I HATE YOU ...3/23/17 - Page 7

Originally posted by: swa6

Hey When you say Bala wants to know where Raman is... Can we assume whether he might be trying to estimate the chances of Raman knowing the "truth" , which could be related to him(bala)??

I mean whether Bala has any share in that supposed-to-be-devastating-to-ishitha truth? I dont know why but I m feeling, when they have killed Vandu directly, I m feeling they will also try to ruinBala's character too in one or another way...

Originally posted by: moonwearer

I agree the acting was superb. What really made me squirm was the way the entire Iyers are treating Ishitha and Pihu. Remember Shravu's outburst at Pihu...that child has gone through hell too...you have sympathy for two grandchildren who are motherless but did nothing for Pihu then it was understandable but allowing Shravu to lash out was not right.
Amma has always reacted to situations and OTT behaviour is so typical of her.

Raman is receiving slaps from all and sundry without a word in defense. He has discovered something that has shattered him so totally that until he salvages the situation he is going to be restless.

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Hi Swarna, thank you darling for liking it..

Yes that hug lacked the support and emotional connect that was the need of the hour.

I haven't watched and only going by Vijis review but all I'm seeing is vengeance from people when the loss hits them.. be it Raman or Iyers or Bhallas or with Bala or even Mani.. and in all this family vengeance the causality is always Ishita and no one i mean no one spares a single moment or thought for Ishita before hurting her with hurtful words.it was Raman always but I guess nice change is this time it's Mrs. Iyer..

Waiting for hell to break loose again hurting Ishita all over again because whenever Raman said trust me he inflicted bigger blow to Ishita personally.. i can't sympathize with him at all.. and hope to be wrong this time as Raman hadn't realized the pain he had been inflicting on Ishita for the past 7/8 years with his abusive behavior. And now he is busy with whatever took precedence and I'm hoping it's worth it to take away all the suffering that Ishita has been facing..

I hate to say this but only if death has been kind to her she would've been at peace by now but alas even death is also cruel to her.. that's sad.

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Swarna, forgot to mention loved your review.. Mrs. Iyer wanting to eat onionless vada.. i guess so.. it looks like she is missing doing Ishita's death anniversaries for the past year.. and wanted to resume along with Vandu.. i couldn't help but notice in insta post where she put Vandus' picture to light Diya the same place she used for Ishita.. what angers more is she must be miss seeing ishita and instead she is seeing vandu there who is a mother hence a great loss and her repetetion of Vandu a mother and no one thought about her children justifies now her being quiet when Raman was hurling abuSes at Ishita.. isn't it.. she can understand Raman as a father who was behaving exactly how she is behaving right now.. because having kids gave them that right to abuse the person who can't have kids and it's ok for her to die as she is leaving no child behind to miss her or grieve for her.. sad isn't it? I bet if God asks her to choose between her daughter's in a heartbeat she would choose Vandu and same goes for Raman too if he were to be asked to choose between Ishita and shagun he would without hesitation choose Shagun because that's exactly what he did upon learning the death of Ishita replace her with Shagun. May be not as his wife completely like sleeping with her but he did act as her husband in public and made her mother to Pihu once again removing all memories of ishita...

So for me though it's painful to watch Ishita being subjected to this much cruelty the bottom line speaks the truth that a woman is only worth if she can produce kids..else she can be subjected to all kinds of torture..

The whole premise of a story of a woman who mothered a child that's not hers is totally replaced by the celebration of motherhood in happy and sad times ( happy being synonymous to Shagun and and sad being synonymous to Vandu and now mrs. Iyer)

Sorry.. long rant.. but so much is burning inside and had to let it out..

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Viji I find your analysis very objective and precise inkeeping with the quote in your signature line you are non judgemental. We have givers and takers...Raman and Ishitha are givers putting family in the case of Raman and everybody she meets in the case of Ishitha above themselves. When one is a perpetual giver others tend to take such people for granted.

Ishitha has and is expected to suppress her emotion and walk around stoically. If they show Raman overcoming his anger and the culprit gets nailed I wonder what the others will do. One parent is dead and kids are grieving...Mby baying for Ramana blood they hope the pain of all their grandchildren would be same or what? It somehow seemed like they don't walk the talk and it was always double standards. If Bala's mom had said all this it would be understand able...As a mother as a woman as a human somewhere Mrs Iyer fell in my eyes...I still remember Ishitha grieving for her Amma a nd Rablood soaked in blood referring to Mrs iyer as his Amma...