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Posted: 9 years ago
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It's human tendency to be selfish.
Everyone is selfish in their own way. What's good for me would look selfish for others . But we can't stop living bcoz of what others think or say.

Same goes for vividha. U go girl . Live ur life.

Ja vividha Ja jeele apni zindagi 🤣
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Alishah-

Why is being selfish so shunned anyway? I mean, yes, blind selfishness is silly however Vividha and Atharv are highly thoughtful individuals outside of their relationship.

Surely taking ownership of your relationship and fighting for the person you love more than words can describe should actually be admired?!
Some may see selflessness as a commendable quality, and in some scenarios, it may be. But not in this one.

I don't know if you remember this from Ram-Leela but I always think of it it.

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And why shouldn't it be khudgarz? I say good for love.

Wonderful post.

HOLAAA MANALI




Some celeb put up a quote of this sort 'Those who are jealous of you are secretly proud of you'. Vividha & Atharf keep doing what isn't expected from them, they fight for each other and stand like rocks! They put each other first and why not? Everyone has their priority!

I don't remember that dialogue from Ram Leela but it's apt! 👏 If you're going to be in love, there's going to be a sense of selfishness which comes with it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Man..i really have nothing much to say about these episodes these days - i'm just keeping my reactions, reviews to myself. I am waiting for things to sort out.

But i will say that, being Selfish in love is essential. You HAVE to have possessiveness and unwillingness to let go of what's yours. Unless of course, you are suffocating that person. Your are not in love if you are willing to give up what belongs to you. simple. Possessiveness and Ishq forever remains as one.

Also, as for Manali, i really hope they come out of it strong as ViTharv and not some shit track, cuz then...😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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well reema, iam too selfish in that way, i, my family my choices are always my priority so i feel vitharv can too
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Reemz ... You should always ...
Why only you ? Everyone should eat what they want to eat 😛 ...

I have never believed in doing anything to please anybody at all ... Being real is more important than being fake ... I am glad vividha gave a piece of her mind to those damn women who think they are setting up a sister sister relationship for each other ... I would rather they accept that they were duped by one man rather than playing su - su in kells words ...

I also glad that vividha decided not to see ravish ... What would she get out of it ... More puppy looks and Mujh mein kyaa hai kami ... UTTER NONSENSE ... s

o that now she is done with everybody else I want her to fix that Atharvs brain that has been oscillating too much these days ... I am happy that vividha is the most selfish at the moment ...
ONLY HER SELFISHNESS WILL TAKE HER PLACES AND US TO MANALIS WARM WINTER 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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its not just a lover relationship that is selfish. Any love is not love with the selfish thought being involved that the relationship is yours, its special just for you. You don't grow a strong bond with someone who is not that particular about you.
You can like people, be civil with people, and even live in the same house with people and never feel possessive. But you cannot love someone without feeling a senses of "apnapan" and "hakk". That is the sense of ownership that often creeps into passionate love stories and destroys a sense of self that people have. But Vitharv are passionate and fused but very clear of who they are individually as well. Vividha has lost that identity recently and I think she is well on her way to finding it back.
Edited by -JC- - 9 years ago

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