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Posted: 8 years ago
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KRPKAB fans - this is my first separate post. I have been voicing my opinion mostly on Tia's threads as I feel most resonated to the opinions voiced there. I may be looked upon as Team Sonakshi, but as a mother of a girl, I am not team Dev or even team Sonakshi. Rather I am in the team right. And when I read many threads on the forum always finding an opportunity to blame Bijoy or Sona, I question what the thought process is of our today's society? The lines between Shaheer & Dev may become blurred but isn't there a wisdom to see through the wrong? TRP games may be dictating the onscreen CRAP dished out, but don't the writers & CVs have some sense of responsibility of changing the thought process of the young minds at least?

The likes and dislikes of a girl after marriage, her rights in parents and in-laws house is a done and dusted debate. Having been blessed with a very understanding husband and in-laws, my heart goes out to all who have faced the other side of the world and I feel ashamed to read the thought process of many still supporting Dev. But each one to their own likes and so I am not starting this debate over again.

But at least now, after 7 years leap, when the CVs have shown an independent Sonakshi raising a bright young girl in the right direction (yes I can't fathom the pathetic mindset of Suhana if she were raised in mad Dixit mansion) the CVs still choose to show that a woman's real worth is only after bearing a child? 👎🏼

I AM LOST 😔

I stumbled on this spoiler (perhaps for tomorrow's episode)


We all know how Ishwari is, so it's not a surprise that she's saying that had she known that Sonakshi came with her grandchild she would have never let her go. But Dev 🤢

Where is the growth in the characters? Has Dev really changed? Men still need to succumb to booze (& other vices) to face problems in life? Isn't it the biggest proof that women are stronger (mentally at least) than men? Then why don't we raise our girls with the right thought process? In the least to be able to see the difference between right and wrong!

I know, all you sensible women have already voiced these questions 1000 times after the serial derailed. And the current track keeps bringing me (& most of us) back to the same question. What is a woman's worth?

In the tele world and seems in the society (globally) too it is only after giving birth to a kid. Perhaps 20-30% of the society is an exception who have moved beyond this notion and is liberal in the true sense. Women have achieved so much and have shown time and again their ability to thrive and succeed without a man's support. When is the tele world going to show the real world and contribute to the change in the cliched thought process of the society???


I agree the control of the remote is in my hands, but that does not solve the problem!

Any thoughts welcome 😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Even I m lost...my blood is boiling...what are they showing in the name of entertainment?...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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ufff...all shows are based on achieving TRPs... no sensibility...no right/wrong..
frankly speaking..Ex GKB has done somany wrongs to sona...still she is leading happy life
Neha...did she realise her faults??
Ishwari...not regretting at all for anything ...and all these are happy

do not know where to put Dev...


requesting CVs atleast elaborately show the repentence of those memberes and prove that good wins over BAD...not in a single sentence ... happily lived everafter
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey Neela,
Honestly the writers have completely ruined Ishwari and Dev's characters. Some times I wonder if Dev's character would have still held the appeal had it not been played by Shaheer Sheikh. I completely blame the writers.I love Sonakshi's character. A strong Independent woman. Yes she has her flaws but so does everybody. nobodys Perfect. What I don't understand is why the writers have failed to make Dev and Ishwari realise their mistakes??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very very well said, Neela. What is a woman's worth. Is she only a walking-talking reproductive organ? If it functions at the right time, then she is worth something. If it doesn't, she is worth nothing?

This is the same Dev who said that he doesn't care if Sonakshi can become a mother or not. Yet, the moment his mother cracked the whip, he was ready to force Sonakshi. Then where is the big sacrifice for love everyone was boasting about?

Did he try to find out how Sonakshi must have given birth and raised Soha while being homeless, in a new city so jobless (also, no one hires a pregnant woman), broke, in debt, with her family's responsibility on her?

How did she find in her heart to still tell her daughter that her father was a good man even though the same man called her gold digger, home wrecker and it's good she is barren because she'd be a bad mother?

No. All he cares about is what he lost at his own damn fault. Because his happiness is everyone else's concern.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Basic question we all keep asking again & again - how does ANY of this indicate that Dev loved Sona? 😲
Some claim that deep down Dev still loves Sona 😲

How?

And if this is true LOVE, then none of us EVER experienced LAU!! Thank God, not THIS one!!!

Something is seriously wrong with the basics here? Perhaps CVs read some different books as they grew up

All of you are right when you say that for Dixits it's always been I, Me, Myself 🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Cannot agree more! They are showing pathetic things and people are accepting!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am not Any team side
Don't Take it seriously

And start Bashing me 😆

Cv can Make Dev Great In One Day
And Terrible Like Today.


I am Talking Of Today Episode only,

Not Judge Book By it's Cover


Not Judge Incomplete Fight Or Confrontation Without Hearing Anyone One Argument ,,today Dev Speaked His Part


But SONAKSHI Part is Coming

And Fight Result is also Awaited

So Chill

Half Knowledge Is Dangerous


99.99% Memmbers Will Bash me
Like Punching Bag But ,
I am Ready for it😉😆

Have A gud Sleep

Gud night😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: amolak26

I am not Any team side

Don't Take it seriously

And start Bashing me 😆

Cv can Make Dev Great In One Day
And Terrible Like Today.


I am Talking Of Today Episode only,

Not Judge Book By it's Cover


Not Judge Incomplete Fight Or Confrontation Without Hearing Anyone One Argument ,,today Dev Speaked His Part


But SONAKSHI Part is Coming

And Fight Result is also Awaited

So Chill

Half Knowledge Is Dangerous


99.99% Memmbers Will Bash me
Like Punching Bag But ,
I am Ready for it😉😆

Have A gud Sleep

Gud night😛


SERIOUSLY?!!!

Half knowledge? I had posted this before I watched today's episode. And now that I actually did do the mistake of watching it, I wish I did not get hooked to this serial 🤢

What was Dev Dick SHit made to blabber out today? 😲 What did he smoke before blurting out what he said to Sonakshi? 😡

I need to meet this IDIOT Durjoy Dutta & the producers one day!👎🏼

They better not show Devkashi reconciliation EVER! Suhana is better off without a father! Boses are good enough to raise her as a good civilian , if not a millionaire!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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love your post. unfortunately, men like dev and women like ish never change, and all young girls need to be beware of people like them.

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