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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know all are Sona- lovers here, so am I to be frank.

What I feel sorry about in this forum is sometimes when some posters disregard Dev's love for Sona in such a light-hearted way. Unlike Sona, it appears Dev was not the quitter in their relationship.

"LOU" is a real emotion and make people behave irrationally, period. Anyone who says or claims otherwise is just lying. 😆

Love maybe painful but it also makes you feel alive and happy. There is no such thing as having a truly rational relationship when it is based on love.

Coming back to our favorite duo..

Since their separation I've wondered, what if Sona had supported Dev all those years ago on the basis of their love and trust- fully knowing he had been an a** to her parents.

What if she, against her better judgement, had believed him when he said he didn't know about the prenup or about her parents being thrown out of their home? Maybe Dev would have fixed everything, and cleaned up all the mess.

Would they have managed to work it out between the families and yet grown stronger in their relationship?

Dev was a huge jackass who made everything about his ma and family. But Sona fell for this guy, and in fact loved him more because he could handle all relationships so well and was very caring because of it. Sona was a more grounded person so we can't point out to her flaws as much. We love Sona because we all identify with her character.

I can understand Sona's anger at that point when she found out her parents had been thrown out of their house and afterwards when she went to talk to Dev in the farmhouse.


I know no woman should accept these things and lose her self-respect. But not trying to resolve the fight for 7 long years even after having their kid seems a bit much.

She has clearly worked hard to given back her parents their pride and self respect, their house and their happiness. But what about herself and the happiness she had with Dev.

I hate that Bijoy and Asha or Ishwari for that matter have done nothing substantial to open their children's eyes and heart and allow them to seek their own happiness with each other. These parents have been taken care of very well by their kids, their needs have been attended to beyond their own expectations, they have been given more love by their children than they could ever need.

But no, the parents have created the rift and are too egoistic to resolve it. Both Sona and Dev should learn from Vicky and Elena to not overdo love at the cost of your own happiness when it comes to parents.


If it werent for Soha, Sona would have nothing sadly. She would be bitter just like Dev.

And I don't think anyone can replace Dev in Sona's life, theirs was a love story that was truly special. She found her true life partner and lost him to the world.


And finally

It seems to me, being the smart one Sonakshi could have but didn't give their perfect love story another chance.

So maybe Dev is a bit justified in being angry?



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Posted: 8 years ago
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His pov he is justified his anger he thinks his mom and sona are responsible for his state like being all alone .
He doesn't know ish twisted brain and he has villains in his house who played games to throw sona out of the house .
Sona infertility also added to breakup in the relationship.
In all this mess he expected sona to stick to him and support him .
He also feels his mom as being elder in the family could have sorted the problem between sona and her but there was no support from his mom too ,
So his anger according to him is justified.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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The situation seven years back came to a point when both exploded and its only because of family members tearing them apart now even after seven years when they seeing each other all the bitterness comes forth both were at fault for allowing their parents to dictate their marriage now both are deeply hurt and angry with each other both expected that their spouses stand and support them for live time
today Dev and Sona proves time and again to their families and themselves that the other does not matter in their lives yet both are still deeply in love
both blaming each other for destroying the marriage
their anger is justified as their pain is slowly coming out
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Imagining an ideal life.. and getting blows back to back.. where u can't /cudn't control.. brings disasters esp to the weak men...
am having my life partner so...
and am also like that...

so i feel more for them...Sona is incomplete despite having Soha...who is more sorted... but she also feels lonely...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

His pov he is justified his anger he thinks his mom and sona are responsible for his state like being all alone .
He doesn't know ish twisted brain and he has villains in his house who played games to throw sona out of the house .
Sona infertility also added to breakup in the relationship.
In all this mess he expected sona to stick to him and support him .
He also feels his mom as being elder in the family could have sorted the problem between sona and her but there was no support from his mom too ,
So his anger according to him is justified


Perfectly right, in his eyes he has always given his 100% to all and yet here he is the loner, the broken man. He is angry with Sona because she didn't care about him enough to stick with him, angry at his mom that she didn't care enough to make Sona feel welcome for his sake.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think sona gave him enough chances...and he proved to be failure everytime
May it be taking descisions according to him moms condition
Lieing to sona everytime
Disrespecting her parents for his mom
And disrespecting sona for his mom

He is still blaming them for his condition...whereas he is the on responsible for everything happening in his life...!!!!
He never tried to solve his mothers issue...but tried to delay every situation..so he deserves what he got...

And sona deserves all this insult and heartbreak as she truested him way too easily after 1st breakup..!!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jade0001

The situation seven years back came to a point when both exploded and its only because of family members tearing them apart now even after seven years when they seeing each other all the bitterness comes forth both were at fault for allowing their parents to dictate their marriage now both are deeply hurt and angry with each other both expected that their spouses stand and support them for live time
today Dev and Sona proves time and again to their families and themselves that the other does not matter in their lives yet both are still deeply in love
both blaming each other for destroying the marriage
their anger is justified as their pain is slowly coming out


Very true. The parents don't deserve Dev or Sona as their children.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Imagining an ideal life.. and getting blows back to back.. where u can't /cudn't control.. brings disasters esp to the weak men...

am having my life partner so...
and am also like that...

so i feel more for them...Sona is incomplete despite having Soha...who is more sorted... but she also feels lonely...


I agree, Sona, Dev and Soha belong together as irrational as it may seem. Everyone else is there to take advantage and make extra noise.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..natasha..

I think sona gave him enough chances...and he proved to be failure everytime

May it be taking descisions according to him moms condition
Lieing to sona everytime
Disrespecting her parents for his mom
And disrespecting sona for his mom

He is still blaming them for his condition...whereas he is the on responsible for everything happening in his life...!!!!
He never tried to solve his mothers issue...but tried to delay every situation..so he deserves what he got...

And sona deserves all this insult and heartbreak as she truested him way too easily after 1st breakup..!!!!


Dev is a jackass- and I agree with you on this. Sona should have stayed away from him from the start. But she didn't unfortunately.

But I disagree with you on one thing- Dev is certainly capable of change. Just look at how he behaves with his mother these days. I wouldn't write him off completely. Time does change people, clearly this is what the makers are trying to say.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No one is wrong ,considering his ONE TRACK IDEA abt love he is completely justified ...first and foremost he loves her more than anyone else...his affection for his mom is more of duty rather than love for his mom..he wants to give back the best to his mom as she struggled to him up...but with Sona its a different game altogether...

His ONE TRACK IDEA of love is that ...no matter what they should never part...but when he gets angry he kicked out her out twice...by then Sona had lost the trust and she knows how he reacts when ppl speak badly to his mom or his sisters...so she believed that he had kicked her family out of their own house...what she didn't know is that he will consciously never do that to her ...he might do it to anyone but not her family...He expected her to trust him...sadly it was too late ...and she left...he just couldn't take it anymore...

Something that I have noticed is that boys take a lot of time to come out of heartbreaks and if they really and genuinely liked the girl...some of them just cant move on...and Dev is that kind...

So yesterday when he was explaining it to Golu we can understand the depth of affection...and even now he doesn't deny ...he tells Golu " ab ka toh patha nahi, par pehle bahut kartha tha"!!

Though I support Sonakshi and get angry at Dev for his behavior...I feel bad for him too...he is the one who is actually lonely and have no one to even confide his feelings...that is why his affection to Golu...so yes I do sympathise with him...but what to do ...he needs to understand that ...what we are today is because of the decisions that we took yesterday !!

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