelling his hate against Sona using whatever weapon/reason he gets.. each day is different😆

However, I think Dev's view on marriage was quite clear yesterday. He thinks love conquers all and two people in love should stay together no matter the situation. He has parasites in his family that he cannot disown. That is the same reason why he feels Ronita and family can also be part of Bose family and can live happily despite Mrs. Mondals actions.

Yesterday, he was asked to leave the house similar to how he asked Sona to leave his house. But Dev stood his ground and considered the Bose household his (although Soha is the reason now) and announced that he is going nowhere. Sona on the other hand had walked away from Dev when asked to do so. Dev's biggest issue is that Sona did not consider him and his love enough to want to stay. He considered them as one and wanted Sona also to fight for their togetherness.

Hope I was able to provide some clarity!


It was gud decision by sona to leave dev.yesterday when bijoy asked dev to leave d house he didn't becoz,he came bose house 4 soha,dev is getting wht he needs tht is soha's love and trust.if tomorrow soha aftr knowing d truth asks dev to leave,she doesn't want to live wid him.can dev do d same.
If tht time sona would hv got dev's support thn i bet sona would not hv left dev at any condition. she didn't care anyone taunts or mishave.just she wanted dev's support.tht day sona looked towards ishwari and dev many a times even aftr hearing get out wid a hope thy might stop her.

Soha gave him d right thts y he able is able exercise it.y didn't he come to soha whn he came to knw abt soha's truth and waited for soha's approval..
All d rules,moral values change when it comes to sonakshi.
Cvs knows wht ll hpn once thy move to dixit mansion i hope soha doesn't fall in ishwari's manipulation becoz i hv no hope from dev.
Edited by shruti. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona was absolutely right.i hope asha discuss dis matter wid bijoy and clear all d misunderstand wid mandols.otherwise either sourav or sona should get ready to move out of bose house.
I gave upon dev long before 🥱
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev ego , ignorance towards his mom and family led to his married life in to pits he still don't realize that his mom was the only reason his marriage broke .
As bijoy and sona thinks he can only love his mom or daughter .
He never understood sona at the first place he always wanted her be by his side when he himself threw her out of the house .
His mother is good player with words very cunning who could twist words according to the situation.

A person learns from mistakes but dev never did .
He and his mom are one of a type who don't see beyond themselves try to reason out why things happened .

Sona words were bang on yesterday she was right that love is not enough family should welcome the couple first otherwise confusions and mu might occur and marriage won't stay for long .

Sona tried to balance between the families but when dev couldn't support her the marriage failed .
Dev never supported sona in the first place his lies his weakness towards his mom led families fight .

Asha and dev are doing the same mistake which ish did .
For dev sakes ish excepted sona alliance because dev was falling apart not that ish welcomed sona with open arms .
Ish as a women was pathetic who treated insensitive with sona when she came to know sona has minimal chance of conceiving.

Dev support towards sona was zero he just made sure his mom was happy never cared how hurt sona was .
Yet this man can't even reason out why his marriage broke all these years of exile .

It's there how can he be blind
He came to know his mom never allowed sona to meet him 7 yrs back yet he is ignorant and foolish
How can ppl be dumb

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