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Posted: 9 years ago
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Oh ViTharv.


Only you two can love each other so much and hurt each other at the same time.

Atharv Sujata can be the biggest Drama Queen on this planet. We've seen it once before when Vividha had got him to meet his dad unknowingly. Then, he had even gone as far as to say that Vividha had pushed him away from her forever. And today again, Atharv said the meanest things in the meanest way because he was hurt and wanted to hurt Vividha too.


It was a proud day for Atharv today. He was interviewed by a media network as an example of an accomplished graduate, who had stayed in India for the benefit of his country. And as he was explaining why he loved being a dhoodhwala, a happy Vividha listened with pride and added that Atharv would never leave his country no matter what. But when the reporter asked Atharv who Vividha was, he told her she was his neighbour.

His neighbour.

And as an exasperated Vividha demanded and asked Atharv what he meant, all the unsaid words, pain and accusations that had built up inside him all came tumbling out.

Atharv wanted to know what Ravish meant to Vividha.

A shocked Vividha tried to explain. She respected Ravish because he had done a lot for them. But Atharv was not willing to listen. He kept insisting that she was hiding her feelings and not facing them. Of course he was basing his accusations on what had gone on the last few days, and the changed wording in the letter had been the last straw.

Vivi still tried to explain. She begged him to trust her because she didn't know how everything had happened. But Atharv didn't stop. He told her that if her heart was inclining towards Ravish then to let it do so.

An disbelieving Vividha asked if he was asking her to choose between him and Ravish and to her shock, Atharv said yes. Either he had a right on her heart or Ravish did.

Again a shocked Vividha asked him if it would not make any difference to him if she chose Ravish. But Atharv had gone too far to turn back. He wanted her to choose. Even though he knew it would kill him inside if she said Ravish. Even though he knew he was pushing her to say something she didn't want to say. Even though he knew it would break his heart, he didn't stop.

And finally Vividha had had enough. If he was going to be stubborn and push her, then she was going to push right back. And so when Sujata came out to say she was leaving for Delhi to go to Ravish's ceremony, Vivdha said she would go with her.

A shocked Atharv was stunned. Even though he had said all that he had, in his heart he never thought she would leave him. And as a devastated Vividha sat in the car with tears flowing down her cheeks, an equally devastated Atharv threw all the milk on the floor in anger and told a worried Uma to leave him alone.

Today ViTharv showed why they are so perfect for each other. They are both stubborn and frustrating yet everything they do is because they are just so possessive over each other. For Atharv, Vividha's heart and soul belong solely to him. Just the thought of Vividha even thinking about another man, kills him inside And for Vividha, Atharv's love is only hers. She fought society for him and waited for him because she wants only him and no one else.

ViTharv are so maddening you just want to shake some sense into them. But as much as they frustrate you, they make you love them. Because you know their love is special and you're not going to get to see something like this again.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post Whispa

Yours sincerely, your laziest fan
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa 🤗
As always such an apt review 😃


I will only say this much, this episode was a beauty A pure #JNDSD One and #ShiVik are just beyond words as #Vitharv.

I am waiting for both of them to explode and I hope tomorrow two mothers will do their job well, this seperation will again make them fear of losing each other. Atharva so rightly said that he is not being blindly jealous but can make head or tail of things happening around.

Loved the FBs and their pain also is so breathtaking, Sigh!!!

I am wondering what his reaction will be when he will find out Vividha is all gone to put her lufe in danger and he had let her go.. that too for Ravish 😆 cant wait for it.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Whispa, As always lovely review. It was such a well written episode. And Vikram was so controlled with Atharv's outburst, stellar performance.

So many things got cleared for me today. Atharv's lines were very clear - he is not jealous, he wants her completely heart and soul, and while this is not going to be easy for him, he wants Vividha to be clear about her choice. And i am glad the writers put forward that clarity to his thoughts.

Their confrontation hurt bad :(

Thanks,
Vish
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If I had to define ViTharv in one word, it would be "Zidd."
This sheer, crazy, obsessive stubbornness they have for each other.
This stubbornness that stood the test of time.
This stubbornness that shook society.
This stubbornness that gave birth to new wedding vows.
This stubbornness that even defeated death.

