Flashback: When Rekha confessed about her affair with Amitabh Bachchan

Hurting one woman to not hurt another is just as wrong. Only if love could be black and white. Only if people loved themselves more than they loved others.Sigh!!

She is just as responsible as was he, for she chose to be in such a relationship.

Originally posted by: Inquisitivesoul

Hurting one woman to not hurt another is just as wrong. Only if love could be black and white. Only if people loved themselves more than they loved others.Sigh!!

She is just as responsible as was he, for she chose to be in such a relationship.

interesting though I have read the whole article in magazine- 😃

Originally posted by: RidziMaan

Forgive me as I disagree to her being JUST AS responsible as him since she has no duty of care or loyalty towards Jaya or the kids but he does. Yes she isn't innocent the as she knew full well he was married and still continued with such a relationship but he was the one who chose to cheat on his wife and put strain on his marriage and family as a result. Therefore he is MORE RESPONSIBLE THAN HER

I was strictly talking from Rekha's perspective about her relationship with AB and NOT from Jaya's or Jaya's marriage. What Rekha got out of such a relationship is as much her fault as was of the man involved coz she chose a relationship where a man wouldn't acknowledge her publicly.

I 100% accede that the onus of honoring the marital vows lies with the two people who take them with each with their family and friends as witness. No general consensus of moral code needs to be adhered to.

Originally posted by: Inquisitivesoul

I was strictly talking from Rekha's perspective about her relationship with AB and NOT from Jaya's or Jaya's marriage. What Rekha got out of such a relationship is as much her fault as was of the man involved coz she chose a relationship where a man wouldn't acknowledge her publicly.

I 100% accede that the onus of honoring the marital vows lies with the two people who take them with each with their family and friends as witness. No general consensus of moral code needs to be adhered to.

Originally posted by: RidziMaan

Oh right I understand. Yes I agree she put herself in the position of being ignored/denied in public and so isn't likely to get any support from me on this.

I am however very intrigued by her psyche in making such a choice. I genuinely believe her childhood messed her up so much when her father denied his relationship with her mum and being called an illegitimate child etc that she came to view these relationships as "normal". In simple terms she's had daddy issues and that has led to her latching herself onto men for approval and validation

That is my amateur level psycho analysis. I could be entirely wrong. Just a musing of mine.

Psychologist link almost all life issues to childhood triggers.Could be that or could be genuine love that happened at a wrong time. Feelings don't follow the law of the land, it is what it is, and sometimes it's just bad timing.

She did try and move on to other men and women (rumor) but who your heart aches for is organic, I guess.Her choice, her misery or joy.

I think lower of AB in the whole scenario. I think he owed both women more. I have very little respect for people who first indulge and then hide behind conformist rules of the society. I think he gets far more respect than he deserves.