Is the concept of 'Maryada' applicable only for women?

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KhattiMeeti

@KhattiMeeti

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

Hello all,though the episode was good and had lots of drama and the first meeting of the duo after the leap, something that made me cringe was the "random girl" hugging him from behind and then the way he held her tightly, left a bad taste on the otherwise good episode🥱. It was absolutely unnecessary to show this scene as we have already seen this in that Mrs khanna wala scene..

I m also shocked at the thought process, he got betrayed twice, so does that mean it is cool to do such stuffs? He thought naina had affair with someone else and she crossed all the limits while she was married to him. And now, he himself does all these stuffs without any tinge of remorse!! If cvs think they can justify it in the name of " women hater" then they are absoluetly wrong!! 🤢

So, does that mean all these words like maryada, lajja ,sanskar and manymore are only applicable for women and not men? Is it even necessary to show that every random girl runs behind money and rich guys? This is also one kind of objectifying the women!!. Being a girl myself,i was really hurt and felt it was an insult !!🥱

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SANJH

@Snowy_Secret

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Posted: 9 years ago

exactly my point Raj.What was raghav doing everyday with random girl's? he said he exposing them in front of their husband or family but when? after dating them or when they are no use for him anymore... what kind woman hater do thing's like this?He came across like a Casanova who after using woman just kicked them out from his life...if they are using him he is doing the same then what way he think he is better than those girl's? and why make a big deal of naina's decision?just live your life and stop blaming naina for everything in your life...I really don't care if he sleep around with girls but he just need to stop blaming naina now...

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KhattiMeeti

@KhattiMeeti

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Snow_Angel
exactly my point Raj.What was raghav doing everyday with random girl's? he said he exposing them in front of their husband or family but when? after dating them or when they are no use for him anymore... what kind woman hater do thing's like this?He came across like a Casanova who after using woman just kicked them out from his life...if they are using him he is doing the same then what way he think he is better than those girl's? and why make a big deal of naina's decision?just live your life and stop blaming naina for everything in your life...I really don't care if he sleep around with girls but he just need to stop blaming naina now...

Sanjh the otherday, that scene with MRS khanna didn't look this cheap!! But today's episode's scene was cringworthy🥱. Exposing the woman infront of her family jaisa scene to tha nahi aaj..How can a girl pop out of no where in his bedroom that too when he is in his vests..So, what do they want us to think about it? It didn't look like flirting, it looked more than that..Don't know what was the intention behind the scene, it did look disgusting🤢

Edited by MissAngryBird - 9 years ago

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SANJH

@Snowy_Secret

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

plz Raj explain me "Mere room ka darwaja humesha tumhare liye khula huya hain ,tum jab chaho a sakti ho par isse jada kuch umeed mat rakhna" what this dialogue mean?why someone call a greedy money minded girl in his room anytime? pyar to usse keta nehi shaadi bhi nehi krega to kya krega fir wo uske sath?

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vandana21

@vdna

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Snow_Angel
plz Raj explain me "Mere room ka darwaja humesha tumhare liye khula huya hain ,tum jab chaho a sakti ho par isse jada kuch umeed mat rakhna" what this dialogue mean?why someone call a greedy money minded girl in his room anytime? pyar to usse keta nehi shaadi bhi nehi krega to kya krega fir wo uske sath?

Ugh this is pukeworthy! I haven't watched today's epi yet ..but reading this is totally putting me OFF ..why would R do such a thing?? ..and now I can bet a million dollars some woman bearing his child is going to pop up sooner or later -- ARGHHH disgusting ...why couldn't they have retained his strong respectful character - fine - he hates Naina ..but stooping so low is making me lose respect for him now ...I haven't watched the epi but basing my reply on what i'm reading in this thread! ..was looking forward to cute scenes asap ..not pukeworthy shit of R sleeping around with random girls ..ugh..

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Preeti

@well-wisher

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

I still strongly believe that he is not sleeping around with random girls.

He is staying in his company's guest house...is it not Raghav's first day in India...then how the girl is claiming she loves him..she has come to him because he is rich and Raghav is not giving her any importance...she told him something like that poori raat Kaam par dhyaan tha ab mujh par bhi dhyan do..and the angry look Raghav gave to her tells all about the story of night

CVs want to show that girls are after Raghav's money and are claiming to love him..Raghav is exposing them...but somewhere the way its shown is not depicting with clarity Raghav's intention..it is not being shown that he is not crossing his limits and things have been left to viewers imagination..

I hope CVs show some scenes which clarify the things...
And yes even I don't like it when Raghav is shown with random girls

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Preeti

@well-wisher

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Snow_Angel
plz Raj explain me "Mere room ka darwaja humesha tumhare liye khula huya hain ,tum jab chaho a sakti ho par isse jada kuch umeed mat rakhna" what this dialogue mean?why someone call a greedy money minded girl in his room anytime? pyar to usse keta nehi shaadi bhi nehi krega to kya krega fir wo uske sath?

That girl was greedy. When Raghav gave her money she was not ashamed about it & took the money.
In my opinion the meaning of Raghav's dialogue was if she needs money there is no need to pretend that she loves him...she can come any time and can take money coz that's what she wants from him

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SANJH

@Snowy_Secret

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: well-wisher
[BR][BR]That girl was greedy. When Raghav gave her money she was not ashamed about it & took the money.[BR]In my opinion the meaning of Raghav's dialogue was if she needs money there is no need to pretend that she loves him...she can come any time and can take money coz that's what she wants from him

It didn't look like that yr...still I will be happy if what you are saying are actually true...I hope cv's give a clear image of Raghav's character soon

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Preeti

@well-wisher

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Snow_Angel
It didn't look like that yr...still I will be happy if what you are saying are actually true...I hope cv's give a clear image of Raghav's character soon

Lets hope for the best 😊

Edited by well-wisher - 9 years ago

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faria86

@faria86

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Agree with you that these things about not crossing limits,sanskar ,Maan Maryada things are not only for girls its for the boys too & i don't like how cvs are not showing that Raghav is sleeping around with girls or not...they are leaving everything to viewers imagination 😡

i think he doesn't sleep around with random girls yes he dates greedy girls but he doesn't sleep with them & cvs may show us that in future episodes as of now cvs want to show him as a bad boy...I just hope cvs show some scenes which clarify the things soon at least clarify it to viewers if not to Naina

& agree with @well-wisher that girl told him something like poori raat Kaam par dhyaan tha ab mujh par bhi dhyan do..it means he was working all night & he didn't sleep with her

& me too don't like it when Raghav is shown with random girls but cvs will show such scenes in future episodes too where raghav will do such things so things look like he is crossing all his limits with girls to hurt Naina

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