Story of my life - Page 6

Amen to that!!! It's always so difficult. He is on a stress leave right now. It should be that should be on leave!!! His bimbette is supposed to be flying in next weekend to se him because he was supposed to go up there rhis weekend because of work. Whichever way you look at it, men are scum. I am actually going through my angry phase which alot of people told me that I would go through it and they are asking me what took so long!!! Every time I see him now, I think how was i ever able to sleep with him (to put it ?? Gross!!!! And to think that I used to kiss him too!!
Anyways, life just keeps getting better, my sons grades in school are improving, I have started exercising again and most importantly, I am taking care of me!!! I believe that is the best gift you can give yourself!!

Love to all of you strong women!! Just because we are Indian does not mean that we can be walked over. Those days are gone!!

u r a wonderful person Shamila i'm proud of u

WOW! I really am spellbound. I love watching this serial because I always felt that this is one realistic drama among the other nonsensical yet amazingly high TRP soaps. Reading all your "stories" here...GOD1 what must u guys have gone thru! I couldn't hold my tears back. But these tears are not just because I feel ur pain but also because I admire and respect ur strength and courage and will power. I am lucky that I am married to a very gentle, loving, understanding man but I can still feel ur pain because something similar to ur case happened to my best friend. She met a man, actually that guy kept chasing her...flooded her with e-mails, flowers etc. She also fell for his charms. Then one day she found out that he was married and that his wife was pregnant! She was heart broken. She then and there decided to call the relationship off, left her job and moved to a different city. But this guy somehow managed to track her down. He apolozised, pleaded with her, asked for her forgiveness. He explained taht he actually loved her and had no emotional attachment with his wife. He said taht he was forced to marry his wife, they had nothing in common. Their marriage was near its end, and now that he has found my friend he can once again think of living life happily. His life is a mess with his wife etc. My friend did not give in right away but slowly she felt bad for him and even though I tried my level best to stop her from reenterning into a relationship with this man again, she gave in. She genuienely belived that he was unhappy, "bechara" she can help him find happiness. I know my friend, she is not the home wrecking one. She is a nice girl with a heart of gold. they say love is blind and in her case I saw that it was. Anyways, he convinced her to get physical with him and right after that she found out that he is having a relation with another girl! My friend was so shocked, she had a breakdown and had to be hospitalized. At present she is doing ok, emotionally totally scared. She says, what hurts her most is that she has cheated on another woman trusting his verdicts about his wife being a bad person and making his life a living hell.

Anyways, just wanted to share the aspect of the "other woman" too.

hello everyone .......u all are just great......
sharmila...way to go..... 👏
yes! the first and the most important thing to do is take care of urself.....good job

Hey there!!

Sindoor Fan, this is a very common line men use to get women. Mine has used that line many times and the women fall hook, line and sinker!! He did that with his current girlfriend. She' here this week. And when she is not around, he calls ten times a day and callshis kids to say goodnight. But the minute she arrives, boom!! Who are we. Forget about me, bt don't forget my kids!! He says that it is untrue!! But case in point, he did not call to say goodmorning which he always does!! But today, because she is there, he did not call. I pointed that out and let him have it that she will come between us. HE says no. Sorry, for the long note, I guess I just needed to vent!! It's really hard, but to all you women, just remember be strong, don't let anyone push ou around!! That was my mistake, I stood up for myself too late. LOVE TO YOU ALL

Welcome to the forum Sharmila, sorry to hear about you. You also have children, how old are they and how are they taking the whole thing? It sure must be very traumatic for you. You do seem to be a very brave person to come out and talk about it. I am so glad and proud of you that you have embrassed life and have decided to move on. Do you know shy God chose a woman to carry the child for nine months, because he knows that only a woman can edure the pains of the child birth and smile and forget about it as soon as she sees the face of her newly born baby. Trust me you are much stronger than you think you are. I am so glad you appreciate the God given life and have decided to move on with it.