Bijoy Bose ! You proved me right - Page 7

Originally posted by: Bella100

Finally good to see in this forum ppl have started pointing out bijoys mistakes and stopped projecting him as the best father.. bijoys mistakes and interference is no less thn Ishwari. Hos behaviour with dev was equally bad from day 1 of devakshis wedding.
Only difference is dev has realised his moms wrong doing and somewhat punishing her but bijoy was never made realised by sona in fact his ego has been pampered all
These 7 years

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I always felt he is the one who broke the marriage. I have my reasons to believe so. I won't talk about it now. Today he crossed the limits yet again by hiding Soha from Elena because the truth should not reach Dev. He manipulated the child into playing hide and seek and threatened the house help in the most disgusting way which is not suitable for the great Bose family with so many ideals that they hardly follow but expect others to follow.

Yes he manipulated his grand daughter because us Aadmi ko pata Nahi Chalna chahiye. By the way he forgets that there is something called destiny that drives every one towards the destination.

Dev realised the truth as per the pre cap. I feel excited to see Bijoy's face when Dev bonds with Soha.

Bijoy Bose,you proved me right. Iswari alone can not bear the title. You can share it with her. I mean the word manipulator.

Manpulator maybe ! But Bijoy is not the marriage wreaker. That title belongs fair and square to Ishwari. After suffering through a clingy , super possive mama ... trust me I do know how suffocating it can be . Ishwari was not willing to share her son -- plain and simple .. With sweet words and lies by omission she was successful in separating the two.
But Bijoy on the other hand never wanted the two to be unhappy or separated. He just wanted his daughter to be comfortable and secure. The same need is driving him now. To see Sona be happy and secure. Unfortunately the family has suffered Dev Dixits unreasonable behavior when it came to "HIS" Mother and Family. His go to devil attitude and unreasonable tendencies to wreak lives ...

I feel Though Bijoy is not doing the ethically right thing , as a father he is absolutely spot on. And of all the members only he realized the impact of Elenas suden arrival.

Originally posted by: nocry

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#9900cc">Bijoy is the father who is concerned about his daughter. He could have behaved well (the behaviour that your are annoyed with) if dixits treated them well . Just remember from the 1st time they came to talk about rishta ishwari or the mami how much had they ill treated Sona and her family.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#9900cc">Just because there was love between the pair, or the hero loves the heroine , do you all feel the girl and her family have to sacrifice and bear everything and continue to be in the relationship.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#9900cc">Bijoy overreacts but he listens to his wife mother and her daughter .Not all decisions taken at Bose family just b'cos he said so and adhered by the bose family or Sona blindly. Sona everytime takes the decision on her own. Her father fears of the consequences</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#9900cc">If you equate Ishwari and Bijoy then i feel you have issues on making judgements. Even if you feel both are same and is the reason for the marriage failure, leave them alone na? who is behind Sona not only now even after their 1st break up. Boses always try to move on . But Dev doesnt allow them. Leave them at their peace. They are bad, her father is the worst then why are the dixits behind her. Let him marry anyone and get a child.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#9900cc">But the truth is... everyone including Dev knows who Sona is and her family is ? See how he was smiling at the happy faces of boses. He also knows who are responsible for the failure. Now He is frustrated with the current situation at which he is in. Thats it</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#9900cc">Ishwari does nt bother about her son for the last 7 years . She saw him roaming like casanova, drinking, spoiling his health ,not settling in life, not concentrating his business etc. But now jumbs in just to secure him from Sona. What sort of mother is she ? mother- child love is considered to be the purest of all forms but hers ...please fill in .</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#9900cc">But on the contrast, Bijoy though gets emotional (overactive in your terms) always stand by Sona and her decision be it loving Dev or marrying him , undergoing pregnancy treatment etc.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#9900cc">But one thing i am in agreement with you, why do they try to hide the child ? if at all they wanted to hide they could have stayed in kolkata itself. they have come to Delhi, admitting Soha in Delhi school, having the same office building? How do they think Dev will not find them or Soha. If they have taken a daring step they should ready to face it also . Its confusing. (Hope CVs have some logic)</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color="#9900cc">Sorry if my reply hurts anyone.I have gone through the similar situation. I know what and how it would be to a woman and her family if they are in this situation.Though we are seperated we still have love in our heart. But what to do we cannot live on love alone.</font>

absolutely Spot on !!!!!
Women cannt love alone and finally the distance , accusations and the tantrums drive them away.
As far as Suhana --- she deserves to know her father ... but that can only be her decision ... that too when she is capable of independent decision. The Bose family is definitely driven by fear -- fear resulting from Dev's past crazy reactions.

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

if the CV's see this thread, they will be mighty thrilled to see two camps warring over fictitious characters that they have created.

it is purely fiction and any CV can turn a positive person to a negative person over night... I wonder what will happen to this fandom.. and the camps..

it would be wonderful to see fandom reaction then.. ...