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Posted: 8 years ago
#11
As a woman and the mother of a daughter, I completely agree with you!
They need to show the young girls and women that their worth is not calculated on what the backward society expects of them but on their own merits and achievements.

These TV shows nowadays are shockingly regressive. They seem to be brainwashing female audience that a woman's worth is only when she produces a child, then only she will be valued in her sasural.

Good going, chauvinistic writers, as if there wasnt enough abuse and exploitation of women in Indian households. You have to show this mentality on ur show and present it as an acceptable POV 🤢

Ishu regretting that she turned Sona away not knowing that her poti was also there, doesnt that shock Dev?

Just the fact that she did come back, she wanted him to meet his daughter, that shd enrage Dev and turn him against his mother.
But thats too much to expect.🥱

The dailymotion vdo shows Dev telling Ishu that nobody will meet Soha because he wants her to come of her own free will, I hope this is a sign that hes finally realized what a toxic household he lives in and how utterly selfish and manipulative his dear mom is. 🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now talk about women right fine... But didn't get anything what problem with dev...she hide the truth from her and everyone here r expecting him to be nice with sonakshi... Ifnshe mother then dev is also father...he has every right to show his anger over her...she kept his daughter away from. Him for 6 years... So what will be reaction of dev ?
Cvs show clearly right today that dev has a reason to shout over sonakshi and it's good makers r showing everything from every one point of view.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Now talk about women right fine... But didn't get anything what problem with dev...she hide the truth from her and everyone here r expecting him to be nice with sonakshi... Ifnshe mother then dev is also father...he has every right to show his anger over her...she kept his daughter away from. Him for 6 years... So what will be reaction of dev ?

Cvs show clearly right today that dev has a reason to shout over sonakshi and it's good makers r showing everything from every one point of view.


Are we watching the same show? 😕

Had Dev stood by his wife like a MAN and never let Ishwari, GKB, Vicky feel Sonakshi an outsider, he would have had the pleasure of fathering his own kid. If you are saying that Dev hiding Sona's infertility problem and indirectly pressurizing her for fertility treatment are MANLY acts, then sorry my friend, I need to enroll myself in a better school.

As I said, I am not against Dev and not for Sona. But if you feel I am being a feminist even after that, I'd want you to put yourself in a father's shoes and imagine Sona as your daughter. Just imagine, & I pray if you ever have a daughter, she never gets to go through what Sona went through at Dixits.

I rest my case if you can find a satisfying and honest answer 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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😃 Devs and in-laws like Dickshits are the reality of our society. Hope someday women learn to stand up against the bullies and show them their hypocrite faces and moves on like a boss. In reality these type of husbands are the reason of women still being tortured at their in-laws. 🤢

A woman's worth is not for a man to decide. To each of her own. 👎🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post Neela!
My blood is boiling too. I hate such self centered , narrow minded people who claim to love someone the most yet feels their pain is bigger than the other peraon's pain and sacrifices and struggle. Dev only cared about his feelings and didn't even bother to even feel to think that how sona must have gone through her 9 months of cycle of carrying a baby in her womb without any job and house? Doesn't he remember his childhood that dixits always keep cribbing about. Who says to feel someone's pain or understand their situation, one has to go through the same process or be in their shoes? That's utter nonsense and bullshit? People like dixits are only capable of ruining other people's life's and cribbing about their past. They irk me to the core!

The way he grabbed sona by her arms just because he thought she hid her daughter from him then please tell me his mother is the real culprit behindthis then how should he hold her? Strangle her neck? And this is not the first time she played with his life.

Come on dev, be a man now! It's high time that u cut her off of ur life forever! Before your daughter also calls u SPINELESS!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I sympathize with sonakshi & she had a right to "hide" soha from dev as they were divorced n she was shown her worth already by dev and ishwari ..personally i wont call it hiding her daughter ...but sona didnt do thw right thing by coming to this city again , knowing that she can confront dev and mad dixits again, as advised correctly by her father..realistically may be no mother will do this if she cares for her child ..but a serial has to run that way so i'll leave it here..
As its well written in some other post (sorry dont remember who) , its all a game of expectations ..what we call as adjustment and compromise post marriage is actually lowering your expectations ..neha and her family expected her husband to borrow money frm them, he didnt so he failed..ishwari expected sona to be ONlY dev's partner in bed and bear babies bec this was the only thingishwari couldnt do for him ..for the remaining jobs, from selecting bedsheets to cooking to combing dev babas hair,, sona shd stay away as its ma ka haque..so everywhere sona failed when expectations wwre not met..


Dev expected sona to understand his love for his mom and adjust and go on sacrificing and crushing her self respect ..so here too sona failed him acc to him ..sona expected dev to stand up for her ..dev failed her ...this is one part of the story..other is that all of thek were fooled by gkb radha rani and attacked each other and misunderstood each other leading to the chaos..cinematic liberty..


Sorry for straying away from the topic ..i understand sona's worth but who are those bec of whom she is in this position? They too are women..their worth? neha ishwari and gkb..sad and bad part of our lives ..women r pitted against each other and a woman is another womans worst enemy..



