Can we forgive shivaay?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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For all that he did.
For the pain, the physical and mental torture, the insults, the hard times, the distrust towards Anika.
How did they fall in love?
Is love that easy?
2 opposite souls, fighting from day 1 till now,
Dunno how she became a part of his soul.
Dunno how his heart and eyes started protecting her from all harm.
The moment he saved her from daksh is the moment he fell in love with her even without him realising the truth!
His heart has accepted her as his wife. His mind cant
His actions jus before lohri, broke her heart which jus started to love him knowing he wouldnt love her the way she loves him!

But now will she forgive the one who GAVE UP HIS LIFE WITHOUT THINKING FOR ONCE ABOUT HIMSELF OR HIS FAMILY? ?
Will she?

I think she will.



I have forgiven him.
I still will.
Even if he hurts her for her safety hereafter, i will forgive him.
This is a new form of love i have neverr seen ❤️
Everything will be forgotten with that bullet. Thats how it has to be.

Every love story is different. But Shivika's is my favourite ❤️

Anika has truly taught me too (Surbhi learnt it first!) how to love a person selflessly. ❤️
Let pain, hard times, sorrow , distrust come . But true love will never leave its place from heart ❤️ .
Can you all forgive shivvay ? 😊



Jus some random thoughts i got while watching todays epi!
Pls forgive me 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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But now will she forgive the one who gave up his life for her?
Will she?

Yes she will ... but the question here is 'should she without him actually addressing it and asking for it'? "Can she truly move ahead and look to the future without her past following them like a dark shadow?"

I know ... I know ... he took a bullet for her, he loves her more than life itself, she is his Jaan and he will protect her no matter what, he trusts her more than he trusts himself, she is the goddess who is on the pedestal right now and who can do no wrong!
That is all good and healthy for the relationship and for the marriage as they move into the future but what about the ghosts "Shivvay and Annika' from the past who still haunt this relationship that is blooming? They spew venom in the nectar that is forming in this newly formed love and turn it to poison every time they do

YOU CANNOT BUILD A HAPPY FUTURE IF YOU ARE HAUNTED BY THE GHOSTS OF THE PAST

There was a time when he did not love her.. when he did not even respect her ... when he thought she was sub human and meant nothing... when what happened to her after the one day wedding was of no consequence whatsoever as long as she fulfilled her part in his plan ... when he threw her on the bed and intimidated her.. when he physically, mentally and emotionally hurt her ... when he trampled on her pride and her self-respect like it was worth the dirt from the streets that she came from ...
When he forgot that this Annika,he was breaking and treading on like she was of no significance, was the same Annika who had risked her life, self-respect and her pride multiple times to save the very thing he was putting her through the humiliation for - HIS FAMILY AND HIS REPUTATION

Shivvay and Annika need to lay those ghosts to rest and give them a farewell so that they do not haunt their future. They need to revisit and heal the raw wounds that are still festering and that emerge everytime he says or does things to open them up again. He needs to give Annika the balm that will sooth that pain and heal it once and for all.

Shivvay needs to ask forgiveness for all that he has done on the most important day of their life - their wedding day, so that he is true to all the vows he took when he walked around that sacred fire with her. He needs to list them and check off all the actions so that if one is missed she can let him know. This act will ensure that in the future it is NEVER thrown back in his face that it was left unresolved.
He needs to seek Redemption before she even asks for it.

Edited by asya34 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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this whole thing is so complicated... dard bhi hain par jeene ki wajah bhi hain.. all i know is that this love is both their salvation and their doom...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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OF COURSE I do forgive him shivika is so damn pefect ❤️
wait to watch there new dynamic

this couple is one of the best i ever watch in indian tv show ❤️

even better than arshi👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Saving her life doesn't absolve him of his sins especially when doesn't think he did anything wrong in the first place. To me, its more than asking for forgiveness it's about him actually acknowledging he did something wrong. Its a serial so of course she will forgive him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Let's be real such a scenario would never take place in real life. I mean even if it did, I don't think any girl would fall for someone who literally assaulted them for marriage just by some flirting.
But since this is fiction ,my views would be slightly different.
Keeping myself in Anika's place I think she comes from a completely different place. She has managed to see the good in SSO despite how limited the goodness has been there especially towards her. And the fact that he has continuously been so caring and trusting towards her after the misunderstanding has been cleared, her falling for him is not surprising. Plus they always had that tension between them so no surprises with her falling for him after his genuine affection.
I don't see how the way he behaved with her for the Lodi is such a big deal.
Don't get me wrong in real life if someone spoke to me like that, they would be the last person in my life I gave a crap about.
But this is Anika. She literally said that they spent a night together just for saving him just the next day after he abused her and kicked her out of the job.
She manages to see the ever so hidden good in him and she has managed to fall for SSO despite his shortcomings. She somehow understands his majboori and that is the reason she asked him what was his majboori that he didn't support sahil despite knowing he is innocent.
My point is Anika is past the stage where she is looking for an apology.However much I would have liked them getting married in a different circumstance or the fact that he didn't get away with it so easily, I guess Anika has moved past that stage.
So as a viewer and for my own sanity I am hoping to move past it too. Because I for one watch tv only for entertainment and Shivika is beautiful only if I forgive SSO.
Edited by Sdea - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If Annika had grown up in a loving home, she might've seen or experienced a loving relationship. I get the feeling she was taken in by Sahil's father as a nanny for the baby. That's why they are so attached to each other. She does not speak of her step father at all.
And she had to clash with Shivaay, who has love but no idea what loving relationship is. He loves his siblings and Dadi a lot. But the fact is, none of the marriages in his house are ideal. So he has lofty notions that he will be the boss man, and the wife stays home, takes care of kids and does charity.