The Zidd that is the source of their fitoor. The Zidd that is their pyaar se mili taakat. The Zidd that represents their all-consuming love. The Zidd that defines them.

Phase 1 was all about Atharv's stubbornness for Vividha. He fought society, he fought her family, he even fought her and won her from herself.

Phase 2 was about about Vivi's stubbornness for Atharv. She fought society, she fought family, she even fought him and finally won him from himself.

Now Phase 3 is where it gets interesting.
Because it is here that their stubborn, indomitable wills have collided.
They are still fighting for each other. They are still on the same side. They still want only one another.
But, they no longer have the clarity they had worked so hard to establish.
Time and circumstances have added shadows and cracks to their individual selves. As a result, the aaina of truth that always bound them together in transparency is now reflecting incomplete, distorted images of them both.
Their love is the same. Their Zidd is same. So their dynamic is the same.
Unfortunately, it is them who are not the same. But theirs is not a Zidd that bows down to impossible odds. They have conquered each other's demons before and they will do so again.
In the process, there will be clashes. They might even wound each other. But sometimes, that is also the only way to draw out all the poisonous fear and insecurity that has been festering within.
Let them fight it out. This war that they are waging, it is for each other's sake. Because no matter who wins, the peace will be shared by both.
Edited by 13thwish - 9 years ago
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As always, lovely post!😳 I couldn't find any other place, so forgive me for the rant I am about to type.😳
I just saw the episode and I almost cried.😭 It was so painful. But I absolutely loved it! 😆 It was real, impactful and touching. Had this not happened, it would have been so unreal.
To me both are right in their own perspectives. Vividha has been through hell and is tired of explaining him and telling him that she loves him. As for Atharv, the happenings and Vividha's past actions along with the time gap are playing on his mind.
Even in this misunderstanding of his, there is this unique mix of possessiveness and selflessness. He is selfless in his intent that he wants her to choose what she truly wants. And possessive that her heart and soul should belong to him. But unknown to him, he is pushing her and himself off the edge.In his world, everything is messed up. In hers, she was clear but since her world is same as his, it automatically gets messed up.
He tries to make sense and she being forced, takes the wrong decision of leaving to Delhi. As much as he wants to let her go if wants it, he doesn't expect her to leave. Now Atharv, what do you expect her to do? Conversations won't work any longer. Only a break down will. Until then Atharv won't understand.

When he throws those milk cans down, the spilt milk is symbolic of ViTharv's scattered lives and broken hearts. As he leaves the chaff-cutter, he tells us that for the moment he has lost control over his life. His thoughts confuse him, his heart aches. He yearns for clarity and she for his understanding.
I loved the shot where Vividha is shown crying in the car's rear mirror (whatever it is called😛). Symbolic of her not wanting to go, but him pushing her away.

Precap: Interesting. Reserve my judgement for tomorrow.

P.S. The aaina vachan will come into play. The 'we will resolve fights before sunset' vachan I am not sure of. What happened to the bharosa vachan?😭 But I am finding it hard to blame Atharv, because in this state of mind, it is hard to look beyond what you see.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Great post Whispa

Yours sincerely, your laziest fan


Hum bhi aapke fan hai😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shweta13

Whispa 🤗

As always such an apt review 😃


I will only say this much, this episode was a beauty A pure #JNDSD One and #ShiVik are just beyond words as #Vitharv.

I am waiting for both of them to explode and I hope tomorrow two mothers will do their job well, this seperation will again make them fear of losing each other. Atharva so rightly said that he is not being blindly jealous but can make head or tail of things happening around.

Loved the FBs and their pain also is so breathtaking, Sigh!!!

I am wondering what his reaction will be when he will find out Vividha is all gone to put her lufe in danger and he had let her go.. that too for Ravish 😆 cant wait for it.



Shweta

I love that edit! The single tear falling out of Atharv's eye and Vivi absolutely devastated.

This whole episode was just beautiful. It's what the show has always been about. And of course Vitharv's hurt and pain is felt by us too.

