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Tia.0 thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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That's a great idea. You see, the moment anyone assumes that the mother will come as free gift with the baby, they reduce the worth of the mother to zero.

And the last thing I want to see is a woman's worth brought down to zero. CVs have already showed a woman who can't be a mother to have negative worth. The husband who married knowing his wife's medical condition didn't last even half a day against his mother's tantrum before applying force on the so-called love of his life to become pregnant.

Since whatever Dev's mother decreed, he wanted too and his mother only wants the baby, let him live his entire life with his mother and child. Sona deserves someone who loves her for who she is and not as additional accessory or as an afterthought with his mother's permission. In fact, every woman deserves that.

So let Sona be happy with Jatin and Dev can be happy with shared custody of Suhana.

Ishwari gets her devoted slave and his offspring without the added hanger on daughter-in-law.

Dev gets his Goddess mother and the daughter he is obsessed with.

Golu gets his BigCha and a sister to play with.

Sona gets a life partner who loves and respects her for who she is and who is always there like a rock support between her and the world.

Sona's family are happy because she is happy.

Well, Soha doesn't get her mother and father together. But both are happy and as she grows up, she will have her own life and not be attached to her parents all the time. So really, her parents relationship with each other are none of her business anyway unless her relationship with her spouse should be her business. As long as her relationship with her parents is happy and sorted, she should be fine.

Besides, I am sure Suhana would rather see her parents happy than stuck together because they have to.

Everyone get what they want and everyone is happy.

Of course provided Sona doesn't turn doormat and Suhana stops blackmailing her parents.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Tia.0

That's a great idea. You see, the moment anyone assumes that the mother will come as free gift with the baby, they reduce the worth of the mother to zero.


And the last thing I want to see is a woman's worth brought down to zero. CVs have already showed a woman who can't be a mother to have negative worth. The husband who married knowing his wife's medical condition didn't last even half a day against his mother's tantrum before applying force on the so-called love of his life to become pregnant.

Since whatever Dev's mother decreed, he wanted too and his mother only wants the baby, let him live his entire life with his mother and child. Sona deserves someone who loves her for who she is and not as additional accessory or as an afterthought with his mother's permission. In fact, every woman deserves that.

So let Sona be happy with Jatin and Dev can be happy with shared custody of Suhana.

Ishwari gets her devoted slave and his offspring without the added hanger on daughter-in-law.

Dev gets his Goddess mother and the daughter he is obsessed with.

Golu gets his BigCha and a sister to play with.

Sona gets a life partner who loves and respects her for who she is and who is always there like a rock support between her and the world.

Sona's family are happy because she is happy.

Well, Soha doesn't get her mother and father together. But both are happy and as she grows up, she will have her own life and not be attached to her parents all the time. So really, her parents relationship with each other are none of her business anyway unless her relationship with her spouse should be her business. As long as her relationship with her parents is happy and sorted, she should be fine.

Besides, I am sure Suhana would rather see her parents happy than stuck together because they have to.

Everyone get what they want and everyone is happy.

Of course provided Sona doesn't turn doormat and Suhana stops blackmailing her parents.



Perfect!! Just perfect!! 😆😆


This would be a perfect ending for a progressive, mature and realistic love story. Sadly makers believe in satisfying only a certain section of society which thinks ML and FL ending up together by hook or by crook is the only perfect and logical ending for a love story 🥱😒


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Posted: 8 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: Tia.0

That's a great idea. You see, the moment anyone assumes that the mother will come as free gift with the baby, they reduce the worth of the mother to zero.


And the last thing I want to see is a woman's worth brought down to zero. CVs have already showed a woman who can't be a mother to have negative worth. The husband who married knowing his wife's medical condition didn't last even half a day against his mother's tantrum before applying force on the so-called love of his life to become pregnant.

Since whatever Dev's mother decreed, he wanted too and his mother only wants the baby, let him live his entire life with his mother and child. Sona deserves someone who loves her for who she is and not as additional accessory or as an afterthought with his mother's permission. In fact, every woman deserves that.

So let Sona be happy with Jatin and Dev can be happy with shared custody of Suhana.

Ishwari gets her devoted slave and his offspring without the added hanger on daughter-in-law.

Dev gets his Goddess mother and the daughter he is obsessed with.

Golu gets his BigCha and a sister to play with.

Sona gets a life partner who loves and respects her for who she is and who is always there like a rock support between her and the world.

Sona's family are happy because she is happy.

Well, Soha doesn't get her mother and father together. But both are happy and as she grows up, she will have her own life and not be attached to her parents all the time. So really, her parents relationship with each other are none of her business anyway unless her relationship with her spouse should be her business. As long as her relationship with her parents is happy and sorted, she should be fine.

Besides, I am sure Suhana would rather see her parents happy than stuck together because they have to.

