Degradation of womankind - overkill much?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I was so excited about DBO, but now it is getting disappointing, just to show transformed Om and Rudra the women characters are being weakened and shown in a very bad light...

First,
Saumya

SeriousLy, why did she have to say - I saved him coz he is my husband?
She was such a strong girl, so independent, confident, cheerful, so much better than Rudra of you ask me, she could have done so much with her life, but the whole marriage drama happened and since then she is behaving twisted.
Ok. Let's say, not bcoz of marriage bcoz she has fallen in love with Rudra, but still, she was a radio jockey, a love guru, she understands all this, why is she demeaning herself!
Also, I thought a normal gal who is not model like and 0 figure is a fresh breath if air in a daily soap, but now every useless person is calling no her fat and Rudra is agreeing with them...
This is too much. Not done...

Second,
Gauri

Again, a strong, independent, confident gal has been turn d to nothing, having to seek the help of a person who only feels disgust when he sees her, and she is just running around, heater smelter, and now this marriage drama, and he wanting to be with Omkara despite his attitude, and snarky comments...
Also, the whole stone throwing event was too much - which sane person would pelt stones at a gal whose only crime us to run away from an unwanted marriage - for that she should die - Really?
And then attacking her with swords and all, there us no police, no normal person who can object and say this is wrong except Omkara?

Very, very disappointed with DBO, this is going in a very wrong direction, I hope the CVs pull up their socks and get on with some real, sane business, there is enough madness in the sane world, we know, don't need this OTT horrible business they are showing currently...

What say people?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is Gul's old habits. She is too obsessed wid her crappy Mills & Boons novels which are sold since 1900s. She even commented to a person on her Insta that bad is the new good. She said on her recent insta that she will make bad boys out of good boys. The shocking thing is the main people from her team are women only. You could see her introducing two woman of her team on insta. Then there is the writer Harneet. I am fed up of seeing women manhandled like rag dolls and insulted with horrible words.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I HOPE that Saumya said the dialogue "I saved him coz he is my husband" to announce the news of his-Rudy's marriage to Rudy's friends so that none of the girls get any closer to Rudy. 😈 I am still hoping for a grey Saumya who purposefully came into Rudy's and Oberoi clan's life for revenge...😆

I too am very pissed at the OTT events happening in Bareilly 😵. However I see nothing wrong in Gauri seeking help from Omkara. 😳 She was desperate to save her life and Om was the only person out there who could potentially help her without getting influenced by the evil Thakurs...😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree.Too much of degrading woman.I think we should mail the channel regarding this.If not we will be thrown with the same nonsense again and again.Is this the nayi soch on SP?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sumo: Marriage is invalid coz none of you gave consent to it. Leave Rudy alone and let him figure out his priorities, responsibilities and love. Let us see you work on the comments and fat shaming you are having to endure for no reason. Want to see your grey shades and explore how you ended up falling in love behind enemy lines.

Gauri: Stop running behind Om. He would not want to help without knowing your story. You ramble about everything else in the world but are unable to explain the truth to him. He stopped you once, but you could have forced him to listen at some point of time instead of simply trying to provide hints. Panchvi pass does not mean she does not have common sense.

In Rudy's words from IB: Yeh to aise ho gaya ki ek hi ghar me hokar bhi ek line ka raaz nahi bata sakte.

Lets not explore the logic behind the brothers rejecting their shaadis.
They have their past to blame; children from a broken marriage that never quite got sorted.
They have no faith in that institution. Upto the FLs to not give in to them and help them see the world is not as bad as they presume too.
Edited by Hey_Bhaggu - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kala16

Agree.Too much of degrading woman.I think we should mail the channel regarding this.If not we will be thrown with the same nonsense again and again.Is this the nayi soch on SP?


No use dear. In QH, people did it at least 3-4 times but nothing happens. Jyaada se jyaada we got an apology scrolled during the show. Gul will show what she wants.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She suffered too much and I still don't understand why it had to be this bad. Maybe there is a point to all of this drama or maybe it's just to grab attention, but they should really tone it down. I hope once she gets away from that village the torture ends. I hate how Rudra humiliated Saumya like that, but she should have seen that coming especially after their last conversation. It would be nice if at least one of the FL didn't take their marriage seriously so far my hopes are on Saumya because of the spoilers.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with you..
And people should seriously stop saying " I like the way the hero flaunts his hair while saving the girl by marrying her forcibly or asking her opinion for that matter.."
Concentrate on what is more important And people should take a stand, otherwise the characters may fall into the danger of getting destroyed.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu.y

I agree with you..

And people should seriously stop saying " I like the way the hero flaunt his hair while saving the girl by marrying her forcibly or asking her opinion for that matter.."
Concentrate on what is more important And people should take a stand, otherwise the characters may fall into the danger of getting destroyed.


Being a fan I myself bashed him when he was wrong but I don't think anyone is glorifying him. Day before yesterday, several people bashed him but now Om is not really wrong. There was no other way he could save her among those jungleraaj people. Om should divorce Gauri and Gauri should not take this marriage seriously. If you are offended by all this which I understand I wonder how would you have reacted on ShivIka scenes especially the scenes from the last 3 months.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_juhi04


Being a fan I myself bashed him when he was wrong but I don't think anyone is glorifying him. Day before yesterday, several people bashed him but now Om is not really wrong. There was no other way he could save her among those jungleraaj people.

Om should divorce Gauri and Gauri should not take this marriage seriously. If you are offended by all this which I understand I wonder how would you have reacted on ShivIka scenes especially the scenes from the last 3 months.

I'm not bashing him and definetly not supporting someone who bashes.
And for the glorying thing..well people are doing it, may be not more in this forum but in other social media..it does exist.
I'm saying that his character change seems forced and surreal.

The fact that if some one does something wrong is being masked with the glory of heroism bothers me and unknowingly /knowingly people supporting that kind of act is raising the bars for that kind of glorification to be shown more frequently.

Regarding the degradation of women. Things shown on t.v have impact on the viewer's mind either consciously or not. A constant check should be maintained to allow and retain the content .As a viewer and as a citizen we do have to speak regarding the show's intent and the direction where it is headed.
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