How would you react to child like Jiji

I was shocked the way jiji treating Maasa and telling her about her dying and all and always blaming her bad deed on Maasa.

I don't know how ppl justify their wrong doing to near and dear ones and hurt them so badly. How can they sleep at night. Kids some times make you regreat having them. Maasa is so right about washing off Urvashi from her life. She spares no one . Not even her own mother.

I mean I don't know How to react to child like Urvashi. It is too hurtful and painful.

Being a parent myself, A parent is always to blame for how a child turns out !!!

Originally posted by: reisar31

Being a parent myself, A parent is always to blame for how a child turns out !!!

Thats a very strong statement you have made..I am no parent,but being a daughter,I know my parents have always wished the best for me and tomorrow if I do something wrong,I would be completely responsible for my wrong actions,whereas if i manage to do something right ,it would be cause my parents always taught me that and wished the best for me.Bottomline, an individual is always responsibble for his or her own actions..Cowards and losers blame it on parents cos they cannot take responsibility for their own actions..No offence intended.

THAT IS SO TRUE,I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH U.👏
BEING A PARENT MYSELF TOO,I ALWAYS TRY TO TEACH POSITIVE THINGS TO MY KIDS WITH ALL MY KNOWLEDGE AND EFFORT,AND IF THEY GET ONTO THE WRONG TRACK WHY ALWAYS BLAME PARENTS?

i would be very embarrassed and ashamed to have a daughter like her. i dont know what i would do.

Nice post, Ramas.

As a mother, I would say a good parents never teach their children to be bad. Parents teach their children good manners, behaviours and values etc.

When the children becomes an adult whether they follow the good things their parents tought them or the other way round (I mean a bad way) is their own responsibility and their parents are not responsible of their actions.

Urvashi's case, it looks like she has taken the wrong or tha bad way and she is responsible of her actions. Look at Tara, her sister is very kind and respectful to her parents.

I would have been very ashemed to have a daughter like Urvashi, not only me but any other mother would have been the same. This is what Urvashi's mother's facing today and regrets the day god gave her such type of a child.

Originally posted by: reisar31

Being a parent myself, A parent is always to blame for how a child turns out !!!

I know you are so right especially the mother no matter how good a job you do as a parent.😡

Originally posted by: redred

Thats a very strong statement you have made..I am no parent,but being a daughter,I know my parents have always wished the best for me and tomorrow if I do something wrong,I would be completely responsible for my wrong actions,whereas if i manage to do something right ,it would be cause my parents always taught me that and wished the best for me.Bottomline, an individual is always responsibble for his or her own actions..Cowards and losers blame it on parents cos they cannot take responsibility for their own actions..No offence intended.

you are so right. I would say same thing in my case my grandma and my dad taught me all the values. and I too feel a person should be responsible for their on action. But some shameless ppl like jiji blames the parent for their wrong doing and justify it. What can you expect from the person who does not respect mother or motherhood. She is using her own child to get what she wants and now and then threten to harm him or kill him.🤢😡

Originally posted by: fjsexy

THAT IS SO TRUE,I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH U.👏
BEING A PARENT MYSELF TOO,I ALWAYS TRY TO TEACH POSITIVE THINGS TO MY KIDS WITH ALL MY KNOWLEDGE AND EFFORT,AND IF THEY GET ONTO THE WRONG TRACK WHY ALWAYS BLAME PARENTS?

plz do not use capital letters as it is consider shouting.

I do agree why kids blame the parents. If anything they should learn from parents mistake and do better.

Originally posted by: neela226

i would be very embarrassed and ashamed to have a daughter like her. i dont know what i would do.

Me neither. I just thank god that my child is very sensible and understanding and very value oriented.

I have seen some kids totally out of control and embarassment to their parnets. Jiji being and only real daughter to Maasa should take care of her. As Maasa is alone rather then hurting her so much.