Originally posted by: MaddyO
Hi Rashmi, btw I love your id đ
I am sure Abhay or Diksha will dig up confirmed information about surname đ
It is complicated and fascinating. What I have read is Jijabai asked for Shahaji Raje's permission for Shivaji-Sai (Mudholkar) wedding. He approved and was going to attend (for those who don't know the background - Shivaji Maharaj's father Shahaji Raje stayed in Bunguluru, with Sambhaji Raje his first born son with Jijabai and Tukabai his second wife and their son Ekoji Raje). He could not attend the wedding.
After the wedding when Jijabai and Shivaji had gone to Bunguluru, Shahaji Raje lamented not been able to attend and Tukabai had suggested getting married a second time because father has to see his son getting married! Yes Soyrabai was Tukabai's choice and Jijabai had no choice in this!
BTW do you remember, Saibai's brother Bajaji was forcibly converted to Islam and Saibai had taken this rather badly. Shivaji Maharaj had promised to bring him back into Hinduism again.
This created quite a furore and Shivaji Maharaj challenged the Bramhin Pandits religious leaders to a debate which he won. Shivaji Maharaj had said religion should be like a flowing river adapting and accepting. If people are converted forcibly then they should be accepted back into religion. As Ruler he cannot turn his back on them.
So a ritual was suggested and Bajaji underwent it and was accepted back into Hinduism.
Not just that Shivaji Maharaj got his daughter Sakhubai married to Bajaji's son Mahadaji (since with the stigma of earlier conversion it was difficult to get him married).
I don't have enough words to convey the respect, love and admiration for Shivaji Maharaj.
Interesting discussion and details. :)
Let me add few more points.
Mother of Shivaji's father - Shah ji was Dipa Bai and she also belonged to the same Nimbalkar family, from which Shivaji's wife Sai Bai belonged. Jija Bai and Dada Ji Kondev (Shivaji's guardian) arranged this marriage of Shivaji.
The surame of Tuka Bai before marriage was Mohite and she was also the paternal aunt of Soyara Bai Mohite.
Not only was Balaji Nimbalkar ( brother in law of Shivaji and brother of Sai Bai ) forcibly converted to Islam by Nizam Shah but also Jija Bai's father, brothers and sons were openly murdered by him.
@Maddy. Since you don't have words to convey respect, love and admiration for Shivaji, let me help you here. :-P { I posted this some where else, too.}
The best tribute, it is said, comes from your critics / enemies. So, here i find it appropriate to quote 3 authorities who were no friends of Shivaji.
1. Mughal historian Khafi Khan*
He writes : " Shiva always strived to maintain the honor of people in his territories. He persevered in a course of rebellion, in plundering caravans, and troubling mankind ; but he entirely abstained from disgraceful acts and was careful to maintain the honor** of women and children of Muhammadans (Muslims) when they fell into his hands. His injunctions upon this point were very strict, and anyone who had disobeyed them received punishment."
* - He is also called a "plagiarist historian". Lol. But that 'distinction' of his is not related to this topic. It is something else.
** - This makes me remember Maharana Pratap. Remember, the entire harem of Abdur Rahim Khan-i-Khana was captured by his son Amar Singh while they were battling with forces of Akbar ; but were released and sent back with escort on orders of Maharana.
2. This one comes from the English merchants of Surat. I rate this among the best words written for him.
" Shivaji is the fairest friend, noblest enemy, and the most politique prince. He will continue to be victorious, even to a miracle. He came, he saw, he conquered*.
He has taken two very strong rocks, no less, dexterous threat than Alexander the Great and became master of Bijapur.
He has vowed to his God, never to sheath his sword till he has reached Delhi and shut Aurangzeb with it. He had many Muslims in his service and the head of his Navy was a Muslim.
He loved his country and was not partial to anyone but he could not tolerate conversion of his brethren to either Islam or Christianity. The underlying reason for his vengeance upon Aurangzeb was the religious policy of that monarch. "
* - Referring to his victories in Karnataka.
3. This comes from the Dutch Christian missionaries. Shivaji had sacked Surat. During that sack, he spared 2 very rich merchants / Christian missionaries.
One was a very noble Christian priest and another was the family of an extremely rich humanitarian money lender who was in service of Dutch East India company. The contemporary French records are quoted in this blog. Again it is a 2 year old blog.
http://mariam-uz-zamani.blogspot.in/2015/08/did-shivaji-maharaj-really-plunder-surat.html#.WJgnqxJ2m1s
Actually, starting with Shivaji there comes a change in the method of warfare of native rulers. His policy was very simple. Tit for Tat. "If you ravage my town, then i am not going to spare your dominions either."
A fear was created in minds of his enemies that the kind of warfare they saw till now was going to be a thing of the past. They will be dealt/replied in their own language which they understand. But even here you get glimpses of humanity.