masoomana sawal?

If the laws of Feminism say, "Her body, her rights" how does a girl who chooses to worship the ground her husband walks on become a doormat? Specially when she isn't forcing the husband to accept her devotion and just doing her own thing on her own.

I have never been a supporter of that my body my rights theory too, especially if you are saying about that video which said that whether I stay with you or spend night with someone else its my right. Is it? I mean really, so accept the same from the guy as well, if he spends his night with other woman, he becomes a douchebag, but if the girl does its her choice? If the girl is allowed to wear whatever she wants, then would a girl not object a guy who goes into the marketplace clad only in his UG

This for me is not feminism but pseudo feminism

Anyhow coming to this question, yes Gauri said that she will consider Om as her husband without any expectation, someone here even compared her to Meerabai, but is Om worth it? A guy who doubts your chastity and thinks you to be a gold digger, you want to consider him worth waiting? Why give someone a chance to insult you, especially someone you know would insult you
PLus I don't think Gauri actually wants to never encounter Om, she has come to Mumbai to go to her Sasural

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism

I have never been a supporter of that my body my rights theory too, especially if you are saying about that video which said that whether I stay with you or spend night with someone else its my right. Is it? I mean really, so accept the same from the guy as well, if he spends his night with other woman, he becomes a douchebag, but if the girl does its her choice? If the girl is allowed to wear whatever she wants, then would a girl not object a guy who goes into the marketplace clad only in his UG

This for me is not feminism but pseudo feminism

Anyhow coming to this question, yes Gauri said that she will consider Om as her husband without any expectation, someone here even compared her to Meerabai, but is Om worth it? A guy who doubts your chastity and thinks you to be a gold digger, you want to consider him worth waiting? Why give someone a chance to insult you, especially someone you know would insult you
PLus I don't think Gauri actually wants to never encounter Om, she has come to Mumbai to go to her Sasural

First part - unrelated debate about what feminism is so not touching that.

Second part - uski marzi. My question was even without watching how she's going to act around him or knowing what she'll ask of him...how does Gauri become a doormat? As per the spoilers,Gauri isn't actively seeking Omkara or wanting to meet him. But she ends up at his place anyway.

Feminism is such misused term .It should be choice Gauri is not doormat still but I hope she doesnt become one once she can clarify to him but if he chose not believe she can leave amd be how she wishes too ..Her dialogue about sasuraal irked me otherwise yest when she saod about waiting for him I was okay..

This I agree with. It's still early to say if she is a doormat or not, cause we haven't seen what she is going to do. If she is going to go the way, anything he says, husband is my god...then of cause she is a doormat, but that hasn't happened yet. So yeah, uski marzi, lets see what she is going to do first.

Originally posted by: lostmymusic.

First part - unrelated debate about what feminism is so not touching that.

Second part - uski marzi. My question was even without watching how she's going to act around him or knowing what she'll ask of him...how does Gauri become a doormat? As per the spoilers,Gauri isn't actively seeking Omkara or wanting to meet him. But she ends up at his place anyway.

Added the first part as you had mentioned if my body my rules is feminism then why not this, and I just said that even that is not feminism

Now coming to the second part, the girl who took the dust below her so called husband's (who doesn't believe in this so called marriage) into her hairline is the work of a doormat, considering a man who just acted to marry you for protecting you from goons you husband, is the work of a doormat

Feminism ko goli mar and enjoy bas aik massoma sa jawab :p

If it's indeed her choice to think of him as special and devote herself to him from "afar" then that is her problem! As long as she stays "Afar". But if she comes to his house, tries to seek him out, assert her rights as his so called wife etc, that is possibly taking this too far. It's like she is somehow making herself available to him and pushing her way into his life.

It seems like Gauri is forcing herself on Omkara.
She is going to Mumbai( Her sasural) for Omkara but she said that she will never expect anything from him then why is she going?
And she is wasting her precious time and feelings for someone who's not worth it!
So this is stupidity acc to me!
Khair, It's a show so I can't expect any sensible desicion from a FL.
As this would break the rule of our TV shows!