Why did Anika have to 'butt in' she should have kept her mouth shut - Page 2

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: celina30



I dont think it was appropriate, she got back in the house by the 'skin of her teeth' she is a temporary step-in as Shivay's wife ( we figure she would eventually stay- but as of now) she is already in Pinky's bad books. Like I said, she could voice her concern, but privately to Shivay..whether she likes Rudra or not does not give her the right to interfere overtly-
Just my opinion...doesnt mean I am right😉


Who cares abt pinky bad books😆
She will always be against her because she knows that Shivay loves her deep down. Shivay cares abt her. She is the only one who can change shivay;s decision after his bros. so she is never gonna except this truth and it is v common in real life that mother never gets ready to share her son.

And rudra himself did not find bad that she was interfering because OmRu acknowledged her as oberoi and Shivay singh oberoi's wife. even shivay has accepted her a long time ago but he is unable to realize it
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anika is a girl who cares for "her" people and as far as she is concerned, OmRu being her bros-in-law are "her" people.
Hence she couldn't bear to stand by and watch 1 of her devars making such a phenomenal life changing mistake.

She is not one to put her needs and interests before those of the people she loves and considers family.

Pinky may not accept her as part of the family but as far as Anika is concerned, her pathi has brought her back into OM and declared it her home. Therefore this is her family. And if 1 of them is being wronged, she's not going to sit by quietly.

I commend that.

I truly do not understand why it's being condemned.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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She being a family member had the right to intervene, but the point is that getting humiliated for no reason is not something one should look for, she definitely knew that Pinky would insult her if she says anything, so she should have waited for explaining her point in the absence of Pinky

Expressing your view is great but getting insulted for no reason is no wisdom
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Because Anika needs a daily dose of insults and colourful words like sadak ka kooda, gold-digger, manhoos and many more😆.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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As much as I would have liked Ani to stay quiet (as Pinky was just unbearably rude), I think she couldn't help it as it involved Shivaay and Rudy's happiness, and she cares about both their happiness...

And when has Ani ever stayed quiet in the show??

She has spoken her mind before too when the family was fighting among themeselves during Raksha Bandhan ( at a time when she was a mere wedding planner)...And without caring what other people thought, got involved and put her reputation on the line to save Shivaay during the Gayatri murder case (after she had been fired and mind you, then Pinky had hugged and kissed her and cried!)
No one blamed her for speaking out at both times!

If she has no rights now, she definitely did not have any rights to then...So when she didn't care about the whole world insulting her for a man who at the time had no relation to her at all, why would she care about what 2 people, both hypocrites according to me, thought of her when the man she loved and another she cared about like a brother was involved??

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree that she spoke up knowing she will get blasted, thats why she started only hesistatingly. But she really cares for Rudra, he's always helped her out plus , she can't help rise to defend Shivaay. I first thought that after initial speaking she should have stayed quiet but it was clear that the decision was being made then itself hence she spoke along. i feel she had the right here to speak, however, someone should have blasted Pinky then itself, however, I feel this is the build up to when Shivaay defends Anika for the Rumya wedding MMS and hopefully he will quieten Pinky then itself.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chottekikhushi

As much as I would have liked Ani to stay quiet (as Pinky was just unbearably rude), I think she couldn't help it as it involved Shivaay and Rudy's happiness, and she cares about both their happiness...

And when has Ani ever stayed quiet in the show??

She has spoken her mind before too when the family was fighting among themeselves during Raksha Bandhan ( at a time when she was a mere wedding planner)...And without caring what other people thought, got involved and put her reputation on the line to save Shivaay during the Gayatri murder case (after she had been fired and mind you, then Pinky had hugged and kissed her and cried!)
No one blamed her for speaking out at both times!

If she has no rights now, she definitely did not have any rights to then...So when she didn't care about the whole world insulting her for a man who at the time had no relation to her at all, why would she care about what 2 people, both hypocrites according to me, thought of her when the man she loved and another she cared about like a brother was involved??


You have so hit the nail on its head. There couldn't be a better comparison to put Anika's position & intention in perspective. 👏

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