Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism
Juhi, we are not saying that Om was justified in not giving a notice or was not wrong in throwing money, or on saying those lines. These were all very wrong and I hated that scene
But our point is only that people must not only blame the ML, but also the FL for similar mistake
If Om was wrong in notice giving a prior notice, Gauri was wrong in behaving as it was her right to have a shop in someone else's land
Just think of a scenario, you are travelling a long distance via train (say 24 hours journey) and you reach your birth and find someone occupying it, when you ask him to move, he simply says that he would move after 2 hours (and mind it with authority, not as a request), would you actually give him/her the birth?
Ok she got angry at him on his throwing the money but she gave back to him by throwing the dirt so what was the reason to bring the upbringing (you can not punish for the same crime twice), then Om bashed into his shop after Gauri smashed his car. So both had been equal till then.
If Om was wrong in throwing the money, Gauri was wrong in brining the issue of upbringing (at least after she had got back to him by throwing the dirt), rest of the things were just the reactions
Later at the time of mobile interaction, he called her thief, since he found his phone in Gauri's hand and not always you find people carrying a random phone they found on the road, the next day. Similarly she felt that he is an imposter when he said that he was Omkara, so over there again no one was at fault, but Gauri did raise hand which could be considered wrong (although yet justified since she was hurt hearing the word thief for her)
So till now both have been equally wrong and equally justified in few of their actions, so they must be equally blamed