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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hola peeps!
I am usually a silent member on this forum but some episodes are such that I feel an urge to voice out my opinion.
Well, Am I the only one who empathizes with Elena?
Though I am not a great admirer of someone like Elena I was deeply upset by her plight today. I definitely don't want anyone to view this entire situation through the glasses of pity. Elena has made some desicions which were wrong. No matter what one shouldn't give up on their roots. What makes the situation even worse is that she has done it for those people who don't have an inch of value for her as a person.
I was deeply disappointed by the unfolding of events in her life. The way Dev said " you haven't utilized the chance I gave you ", I mean seriously??? Are you the director of examination board who decides the age limit of students who appear for exams and give them chances?

How could Any Human be so insensitive towards someone who is deeply hurt and is going through utmost pain? You have become "DEV BHAI" from Dev jeeju and this is the way you keep up the relationship! All this while I thought you were atleast a good beta and a good Bhai. Oh! I forgot you are now a transformed man my bad!
In any case I would still have a question would you behave in the same way with Neha? Use her for your selfish motives and not try to understand her pain?
Hmm! I don't think my simple brain could answer this question about "Mr.Complicated".
And moving towards the Dixit planet the lesser said the better a weeping DIL is told " Oh! my lovely little darling you can cry later but first answer my question! Like press a pause button on your tears! Press the play button of your mouth! Give us an excel sheet of information and you can cry later "
Obviously in Dixit Planet a DIL is a child bearing machine, like we have a dish washer, a washing machine, a microwave oven and an Elena.
Wow! I would rather choose not to mention the great lady's name in my post and get started about her.
Elena dear it's high time you learn to value yourself and understand the concept of self worth! You know who is responsible for this! It's you! Nobody has a right to control you! You have given them the power to dictate terms on you!
Instead of walking out you could have told Bijoy the truth that you genuinely wanted to meet them and rest of the story frankly I am sure they would have understood you.

I feel like asking you! Teacher ne nahin sikhaya that we live in a democracy? Atleast you could have learned from your elder sister to stand up for the truth and right cause.
Nevertheless! I hope you move on in life.
Dev Dixit is beyond redemption but a selfish lead? What are CVs upto?
And how clueless can the Bose family be?
A person gets into your house stalks your documents and medical reports and you have no idea? Gunni atleast you could have been around Soha baby and tried to find out! Considering the rest of family are happy and enjoying.
Cut to Mr.Dev Dixit as much as I was excited and waiting for the episode when the truth would be revealed to you it left a bitter taste because of the selfish act of yours Mr. complicated . I couldn't feel an inch of happiness on the revelation.
And what have you done? Mummma mummma I am back, your wish is fulfilled! Oh you are happy! I am happy and so the world is colored rainbow because both of us are happy! Anyway, I would rather not go any further.
Lastly, the most important thing that I wanted to convey,

Dear Jatin,
I hope you are doing well! I wish I could get more glimpses of you and could hear you more . I feel immensly sad as I say the following yet would like to say you please speak to Elena. She is lonely and there's none to understand. I cannot find a better person to understand her.
PS: Always remember I really like you 😳😭

PS: This post was a rant against the character development not meant to hurt any fandom.





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Posted: 8 years ago
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Totally agree with you. I so wanted her to blast dev and later Ishwari. All they cared about other people not the poor girl who was so happy to meet her family only to realize how badly she was played. Maybe it was karma coming back for her after she ditched Bose family but she didn't deserve it.
Ds no comment. Flawed hero my foot. Plain evil disgusting person.😵
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Posted: 8 years ago
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yeah.. seriously. I was very disappointed with Dev's use and throw approach to Elina.
I hope this selfish mom-son duo repent their acts.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post. Totally agree with you on many points.
Dev went and gushed in front of his entire family and mother - son duo had a reunion over the celebration of the happy news. But what about Elena? ? It didn't even cross his mind even once that she deserves an apology for how much of a heartless jerk he'd been with her when she was in so much turmoil and crying. . Dixits ko kabhi apne age kisi aur ki takleef nahi dikhti. Duniya bhar ke dukh dard to airfares unhe hi hai. .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Avengers.

Totally agree with you. I so wanted her to blast dev and later Ishwari. All they cared about other people not the poor girl who was so happy to meet her family only to realize how badly she was played. Maybe it was karma coming back for her after she ditched Bose family but she didn't deserve it.

Ds no comment. Flawed hero my foot. Plain evil disgusting person.😵

Sometimes we need to voice out and blast people even if the understand or else we are taken for granted! I am waiting for Elena to repent, realise and give it back.
Well to those people who call him a flawed hero I would rather ask them to understand the difference between flaws and blunders.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: JShukla

yeah.. seriously. I was very disappointed with Dev's use and throw approach to Elina.
I hope this selfish mom-son duo repent their acts.

No amount of repentance and guilt would make up for their acts. People empathize with strangers in pain. She is a freaking member of your family!!
Dev Bhai!
I wonder how can he face her again?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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OMG...CVS made elina aft her marriage like a jocker ...How tomboy she was before marriage and she became really use and throw tissue paper after decided to stay with these mad ppl...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I too felt bad for elena... Yes she made a decision when she was young. You are right again it was a decision for the family that doesnt value her at all. She cried and doesnt have anyone to console her whole- heartedly.
Whether it was a dream or not , but everyone support dev here , for hugging his mother (and disclosing about suhana)- saying who would he hug and get the emotional support. But for Elena...

leave Elena, I dont know what CVs have in their mind about Sona and Suhana's future ? going back to the horror house?


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lady_Macbeth

Beautiful post. Totally agree with you on many points.

Dev went and gushed in front of his entire family and mother - son duo had a reunion over the celebration of the happy news. But what about Elena? ? It didn't even cross his mind even once that she deserves an apology for how much of a heartless jerk he'd been with her when she was in so much turmoil and crying. . Dixits ko kabhi apne age kisi aur ki takleef nahi dikhti. Duniya bhar ke dukh dard to airfares unhe hi hai. .

Thank you!
I have stopped expecting anything from Ishwary. Especially after her behaviour the other day with Elena first I thought Elena had some brownie points in Ishu's eye for the "tyag" of hers but the other day I realized.
From Dev's end it was a complete shock for me atleast.
I expected something from Mamaji!
But huh! He is only there for his Kachori 🤢
Edited by ElMystique - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Elena has turned into a non caring person as well, specially with her son. So what if he was unplanned, thoda toh care karo.
I have very little sympathy for her. Thoda khud ke liye bhi soch lo. Dev ne bola toh chale gayi. Ish ne bola toh mil gayi permission. But moment they asked for favours she thought correctly ki matlabi hai and should have just refused the way she refused GKB. Also it's stupid to enter again when ladka is meeting ladki. Acha thodi lagta hai ki cousin is telling you I have a 6 year old son, oh look I haven't met you in 7 yrs. Airing out dirty laundry in front of potential family. Itna matture banna tha toh thoda common sense use karti.
Glad she got yelled at, thoda reality check mila hai about the family she chose to side with after the split. The family she chose to go behind backs of her own family to marry a creep after knowing so much about them beforehand.

I do feel sorry she was used as a pawn today but hope reality check snaps her out of her stupidity.

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