So looking forward to tomorrow.
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Originally posted by: vspdandeli


Hey Whispa, As always lovely review. It was such a well written episode. And Vikram was so controlled with Atharv's outburst, stellar performance.

So many things got cleared for me today. Atharv's lines were very clear - he is not jealous, he wants her completely heart and soul, and while this is not going to be easy for him, he wants Vividha to be clear about her choice. And i am glad the writers put forward that clarity to his thoughts.

Their confrontation hurt bad :(

Thanks,
Vish


Hey Vish

The episode was lovely. Both Vikram and Shivani are such great performers that they automatically elevate a scene.

I feel a little differently. Atharv was jealous. He's always been possessive about Vividha and he wanted her to tell him she only loves him. But of course he's not going to admit to his jealousy, so he does and says anything to hurt her like he's hurting. He hates the thought that their might be someone else in her heart.

Right now they're both hurting, but just think of when they will make up😳
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Oh my god...VITHARV what are you?? & what you do to us.. m sure you have no idea! Just watched last two episodes in a row... & I am so flooded & overwhelmed by myriad of emotions that still not able to absorb & sink it in!! Even your fights make us love you more... truly maddening!!!

Before coming to the heart wrenching fight... what broke my heart first were the starting 5 mins of episode!! Seeing the effect that letter had on Atharva & imagining what all he must be going through... feeling that his Vividha has no more remained just his!! Being hit by how much things hv changed in past 3 months, that he became "majboori" of his Vividha😲😲?? That he is that barrier coz of which she is not able to follow her heart & find her happiness!! His love has become burden in her life😭😭..& at the same time fighting that uncontrollable possessiveness & jealousy over her!
His worst fear of losing Vividha became TRUE today.. at least to him! That heart breaking pain in his eyes.. of defeat, of hollowness, of having lost everything in his life was unbearable to watch!! His angst while looking at the engagement ring..being so close to achieving the biggest dream of being with Vividha & yet feeling miles away with no way back, was Shattering!! Vikram was so fantastic in that scene that I honestly do not have words to describe👏👏... he was so real & moving, left my eyes moist!!

Next morning, both had a night to sleep over it! While Vividha was determined to speak to him & resolve things... however Atharv driven by complicated mix of selflessness & possessiveness had decided to get clarity once & for all & only then move forward!! Atharv's fear that this engagement would not solemnize into their union coupled with his jealousy & to hurt Vividha back... revealed itself in form of "She is my neighbour"!! & All Hell broke loose!! Maddening Vitharv .. the equal lovers who fight as fiercely as they love each other were back!!

As much as I wanted Atharv to stop talking so openly & saying everything on his mind even unwarranted stuff... I was amazed at how they just say anything to each other and arent afraid to get back at the other! They both were dying in the pain of love for one another, but yet not backing off & pushing each other so much!! The moment Atharv uttered,"Agar humari shaadi.. Agar??😲.. I knew he had pushed Vividha too far!! But during their fight, I was really pained at how their dialogues meant so much more than was just being said!!
Atharv: "Haan Koi fark nahi padega"...(coz as much as I hate it, It wd be for your happiness if thats what you want Vividha)...**Hoping that she doesnt really want it**
Vividha: "If I choose R, it wd be okay with you??...(Is it so easy for you Atharv if I leave from your life?? how can these jealousies be bigger than ur love for me, how can you not even fight for me a little.. how can you give up on me so easily when that is one thing I never did coz u taught me that!!!) ...& the clash of Titans happened. Fuelled enough by Atharv's angry, possessive yet kinda selfless push, Vividha too decided to push back & hurt him by choosing to go to Delhi!! If Atharv isnt affected, then fine she can also be okay without him...Ufff what a match!!

Gosh they are such amazingly fiery lovers... such passionate equals that we cant help but fall in love with them every single day!! It is mind blowing how can a love story be so intense that we love them even when we hate them... my love for Vitharv & Shivik just multiples mulifolds every single day... Outstanding Amazing couple 👏👏
Seeing the tashan they are giving to each other, can only hum only one line today --
Jo Teri Khaatir Tadpe pehle se hi... kya usse Tadpana O Zaalimaa O Zaalimaa!!!!
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