Angoor khatte hai - Page 2

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Can I just pitch in here. 😊

Sona didn't want to make bestie with Dev. I know what you mean. But don't you think it's the responsibility of the other party as well to make her feel free to share her thoughts ? There were few instances I recall where Dev poured his heart out because Sona insisted. Sona insister to be his confidant about his feelings and she kept on asking for it. She understood those emotions and provided him the necessary shoulder to lean on.

But from the few instances which I recall where Sona poured her heart out - when she told Dev about her feeling 'left out' in his family, about her wanting to have a swing, about her wanting him to grow up as a man and stop being a Mamma's boy, about wanting to know more of Dev to make their friendship better - in all the instances Dev either shunned her off saying 'you won't understand because you had a normal life', or made fake promises only to be broken later or lied conveniently. How would Sona feel 'bestie' with someone who doesn't even acknowledge or let him be part of his family/past/decisions ? 😕

For me, if someone tells me 'I cannot explain everything to you' or 'you won't understand' and close the conversation, that would be the last person in the world who would make me comfortable about me sharing MY thoughts with him. 😕

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Can I just pitch in here. 😊

Sona didn't want to make bestie with Dev. I know what you mean. But don't you think it's the responsibility of the other party as well to make her feel free to share her thoughts ? There were few instances I recall where Dev poured his heart out because Sona insisted. Sona insister to be his confidant about his feelings and she kept on asking for it. She understood those emotions and provided him the necessary shoulder to lean on.

But from the few instances which I recall where Sona poured her heart out - when she told Dev about her feeling 'left out' in his family, about her wanting to have a swing, about her wanting him to grow up as a man and stop being a Mamma's boy, about wanting to know more of Dev to make their friendship better - in all the instances Dev either shunned her off saying 'you won't understand because you had a normal life', or made fake promises only to be broken later or lied conveniently. How would Sona feel 'bestie' with someone who doesn't even acknowledge or let him be part of his family/past/decisions ? 😕

For me, if someone tells me 'I cannot explain everything to you' or 'you won't understand' and close the conversation, that would be the last person in the world who would make me comfortable about me sharing MY thoughts with him. 😕

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I totally agree with you Sia. Sona's putting up with Dev's nonsense for so long and not taking a significant effoet to call him out on each of his mistakes was a huge bad blow to their relationship. After marriage she instead became like Dev and started worshipping Ishu for no reason instead of trying to read her motives and act on it. I hated that meek, confused submissive Sona as well.


What Dev is doing today to Ishu should have been done 7 yrs back, what Sona is doing today to Dev should have been done 7 yrs back. May be that would have saved their marriage.