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First I want to clarify I am totally in team sonakshi but today I am only going to view father Dev with no ishwari and a single mother
This show is teaching me alot life lesson which I always miss to see
Because I can connect with both because I myself has grown up in single mother and father away as he is in army so he used to come only sometime
Now let me write I am having tears today for my mother and father
My father aim was only one thing to make his children a independent well qualified educated person because he was not able to study due to his parent death anyway I don't want to go in detail of that
My mother married my father and her journey started like other household woman she started to live on my father demand and dream
First I came to my world who was lucky in everything as INSPITE from a middle class society I was welcomed whole heartedly although being a girl and my father aim just after seeing a glance he dreamt what he want to make me
And then after four years my brother came in my world whom I love more than anything and vice versa
And this our complete happy family
But do you think that only couples or parents not enstranged not face difficulty
I am telling my mother journey from my perspective I always thought my mother is happy being single and father come sometime in a year
But today after watching flashback of sonakshi I felt what my mother used to say which I always ignored she always used to say she felt lonely she was having no-one by her side when I was born my father came after 6 months and then he gone she used to manage everything she was not able to go her parent village due to people or relative asking questions she stayed in my village which was just one room and rest part was half made with a lot of bricks and climbers and snake and I was any and she used to manage everything alone that time I can't imagine how she managed all those
And when we grown up we came to our capital city I have studied in a CBSE DAV school from 1st standard and my mother alone used to manage everything everything means everything because my father come on vacation only for 2 or 3 month in a year and become busy in all work
She used to stand in queue with all male some paper or document she has to make or when I have to some paper work she used to manage everything like getting the form attested because when you give entrance exams it's very tough to get the form attested the people from middle class background so my mother used to do everything because no relative was even to help because my all relative are very selfish
INSPITE of facing all thing alone strongly she never shown anyone anytime
But people around her used to make her feel that how she live without her husband one day when was giving my 10th examination and my friend mother asked her how you live alone you always have fear of his accidentas your husband is in army my mother firmly replied that your husband is always in car accident can take anytime in army only there is particular time
Anyway my mother used to ignore all those person or their comments
After 12th I was not able to qualify any exam due to some medical reasons but no-one seen the reason all taunted my mother and father you bath lived separately to teach your children what she done see
Anyway now we both brother and sister are now in research institute and everything and everything is fine as we are not middle class even now
But today after seeing Dev flashback I got my father pain even that how my father wanted to live with us but he even not wanted that we should not be able to build our career so he took all pain of being away from his children
And I am really very much uncomfortable with my father I never talk to him much although he feel pain but never expresses it and is always happy only in my happiness
TODAY AFTER WATCHING EPISODE I TALK TO BOTH ON PHONE
TODAY I REALISED SEEING SONA LONLINESS OF NOT BEIMG PARTENER BY HER SIDE HOW MY MOTHER HAS FELT AKWAYS AS I BEING INDEPENDENT GIRL AMD PAMPERED ONE NEVER GONE THROUGH THIS AND ALWAYS TOOK A PRIDE THAT MY MOTHER ALONE RAISED ME AND GIVEN MY BEST AND WHEN SHE USED TO SAY ABOUT HOW PEOPLE REACT I THOUGHT IT DOESN'T AFFECT HER BUT TODAY IFELT THAT SHE SOMEWHERE WAS FEELING LONELY AND WANTED MY FATHER BY HER SIDE
AND AFTER SEEING DEV I FELT MY FATHER PAIN HOW AFTER LOVING THEIR CHILDEREN THIS MUCH HOW HE LIVED AWAY FROM FOR US ONLY
I TALK TO MY MOTHER EVERYTHING BUT WHEN IT COME TO MY FATHER I AM NOT ABLE TO SAY HIM I LOVE HIM AS MUCH AS I LOVE MY MOTHER AND I WANT TO LIVE WITH HIM LAUGH WITH HIM SPEND TIME WITH HIM AND WANT TO SAY A THANK YOU WITH A TIGHT HUG BUT HOPE GOD GIVE ME STRENGTH ONE DAY THAT I COULD TALK TO MY FATHER WHOLE HEARTEDLY AND COMFORTABLY
I WANT TO TALK MY FATHRR WANT TO HAVE A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP WITH MY FATHER LIKE MY MOTHER BUT I AM NOT ABLE TO DO MY BROTHER ALSO SAY ALWAYS EVEN I AM NOT ABLE TO NOT WISH HIS BIRTHDAY OR FESTIVAL SIMPLY SEND A MESSAGE
LIKE MY MOTHER MISSED MY FATHER TOGETHERNESS I GAVE HRR BY NOW ASKING THEM TO LIVE TOGETHER
I ALSO WANT TO GIVE MY FATHER THE TOGETHERNESS OF MINE WHICH I AM NOT ABLE TO
BUT ANYWAY I WANT TO SAY HOW MUVCH IRRITATING ISHWARI IS OR DEV IS BUT THEY ARE MAKING US LEARN ALOT OF THING AND MAKING US SEE THE OTHER ASPECT WHICH WE ALWAYS FAIL TO SEE IN OUR HAPPINESS
LIKE TILL TODAY I ONLY SOMEWHERE I FELT THIS ABOUT MY MOTHER BUT AFTER WATCHING SONA FLASHBACK AND DEV HELPLESSNESS AND TEARS THIS FORCED ME TO SEEE
ANYWAY FOR DEV I NOT FEEL ANYTHING
BUT FOR A FATHER DEV AMD A SINGLE MOTHER SONA REST WORLD JAYE BHAD MEIN I FELT THIS
ANYWAY SORRY FOR THIS LONG POST
I JUSTED WANTED TO SHARE MY EMOTIONS AS TILL NOW EVEN I AM NOT ABLE TO SHARE ANYTHING WITH MY FATHER SO SHARED WITH YOU ALL
Jaane Anjaane Hum Mile
Tum Se Tum Tak
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki
Vasudha
