SSO kidnaped and bhullakar anika

-- ever since he has been married to Anika he has become the bheegi billi , his sso'ness is only reserved for Anika for times when she refuses to comply with him .

--he only takes anika 's side once he sees things are going out of hand , and stops his mom with mere compensatory words like - stop it mom , i won't hear you say a word against her ...the one time he did raise his voice was against tej ! But woh toh sab natak tha .. For cctv !

-- knowing sso i could at one point vouch that whoever even raised a voice against his family , against his dil ke tukde brothers , would have a trip to hell and back ! But here what i see is The maha insaan in the making who didn't get Mrs kapoor arrested ,he bid adieu to his beloved human friend tia like she never phelaoed enough raita in his life. We all had anticipated so much , waited for this revealation , but nothing came out of it . It was a major dissapointment ! And mind you they were not even from a khandani clan , so why this indifference SSO ?

-- Where is the newly found insaniyat ? When he got to know that a differently abled child of 5 years was reminded of his social status in this crass society , he who had rushed to his pregnant enemy to support her when she was pushed , where was he when is was told about the mishappenings ?

-- i don't understand why sahil is brought to the show ? To be insulted time and again ? This kid has been remeinded of his inabilties everytime he makes a comeback . His crutch is used as his weakness and not his strength. I feel pity for the kid who plays the role . What impact it might have on his innocent mind? What lessons he may learn from the show he is a part of ? His disabilty has been made into a prop. I was expecting shivaay to bond over sahil after his comback . But we didn't get a scene regarding that . Instead what we saw was our beloved shivaay telling his wife to love his behen more and for once get over her bhai !! Sorry thats what i understood when he said- tum sirf apne bhai ke bare me soch rahi ho , ek bhabhi ki tarah socho ? Did priyanka 's demands hold more value than a child 's repect for shivaay ?

--why this dual personality SSO ? Are u playing mind games with us ? To make us believe that you are still here ? Where was our SSO when you saw ur zimeedari bending down and touching the holy feet of her abuser ? Didn't yor blood boil to see and abuser coming go your house challanging you and making your zimeedari ask for forgivness ? Why did you stop when anika asked you to? Why didn't you pin her to the wall like you usually do to make her understand and see the reality ? and stop her when she needed to . The girl has lost it ? But what about you ?? Thought you were always in control of situations ! I had expected more than just the angry expressions .. This gave it away . Our sso is indeed kidnapped !

-- The less said the better ! I think the time SSO jerked her ,threw her on the floor and forced her to marry him , she banged her head somehow and lost her memory ! Coz i dont see a hint of anika since then .

-- she has become the sati savitry , abla nari , pati ki bhakt , sanskari bahu , sacrifical looney since then.

--Who in the right mind would accept a marriage like this ? Okay she was different , and maybe was too attached to the family so she did ? But this behavior change ? It it the manglasutra ? Or the sindoor that is having that effect on her ? Has she lost her self respect ?

--She has been reminded time and again about her status , served with rotten words in a golden platter by pinki mata ! Has been adorned with words that is utter crass and disgusting which are unheard of . Yet she roams around the house chewing on an apple like JHANSI KI RANI.

--Where is the anika who by the mere comaprison of her to the shit on the road by sso , had gone berserk and thew the same shit on his face !

--Why this sudden change of attitude ? As far as my memory goes you never apologised for things you were not guilty of ?

--Where has your love for your brother gone? Are you ready to sacrifice his respect for a khandaan that hasn't even accepted you ? Nobody came to his rescue when he was pushed by a guest ? Not even your dewar rudy stood up to protect you or your brother . And it has not happened for the first time . Are you willing to sacrifice his respect too? To satiate the ego centric oberoi's , are you willing to just ignore and instead ask maafi to the culprit and betray your brother once again ? Because you are now a bhabhi too and a love marriage is more important than a child's self respect and self-confidence. I had heard love is blind but weak too? You just proved it . What lessons are you giving to your brother? Are so indebted to shivaay , since he paid for your brother 's education ? A child picks up things not just from his school but from his surroundings as well .

-- how could you go up to your abuser and ask maafi ? When have u started taking this BS? Didnt you feel michmichi when you touched his disgusting FEET? Didnt your hand itch from the urge to slap him and throttle him instead? Have you forgotten how you handled the assulters that your bua had thrown at you ? You had fought till you could , not caring about the society . You didn't need anybody 's help then . U didnt stop when the oberois 's had come to your rescue. You still beat the sh** out of them with your chameli? Why this indifference to your abuser , kidnapper , blackmailer now ? Because he is going to be your mama in law ? Again a rishta making her weak ! Why this unneccessary sacrifice ? Why didn't you listen to shivaay when he asked you to do what's best for you for once ? Are you trying to gain sympathy ? Then sorry girl ,, u aren't getting any!

Sorry guys for this awefully long post . I am a doctor by profession and watch this show in my leisure time and on my days off ,keeping my brain aside just for entertainment purpose . I don't let all this crap get into me and stir me emotionally . I have enough of that to deal with at the hospital . My duty has been very light . Only one 24 hr a week the rest days are off . So yea more time to delve into these things . And its my first indian tv show so cant make comparisons . I am still hooking to the show because i wanted to c shivaay tranforming , anika having a better life , of her finding her true love . I was in love with her character . And to see this changing into what i have been seeing for the past month has been like an eye sore , visually and auditorily un-appealing . I know a lot of you that includes me too have been affected by what has been delivered to us in the name of entertainment . I know a story has to show some negativity for it to overcome that and send a social message . But going with the track record of this show , sorry to say but they have failed to handle such sensitive issues properly . And that makes me cringe more to imagine the impact it will have on the society who still deems this medium as their source of knowledge . We all know how easily our society is manipulated and influenced by this glitzy world of bollywood and tv . I only hope and pray that somebody knocks some sense in these writers and use this platform to rectify the damage they have done .

If I was in anika's place I would have leave the house long back...once she said I remember when shivaay accepted tia infront the media in that episode...sahil and her self respect is everything to her...yes I do agree with you anika is a bullakar she forgot her own self...she was forced to get married insult humiliation each and everyday her brother was pushed many times accused as chor...called him manhoos apahij...I get it she loves shivaay but she has becoming gopi bahu version 2.

The old anika is dead long back...showing a woman touching a man feet who try to kill her few months back was the most disgusting thing was shown.

Shivaay kyaa bolu NKK aur family is everything jaap se bahar toh nikle tab kuch keh sakta hai...most funnist part think like prinku's bhabhi kuan soche prinku me bhabhi ke tarah did he accepted anika as his wife did his mother accepted anika as their bahu no then why would anika think like a bahu.

I'm fed up of all this negativity in the show...little boy gets abouse by old woman.. then the older sister touches the abousers feet and touches the man feet who trying to kill her.

One weak person who is a sister of a really influential person getting blackmail by a police officer...old IB is gone long back I just pray we shivika fans don't lose our shivika because I only watch for them now.

It seems when you get married you lose your respect your self respect and your brains because that's what it shows Annika characters was completely destroyed yesterday she had to apologize to the man who kidnapped tortured her in name of family (one who has not accepted her as yet and a husband who still can't say she is his wife).