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very good post and much needed one too. Except a few , majority are against these " so called handsome uff, Heroic and romantic acts" Thanks folks!
I was shocked on day before yday part and now could nt see how sonakshi was treated by dev.
Comeon CVs please open your eyes wider and see the world majority women are working women -as labourers in most of the industries, house maids ,teachers, nurses , doctors (i mention these profession as these are occupied by women predominantly) and other professions too . They are stronger, run the family with or without their husbands support. Women are the strongest, though they face issues inside and outside the family they dont give up. So please dont show us that woman as weak and who cannot live with out a man.
I understand for Sona it might be a new scenario or new experience of fighting for her daughter unfortunately with a man who is the biological father. If it is for her she would not care.since it is for the child she might have been traumatised.
But make her stronger . She has to be stronger not only for herself but for her daughter.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Charu, True, one woman is another's enemy. Wonder if in the olden days men used this to cause a rift between women & make them weak! You know divide & rule.
It's centuries after that and women have been the leaders of countries, yet it really aggravates to see the writers writing such retarded stories. Of course I trust such things happen in the society and that's where I feel TV show creatives should take some responsibility and change the thought process of the society, at least stop showing such bullying!

But for Dev fans -

Shaheer <> Dev ... looks like he himself is not liking this character of Dev. Please wake up to accept the reality!


[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjjhhlsYlJ4[/YOUTUBE]
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Neela.

@Charu, True, one woman is another's enemy. Wonder if in the olden days men used this to cause a rift between women & make them weak! You know divide & rule.

It's centuries after that and women have been the leaders of countries, yet it really aggravates to see the writers writing such retarded stories. Of course I trust such things happen in the society and that's where I feel TV show creatives should take some responsibility and change the thought process of the society, at least stop showing such bullying!

But for Dev fans -

Shaheer <> Dev ... looks like he himself is not liking this character of Dev. Please wake up to accept the reality!


[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjjhhlsYlJ4[/YOUTUBE]


No dear..i dont think they r showing this much crap..infact this is one of the better serials where writing is class apart , realistic and evokes so much discussion..otherwise in all others they show women as devis or plotting vamps...here all characters except gkb (she is evil) and asha(the only positive one) are gray and complex...


Imo they are not trying to show that a womans worth is only till she produces babies but they r trying to show otherwise ..through sona ...she proved that she is a complete woman...of all the people understood ishwari and gkb's intent ..so when it went beyond her tolerance she threw the divorce papers on his face n walked away..how much can anybody take..not only she became a single mother but a successful businesswoman...👏


On the other hand i like dev's portrayal also..not all men are alike ..there r henpecked husbands , there r men like mamaji and there r mamma boys like dev so i love to see his shades n his problems ..with him and bec of him..i said it earlier that ppl like dev shd be barred frm marriage ..but it may not be possible ..i salute those women who put up with mils like ishwari..tough but not impossible ..all in all , i am enjoying these rang pyar ke..a good lesson to the girls who fall in love blindly..ho jayega shadi ke baad ye woh but hota nai hai..ishwari thot ho jayega sona se adjust sona thot ho jayega mammas boy ko control neha thot ho jayega ac frige and flat ka intezaam but hota nai hai😆 later these issues become big..complications of love marriage ..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Neela.


Are we watching the same show? 😕

Had Dev stood by his wife like a MAN and never let Ishwari, GKB, Vicky feel Sonakshi an outsider, he would have had the pleasure of fathering his own kid. If you are saying that Dev hiding Sona's infertility problem and indirectly pressurizing her for fertility treatment are MANLY acts, then sorry my friend, I need to enroll myself in a better school.

As I said, I am not against Dev and not for Sona. But if you feel I am being a feminist even after that, I'd want you to put yourself in a father's shoes and imagine Sona as your daughter. Just imagine, & I pray if you ever have a daughter, she never gets to go through what Sona went through at Dixits.

I rest my case if you can find a satisfying and honest answer 😊


Didn't get that why r u bringing all old talk here that happened before leap..in yesterday epidode something related to it happened there or they talk about it there ?

I think they r arguing over child.

Yes..I can definitely day that nothing will happen with soha ,that what happened with sonakshi...

U r just assuming things here that soha can't be happy...
And u r taking About stand yes dev didn't take stand every single time but atleast he took stand sometimes in front of his family... But when sona defended or took stand for dev when bijoy accused him so many times not a single time..

And what dev did yesterday with sonakshi... It's just a way to express his anger on her for hiding such big things from him last 6 years... And he had a valid reason there...he was not doing anything unnecessary...and dev is not a antaryami that he would know about that she came earlier.

In place of Dev, if it is sona who r doing all this...then am sure we will get different reaction from all

Atleast dev even in so much anger, he said one thing that from his side, he will never try to separate sonakshi from her daughter whereas sonakshi was busy chanting in my beti my beti...she resembles a little bit of iswari there.

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