Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil
It is getting sick indeed, how people everywhere have so much bitterness towards celebs they don't even know.
I think in this world, it's better not to expect from others, but rather be what you like, become that which you expect from others. Don't let others affect you, don't try to influence others - because, either will be self-destructive if allowed beyond a limit and nothing more...
Same with holding opinions, and being hit back by others for holding your own opinions. If what they say doesn't make sense to you, leave it, if what they say makes sense to you, ponder upon it.
As for defending someone, you can only do that upto an extent - making your stance clear, but if you think people will change by constantly defending, it is never going to happen... After all, it is a fact that everyone is in their own journey of thought formation - be it bandwagoning or spewing bitterness and so on - just let them be. Point is not to be influenced by them but be your original self.
sorry for the sermon. :D
best wishes :)
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