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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Neela.

Basic question we all keep asking again & again - how does ANY of this indicate that Dev loved Sona? 😲

Some claim that deep down Dev still loves Sona 😲

How?

And if this is true LOVE, then none of us EVER experienced LAU!! Thank God, not THIS one!!!

Something is seriously wrong with the basics here? Perhaps CVs read some different books as they grew up

All of you are right when you say that for Dixits it's always been I, Me, Myself 🤢


Your main post has hit the right chords and the question about love- Dev is a narcissist and loves himself only. He is a devotee of his god maa again a trait of narcissism - me, my and myself.
You rightly said - most of the Dev team is seeing Dev "The actor". I'm sure if KRPKAB was a book - very few from the Dev team would be appreciative of Dev.

IMO - Dev like characters don't deserve even the pity and sympathy bcps even god helps those who help themselves. This MCP is just brain dead to see anything beyond himself - what to talk of logic and feelings of others.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am lost now... the only reason that prompted me to make this post is THAT dialogue from Easwari...which I hear is in today's episode (haven't watched it yet) that HAD SHE KNOWN Sona came with her grandchild... she would have never turned her away! Does that mean anything else other than - Sona was welcome ONLY because she came with a babay?

Sorry, I am failing miserably here in interpreting what the CVs are showing 😕

How many of those who are on Dev's side and EVEN justifying Ishwari care about Sona becoming a succesful business woman and a single mother. That's what I call the mentality of our society. No matter what a woman does and no matter how much she proves herself without a MAN's support, she's still wrong for not falling at his feet and calling out to him zillion times to let him know that his donated sperm was succesful in making her a mother

SHAME on such a thought process!

I definitely am not blaming you...you at least are appreciating the positive aspects of the show - you have understood and appreciated Sona's side too, so thanks for that!

Originally posted by: _charu_


No dear..i dont think they r showing this much crap..infact this is one of the better serials where writing is class apart , realistic and evokes so much discussion..otherwise in all others they show women as devis or plotting vamps...here all characters except gkb (she is evil) and asha(the only positive one) are gray and complex...


Imo they are not trying to show that a womans worth is only till she produces babies but they r trying to show otherwise ..through sona ...she proved that she is a complete woman...of all the people understood ishwari and gkb's intent ..so when it went beyond her tolerance she threw the divorce papers on his face n walked away..how much can anybody take..not only she became a single mother but a successful businesswoman...👏


On the other hand i like dev's portrayal also..not all men are alike ..there r henpecked husbands , there r men like mamaji and there r mamma boys like dev so i love to see his shades n his problems ..with him and bec of him..i said it earlier that ppl like dev shd be barred frm marriage ..but it may not be possible ..i salute those women who put up with mils like ishwari..tough but not impossible ..all in all , i am enjoying these rang pyar ke..a good lesson to the girls who fall in love blindly..ho jayega shadi ke baad ye woh but hota nai hai..ishwari thot ho jayega sona se adjust sona thot ho jayega mammas boy ko control neha thot ho jayega ac frige and flat ka intezaam but hota nai hai😆 later these issues become big..complications of love marriage ..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sorry, my mistake. As I said earlier, I just went to a wrong school and perhaps it's late in this birth to re-enroll into the same (& obviously the correct) school.

Your are right - it's ALL Sona's mistake!!!!!!!!! Fault with my basics you see! 😃

Originally posted by: rahulvats12


Didn't get that why r u bringing all old talk here that happened before leap..in yesterday epidode something related to it happened there or they talk about it there ?

I think they r arguing over child.

Yes..I can definitely day that nothing will happen with soha ,that what happened with sonakshi...

U r just assuming things here that soha can't be happy...
And u r taking About stand yes dev didn't take stand every single time but atleast he took stand sometimes in front of his family... But when sona defended or took stand for dev when bijoy accused him so many times not a single time..

And what dev did yesterday with sonakshi... It's just a way to express his anger on her for hiding such big things from him last 6 years... And he had a valid reason there...he was not doing anything unnecessary...and dev is not a antaryami that he would know about that she came earlier.

In place of Dev, if it is sona who r doing all this...then am sure we will get different reaction from all

Atleast dev even in so much anger, he said one thing that from his side, he will never try to separate sonakshi from her daughter whereas sonakshi was busy chanting in my beti my beti...she resembles a little bit of iswari there.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Neela Take a Bow my Lady how did I miss this post👏
It is a very Sad state of affairs that a womans worth is only her womb..we have made strides in every aspect of our lives there is nothing that a Man can do that a woman cant do except a Man really cannot carry a child within them and that is exactly what is being used to measure our worth.

All I can say is this show is leaving a sadness, very bad taste in my mouth and a hiatus from this show and forum for a week helped me realise that real life that we have been blessed is not bad at all.

We can only preach equality or injustice being meted to an audience who are willing to listen not to one who is deaf, blind and mute...so each of us can do our part by being phenomenal Men or Woman. Great parents to our children whether it is a Boy or Girl and Stay true to ourselves for when each of us stand tall everyone does

Thanks again for this awesome post

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