Fathers - Bijoy v/s Dev - Page 2

Originally posted by: LeesaHappy

@ksn - agree with you, bijoy was eccentric at times, but a good father. Dev - so far he has been more like a friend to golu, but not a father.

Coming to dev , there was no father for him.. he took the responsibility of father for his family. Dev took care of his three sisters he has grown up from a low poor kind to. A luxury ones . He never allowed anyone hurt his sisters..

Sorry, but disagree with you. Dev was a very good son, a good brother too, but was never a father To his sisters. He never took the responsibility to be a father and I wouldn't expect him to. He just wanted to give a good living for his mother, in turn his sisters. Would like to point out that earning money and being a good father are poles apart.

As bijoy allowed Sona to take decision in her marriage even Dev allowed Neha to take decision...

Dev was against neha's marriage to start with. It was ishwari who convinced dev that neha is happy for the first time in life.

Sona left dixits as both families couldn't adjust... Neha left her husband as she couldn't adjust ... Both the times bijoy m even Dev helped and stood with their

I'm sorry but I think we are watching 2 different shows. Sona was asked to leave by dev, neha chose to leave her home. There's a lot of difference I think. Sonakshi adjusted a lot, tolerated all the humiliation, was even ready to undergo the fertility treatment for ishwari. Neha wasn't ready to even talk to sort her relationship, her only issue was money in her husband's house, the state of which she knew already.

Dev sacrificed his childhood for a better childhood and a wonderful life for his sisters... He just dint givee money to keep them happy... He took care of all their needs and gave protection...

Agreed dev sacrificed a lot, but come on friend he dint sacrifice as much as neha, she was more of a mother to her sisters, those childhood experiences made her a cynic in life and loose all self confidence, her own mother neglected her so much to favor her son. If that's not sacrifice, then what is.

He always thought of Thier happiness.. and no one recognised that ... I mean he might not be a parent o his sisters.. but he isn't less when comes to parenting... He always was a support for them ...

This, I might agree a little, but he himself said once to sona that he knows his sisters' necessities, but not their wishes and except for Riya's job, in all other situations someone had to convince him for his sisters, be it Nikki's night out (before you start it was Nikki's fault for the way it ended) or neha's marriage.

And I m sure Dev could be good father if he has given an opportunity...

And one will learn the responsibility only when one gets that responsibility ...

I feel bijoy is a good parent for Sona n saurav as Dev is good parent for Neha , Nikki n riya.

Maybe he would be a good father, but his behaviors right now aren't in his favor friend, bcoz being a father is more than pampering your kid. It comes with the responsibility of not just teaching the what's right and wrong, but also giving the kids the freedom to make their own decisions and learn from life sometimes.

A man who has always spoke ill about his son and made fun of him at every stage is a good father . A good father would be a good tonall his children not just to one kid .

Bijoy is not a model father ,husband or son period .He is just project himself to be a man of values but when you see from close you realize he is just a man full of ego and false pride .

Originally posted by: yyy

A man who has always spoke ill about his son and made fun of him at every stage is a good father . A good father would be a good tonall his children not just to one kid .

Bijoy is not a model father ,husband or son period .He is just project himself to be a man of values but when you see from close you realize he is just a man full of ego and false pride .

Interesting view . one which I don't agree or really see .
Bijoy did fail to appreciate Saurabhs underwear business. But to his defence I do understand that ladies underwear business evokes a certain cringe. Right or wrong ... one has to admit it a little embarrassing especially if saurabh is selling to their neighbours.
On the other hand look at his relationship with Asha ... no ego , no machoism . He is proud of her and encourages her.
He can justifiably take pride in his daughter and son. They are shining examples of never give up. The best relationship that defines Bijoy is that between his wife Asha and his mother . One of mutual respect and responsibility. if Bijoy was someone who had lot of ego or pride ... this was the relationship that would not have been so sweet and resilient.