How to keep my sanity

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is becoming one hell a task these days. How about leaving all the kangana hr topics? Noone likes it anymore be it her fans or those who dislike her. Lets do it please!

Anyway whatever we talk here is not helping anyone be it KR or HR. (Oh their abbreviations are rhyming at least) 😆

I like Kangana after all these. What is stopping me from disliking even I have no idea. May be because I never heard or saw her talking the shit that are coming on media. Whatever I saw there was always reasons to like her.

I like her but I don't want to defend her. But always seeing the pages filled with the same words like bitch, psycho, black magic is not helping either. A difficult situation really.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yeah the name calling of her is bad because it sounds very narrow minded with words like crazy psycho etc as if people who really do have mental problems should be looked down upon and insulted!!!
Edited by -iLoveZaynMalik - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You can't ignore the haters when they go on and on about someone you like.
You try to ignore them and they become worse with time.
Only way to stop them is by fighting back coz your silence will be taken as weakness !!
Don't defend Kangu, but don't let them get away with name calling as well!!
Good luck

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Posted: 8 years ago
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if ur searching for sanity in an asylum ur in the wrong place 😆
my dad told me that the real beauty of remaining
sane is act as much insane n try survive ur own
insanity 😆



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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is how it is.. it's a male dominated industry/society. It's always the woman who is blamed. Two people have consensual sex out of marriage, he is called a stud but she is called a s**t.

Hrithik is no saint as he has cheated on Sussanne before...with Kareena and Barbara Mori, so why can't he do it again with Kangana? She allegedly had relationships with other actors before, such as Sanjay Dutt and Ajay Devgn, but she never tried to "use" them for attention, so why would she make this one up in her head? Not incriminating either Hrithik or Kangana but I feel the affair did happen; for Hrithik it may have been a passing one, whereas for Kangana it may have been more than that, and that's where the problem would have begun.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It is getting sick indeed, how people everywhere have so much bitterness towards celebs they don't even know.


I think in this world, it's better not to expect from others, but rather be what you like, become that which you expect from others. Don't let others affect you, don't try to influence others - because, either will be self-destructive if allowed beyond a limit and nothing more...

Same with holding opinions, and being hit back by others for holding your own opinions. If what they say doesn't make sense to you, leave it, if what they say makes sense to you, ponder upon it.

As for defending someone, you can only do that upto an extent - making your stance clear, but if you think people will change by constantly defending, it is never going to happen... After all, it is a fact that everyone is in their own journey of thought formation - be it bandwagoning or spewing bitterness and so on - just let them be. Point is not to be influenced by them but be your original self.

sorry for the sermon. :D
best wishes :)


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

It is getting sick indeed, how people everywhere have so much bitterness towards celebs they don't even know.


I think in this world, it's better not to expect from others, but rather be what you like, become that which you expect from others. Don't let others affect you, don't try to influence others - because, either will be self-destructive if allowed beyond a limit and nothing more...

Same with holding opinions, and being hit back by others for holding your own opinions. If what they say doesn't make sense to you, leave it, if what they say makes sense to you, ponder upon it.

As for defending someone, you can only do that upto an extent - making your stance clear, but if you think people will change by constantly defending, it is never going to happen... After all, it is a fact that everyone is in their own journey of thought formation - be it bandwagoning or spewing bitterness and so on - just let them be. Point is not to be influenced by them but be your original self.

sorry for the sermon. :D
best wishes :)



Are you a professional motivational speaker ?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

It is getting sick indeed, how people everywhere have so much bitterness towards celebs they don't even know.



I think in this world, it's better not to expect from others, but rather be what you like, become that which you expect from others. Don't let others affect you, don't try toinfluence others - because, either will be self-destructive if allowed beyond a limit and nothing more...

Same with holding opinions, and being hit back by others for holding your own opinions. If what they say doesn't make sense to you, leave it, if what they say makes sense to you, ponder upon it.

As for defending someone, you can only do that upto an extent - making your stance clear, but if you think people will change by constantly defending, it is never going to happen... After all, it is a fact that everyone is in their own journey of thought formation - be it bandwagoning or spewing bitterness and so on - just let them be. Point is not to be influenced by them but be your original self.

sorry for the sermon. :D
best wishes :)




I should thank you for writing this!!
Edited by Choco_Cosmos - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: JustMySelf

if ur searching for sanity in an asylum ur in the wrong place 😆
my dad told me that the real beauty of remaining
sane is act as much insane n try survive ur own
insanity 😆




Agree with it fully
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

It is getting sick indeed, how people everywhere have so much bitterness towards celebs they don't even know.


I think in this world, it's better not to expect from others, but rather be what you like, become that which you expect from others. Don't let others affect you, don't try to influence others - because, either will be self-destructive if allowed beyond a limit and nothing more...

Same with holding opinions, and being hit back by others for holding your own opinions. If what they say doesn't make sense to you, leave it, if what they say makes sense to you, ponder upon it.

As for defending someone, you can only do that upto an extent - making your stance clear, but if you think people will change by constantly defending, it is never going to happen... After all, it is a fact that everyone is in their own journey of thought formation - be it bandwagoning or spewing bitterness and so on - just let them be. Point is not to be influenced by them but be your original self.

sorry for the sermon. :D
best wishes :)



+10000 👍🏼


Edited by ImagineMe - 8 years ago

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