Originally posted by: mreshma
Like many even I am feeling the same...Yes Raman's words were uncalled for...but what was Ishita saying...she said she who stopped him from seeing his daughter herself was going to send her to him for studies...but Mani pointed out n rectified the GALTHI in her decision...means Mani made her change the decision of making her husband n their daughter meeting each other...So what does that show...Mani definitely has the power to dictate their life...so is it totally wrong on Raman's side to feel hurt..
I agree with you. I have not watched the episode but got to understand what was spoken from both the sides and Ishita's actions & words at the last and Raman's words yesterday were puke-worthy and disgusting. No second thoughts about it. Ishita getting influenced by Mani and shagun itself is mighty wrong here. She remaining silent when shagun, the criminal was talking about Raman was totally disappointing and it was like she has no interest to defend Raman in front of the criminal who was considerably more supportive of her husband and defending him. . Ishita again showed only a little resistance to Mani when she condemned him. but the minute Mani reminded her of her promise and said he would arrange for a tutor, she did not utter a single word and agreed to it. That was disgusting and very disappointing too. Had she been a woman of self-respect and dignity. she would have questioned him that she had agreed to stay back only for his business trip and since it is not happening, she is not answerable to him and even if she moves out, she can take good care of shagun or arrange for a maid to do so. But no, Mani did not have to do much to convince her. .
Coming to Raman, whatever he said was disgusting and puke-worthy even if he realized it later. He is definitely hurt and has every right to be hurt because never in her life Ishita has trusted Raman over Mani. But that does not give him any rights to utter those crap against his wife, even in the heat of the moment. Whatever might be the meaning, it directly relates to her loyalty and it was very disappointing and condemnable of Raman to utter those crap. Ishita again made it even more disgusting by not only trusting Mani blindly but also justifying at the end that Mani stopping Raman was right, which again show how much of trust & respect she has for Raman. 🥱
So both of them are a BIG ZERO when it comes to trusting and respecting their partners and there is no one with whom my sympathy lies yesterday. Neither I sympathize with Raman for realizing later nor do I sympathize with Ishita, just because he uttered those words. We can't sweep all of Ishita's bigger blunders under the carpet and highlight only what Raman spoke yesterday. That is totally unfair. I agree with you.
Having said that I believe both Raman and Ishita knows how much the other one is loyal to them and need no certification from rest of the world about it. Both of them were away for 7 years and none could shake their loyalty then, why would they think so now?😕 Yes, Raman was insecure after seeing Ishita with Mani and Alia calling her amma and Mani as appa. So did Ishita when she just saw shagun and her mangalsutra in the award function. She thought Raman and Shagun were married. If it amounts to Raman doubting Ishita back then, then Ishita also doubted Raman back then. I would call that as misunderstandings from both the sides which was fueled by Alia as well and there was no doubts from both the sides. So the point that he doesn't consider her as loyal in his heart doesn't make any sense to me at any cost. My thoughts. No offence meant. Also, now that Ishita is very particular about standing up for her self-respect, I don't think she would have agreed to meet Raman for their anniversary if she really thought Raman is doubting her character. 😊
Edited by priyadarshini.r - 9 years ago