Wounds which run deep - Karan. Naina.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't have much to say about the episode 😆 I know all those scenes, bidding farewell to the family, FBs and so on were needed - but now, I have to wait till Monday for Nirmala and Dadu to get the shock of their life 🤣

Anyway, coming to the point of my thread: We got some FBs from Karan's PoV, too, at last (though, I thought he doesn't know that it had been Naina in that cafe 🤣 ). I think I have mentioned it in posts before- Naina's actions like laughing at his chaata and other things, e.g. asking him if he was pagal etc... were either done in jest or during stress but without any harmful intention toward him. Yet, as small as those scenes might have seemed, we might have even enjoyed her befriending his chaata, for example, and as much as Karan hadn't directly shown it - they hit nerves. Probably prodded into years' old wounds which run so deep that he, himself, doesn't know where they begin and where they end.

Deep down, Karan knows that Naina is a good human being with a pure heart. But has he gotten many reasons to fully rely on this sixth sense of his? Naina thanked him once. And helped him one time (or twice if we count the shoes though, Sharda asked her to) but even there, her dialogue at the end revived the bitterness he felt toward her to some extent. Apart from that she has made fun of him and his quirks multiple times, has reacted badly when he avoided being touched by or touch her and generally seemed not to like him much - it's all the first impressions and their initial encounters. Also, her words like, "Mei tumhari lachaari pe nahi hass rahi" and, "Agar aise hi logon se bhagte rahe toh log paas aana chod denge" - unintentionally on her part, have hit him harder than we probably saw. It's understandable, someone who has been ridiculed and gone through psychological trauma for years will be affected by even the smallest of things.

And the last straw now - she agreed to the marriage. Yes, Karan saw what happened in there, and he probably can also see where she is coming from but that doesn't mean that he will want to understand it, per se. What he has seen is that Naina's family didn't actually budge in front of his father (apart from Sharda, and even she didn't want to agree for this marriage). If that girl had said No, no one would have thrown a fuss. He, on the other hand, was not granted the freedom of choice, at all. Furthermore, because of her, Karan had to bow down in front of NK's will - something he most surely despises. He had been helpless in this situation, his helplessness was taken advantage of, and who doesn't hate to feel this helpless? If we look at it from Karan's PoV, he has been made a joke through this wedding; been put up for a wedding like a prize, everyone saw how it all happened and yet... here they were.

As Sandhya said, Karan is very sensitive. She is there, he blames her for his misery, for putting him into such a situation and wants to hurt her - I am hurting because of you, so I will make you hurt, too. Naina will have to work hard to gain his trust, this won't be a cake walk. Patience is the key word 😆

PS: Don't think he really will throw out Naina - she was in the grahpravesh segments, after all 🤣

Also, he sprinkled the sindoor - and didn't touch any feets 😛

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I just saw you made a post!

You know, it struck me too that the flashbacks he had of Naina were all of when she had laughed at him and none of when she had been nice or helped him, in complete contrast to Naina who had both type of flashbacks. It just shows how deep his insecurities are. No matter how many good things Naina has done, they will be overshadowed by her not so good ones. And this is going to continue for quite some time till she steadily overcomes his concerns and breaks down his barriers. It will take time but it will be worth it!After all, gold is forged in fire!

I don't think he is going to do much either. He's not the kind of person to really trouble somebody. He won't do it to Naina either.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Ami, that's exactly what I was thinking during his flashback. He is hurt and she is going to bear the brunt of it. Add in that they took NK's ashirvaad and the moron didn't bless them just declared they would be leaving and left.
Naina has her work cut out for her as per her mom's wishes. That girl is going to shed tears but persevere and come out on top. I believe no one is going to see her tears. Nirmala might chance upon it, and Karan would be the only one who would actually see the tears. Not always though.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think the biggest thorn for Naina is going to Khyati at least for sometime. She will keep reminding Karan these flashback instances when Naina made fun of him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Karaali

I think the biggest thorn for Naina is going to Khyati at least for sometime. She will keep reminding Karan these flashback instances when Naina made fun of him.


I want to smack Khyati 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutegirlsona

I just saw you made a post!

You know, it struck me too that the flashbacks he had of Naina were all of when she had laughed at him and none of when she had been nice or helped him, in complete contrast to Naina who had both type of flashbacks. It just shows how deep his insecurities are. No matter how many good things Naina has done, they will be overshadowed by her not so good ones. And this is going to continue for quite some time till she steadily overcomes his concerns and breaks down his barriers. It will take time but it will be worth it!After all, gold is forged in fire!

I don't think he is going to do much either. He's not the kind of person to really trouble somebody. He won't do it to Naina either.


Yes, all his FBs were the painful kind - for him 😆 I think if they had left the marriage in a normal way with only MeghNal married, he might have remembered her goodness a little more. But with the marriage happening and his own misery being added too, he developed a tunnel vision and only sees the negative. The hurtful. The painful.

That boy is nursing some deep running and gashing wounds inside of him. Open wounds are the most painful ones - un pe ab marham lagana zaroori hai. And Naina will start with those she, herself, has caused 😉

He might tell the driver to leave for a moment and have a lil chat with Naina to keep far away from him 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Namita-

@Ami, that's exactly what I was thinking during his flashback. He is hurt and she is going to bear the brunt of it. Add in that they took NK's ashirvaad and the moron didn't bless them just declared they would be leaving and left.

Naina has her work cut out for her as per her mom's wishes. That girl is going to shed tears but persevere and come out on top. I believe no one is going to see her tears. Nirmala might chance upon it, and Karan would be the only one who would actually see the tears. Not always though.


Talking of ashirvaad, kisi the MeghNal ko diya bhi ke nahi? 😆 And was it just me, or was Sharda especially noticing Karan touching the floor? 😆

Honestly, Di? I want to see Naina struggle here. I even want to see her get frustrated and on the verge of giving up - but then, catch herself, push herself up again and decide to keep going. Karan is not an easy person to get along with; but people like him need to be shown that they can be loved unconditionally - and that the person to love them is in for the long run and not going to turn their back on them.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Karaali

I think the biggest thorn for Naina is going to Khyati at least for sometime. She will keep reminding Karan these flashback instances when Naina made fun of him.


Khayti will definitely add fuel to the fire 😆 I mean, I believe Karan will hold on to these past encounters himself but Khayti might keep them fresh and burning in his mind for some time.

Although, I believe that Khayti's just over-protective of him. She is being a brat, right now, and pretty annoying. But the first time she will see Naina support her Karan Bhai, she might melt 😆 Until then, we will keep getting frustrated with this kid 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ami, our wish of Naina struggling is going to come true. Every now and than the girl is going to be on the verge but than remember what her mom told her.
If a situation is difficult think what mom would do before doing something.

I say, good luck to Karan. He ain't getting rid of her...😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Namita-

Ami, our wish of Naina struggling is going to come true. Every now and than the girl is going to be on the verge but than remember what her mom told her.

If a situation is difficult think what mom would do before doing something.

I say, good luck to Karan. He ain't getting rid of her...😆


Di - I would also love to see her let out her frustration on Karan, once in a while 🤣 Like, she lashes out at him at one point a la, "You hurt me, I hurt you" - those we love the most, we tend to hurt the most, too (we have the ability to). And then, reconcilation 😆

I don't want her to just take and take. It's human to give back, from time to time, too. And I enjoy seeing two people who care for each other a lot, hurt each other through their words and then, reconcile after having calmed down 🤣

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