Everyone get what they want and everyone is happy.

Of course provided Sona doesn't turn doormat and Suhana stops blackmailing her parents.


I think sona is better off alone,i mean..we all know how much she loved dev and she still does...and even if she marries jatin,jatin wont get the love he deserves.


I feel they should opt for joint custody with soha spending 2 days with dev and 2 days with soha.
She didnt wanted to choose between parents, so here she goes,she wont have to chose.

And sona should maintain a good distance from dev,he isnt interested right?beti k saath hi khush raho uncle
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Posted: 8 years ago
#24
I may be bashed for saying this
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But I want something to happen because of which sona totally deprives of her presence.
It sucks how dev thinks that sona comes in a package with soha... His constant drama that i have loved no one as much as my daughter,main yahan sirf meri beti ki wajah se hoon,mujhe tumme koi interest nahi hai is getting too much.

He should realize that sonakshi is much more than being just the mother of his child,he should realize that he also told sona once that he loved her like he had never loved anyone,he should stop taking her for granted.

Sona shouldn't deprive soha of dev and viceversa but she should stay away from him as much as possible...because i dont think this guy still understands her worth.

Love her for who she is,want her for who she is...she is a woman with a beautiful soul before being a mother


I am late in seeing this post.. i think you have summed it up very well. I think this will be the right way to open someone's eyes, heart, head .. no guesses here.

i am not liking this "I am here only for my daughter"... it is going well beyond reason. I see no difference between ishwari saying that she loves her son the most and Dev saying that he loves is daughter the most.. well, at least here there is some consistency!!


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Posted: 8 years ago
#25
Beautiful thoughts.
This post has made me emotional - most women are willing to give up their lives for their husbands but very few men can do it for their wives.
Women wear sacrifice like an ornament and men like Dev don't even acknowledge.
Sonakshi should never take back Dev. This is his punishment and redemption for life. She has loved him truly, and should only remember the good memories of dev that made him a better person (even if for a very short while) and walk away from him. She deserves a better life.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Love her for who she is,want her for who she is...she is a woman with a beautiful soul before being a mother


True,...very very true,...well said,...can't agree more,...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#27

Nice topic.

Yes, even I'm kind of pissed off by his constant dialogue that he is here for Soha only, he loves only Soha, he never loved as much anyone else. I mean seriously, if Mr. obodhro remembers, he said the same thing to Sona once, what about that. When will these CV's show Sona's worth?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona shd stop reacting to Dev's taunts and accusations all the time. ..shes giving him power over her emotions.
She shd not give him the satisfaction of knowing his verbal barbs are affecting her. And she really shd not be affected by his mostly immature taunts.

And what the heck was Asha lecturing Sona abt yesterday?
Asha has a wonderful sweet sasuma and poor Sona had the worst sasuma, a completely psychotic, money obsessed, power obsessed control freak as her MIL.

Asha only had to deal with Bijoy's anger problems whereas Sona had to tolerate her sasuma's jealousy, possessiveness, GKB's and Neha's nasty taunts, Vicky's misbehavior, plus Dev's bipolar mood swings. Only Riya and Nikki were nice to her while Mamaji just paid lip service but hardly ever helped her.
If Asha had to deal with so many nasty abusive people in her sasural, which I doubt, THEN only she could give lectures how she adjusted, otherwise she has no right to lecture Sona abt adjusting when she herself must have a fair idea abt how horrible Dixit family members are. 🤢
Really very disappointed with Asha this time
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61


Thank you sir,even i am done with him telling sona same thing over and over again...no wonder ishwari never misses devs dad...dev too is like her only

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25


Sona shd stop reacting to Dev's taunts and accusations all the time. ..shes giving him power over her emotions.
She shd not give him the satisfaction of knowing his verbal barbs are affecting her. And she really shd not be affected by his mostly immature taunts.

And what the heck was Asha lecturing Sona abt yesterday?
Asha has a wonderful sweet sasuma and poor Sona had the worst sasuma, a completely psychotic, money obsessed, power obsessed control freak as her MIL.

Asha only had to deal with Bijoy's anger problems whereas Sona had to tolerate her sasuma's jealousy, possessiveness, GKB's and Neha's nasty taunts, Vicky's misbehavior, plus Dev's bipolar mood swings. Only Riya and Nikki were nice to her while Mamaji just paid lip service but hardly ever helped her.
If Asha had to deal with so many nasty abusive people in her sasural, which I doubt, THEN only she could give lectures how she adjusted, otherwise she has no right to lecture Sona abt adjusting when she herself must have a fair idea abt how horrible Dixit family members are. 🤢
Really very disappointed with Asha this time


Ashas stupid advices never helped sona earlier,she made sona hide her emotions which eventually ended up with sona breaking up her marriage ...so i dont even know why sona is taking ashas words seriously

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