He is a control freak, and realized soon that she is uncontrollable. She is starved for love, and realized he has lots to give, but only for family.

It broke my heart, the way she grieved in the corner away from his family. She watched as each family member was tortured by Shivaay being at death's door. She had nobody there but him, he kept her by his side like a loved prisoner. Now he wasn't there, and she didn't know where to go or what to do.

This family needs him, he is their Wall. And he was hurt saving her. The unworthy, insignificant one. Poor thing must be feeling wretched. Why does life hand her such complicated situations? To love a man who withholds his love for her.

Of course her loves her as much as she loves him. But HE needs to reach out for her, hold her hand and never let go. No subtle gestures, or hidden meanings for her to interpret. Or she'll never feel at home, constantly waiting to be kicked out. That's torture, not love.


Edited by AnnzSageflower7 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I cannot forgive shivaay unless he realises how wrong he was when he treated anika during the wedding time and takes steps to redeem himself. Its not right on his part to keep demanding from anika for his familys izzat and namesaving. In yesterdays episode when he knew that she is not in the mood to celebrate lohri and yet he got his way broke my heart more because he should realise that he should have pacified her and then should have proceeded for the function. Turning himself into SSO is not the only solution in the world. Why is it always that whenever he wants something, whenever his emotions are disturbed he always demands and gets it done...whereas anikas feelings are not respected to an extent in my opinion. The day he keeps his anika and her feelings in consideration before his khandani izzat,naam, rituals etc thats when i will feel he is starting to redeem himself.
The past few episodes when the blush/ flirting episodes were going on, for my own sanity i forgot how they got married and i enjoyed it...yet i look forward to shivaays redemption...

He took a bullet for her but will that compensate for the pain she went through when she was getting married to him? I dont think so...

Edited by ISensedYou - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sorry but 1 goli se saare paap nahi dhul jaayenge. Gul had habit to put heroes in bad situations after showing him do unforgivable crimes so dat people feel pity on then n forgive them after forgetting everything they did. In a Zee TV show 10 years ago, d heroine leaves d hero for misunderstanding her of something. D hero was a decent guy but he did some mistake in thinking dat d heroine n her male friend wanted to wanted to kill him. After 20 years, wen d hero found her She still do d not forgave him. After a couple of meetings he got into am accident while saving her n got into a critical situation. D heroine saved his life by taking him to d hospital. Wen he became alright he told her dat she loves him but d heroine told him something like us uska pyaar nahi insaaniyat tha. Did was heroine's attitude wid d hero even wen he hardly ever hurt her 4m d time they met. If dis thing was shown 10 years ago then how can it be easy to forget after wat all Shivaay did n just forgive him after a bullet?
Edited by angel_juhi04 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

If Annika had grown up in a loving home, she might've seen or experienced a loving relationship. I get the feeling she was taken in by Sahil's father as a nanny for the baby. That's why they are so attached to each other. She does not speak of her step father at all.

And she had to clash with Shivaay, who has love but no idea what loving relationship is. He loves his siblings and Dadi a lot. But the fact is, none of the marriages in his house are ideal. So he has lofty notions that he will be the boss man, and the wife stays home, takes care of kids and does charity.

He is a control freak, and realized soon that she is uncontrollable. She is starved for love, and realized he has lots to give, but only for family.

It broke my heart, the way she grieved in the corner away from his family. She watched as each family member was tortured by Shivaay being at death's door. She had nobody there but him, he kept her by his side like a loved prisoner. Now he wasn't there, and she didn't know where to go or what to do.

This family needs him, he is their Wall. And he was hurt saving her. The unworthy, insignificant one. Poor thing must be feeling wretched. Why does life hand her such complicated situations? To love a man who withholds his love for her.

Of course her loves her as much as she loves him. But HE needs to reach out for her, hold her hand and never let go. No subtle gestures, or hidden meanings for her to interpret. Or she'll never feel at home, constantly waiting to be kicked out. That's torture, not love.




@bold..

How do you manage to get the precise words.?
Loves that little description there.. Dii..!

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