Can we forgive shivaay? - Page 2

I have forgiven him 😆

The whole thing with SSO vs Shivaay is really complex. I think he's a really confused soul. He has done things and continues to do things without understanding the ramifications. Yes he wronged Anika, real bad. And I guess it purely comes down to the fact that this guy doesn't know how to function his emotions!

This man needs to be Anika's rock now. He has got to be her saviour, her protector and her companion. I think he owes it to her and not just sometimes- but all the time.

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

If Annika had grown up in a loving home, she might've seen or experienced a loving relationship. I get the feeling she was taken in by Sahil's father as a nanny for the baby. That's why they are so attached to each other. She does not speak of her step father at all.

And she had to clash with Shivaay, who has love but no idea what loving relationship is. He loves his siblings and Dadi a lot. But the fact is, none of the marriages in his house are ideal. So he has lofty notions that he will be the boss man, and the wife stays home, takes care of kids and does charity.

He is a control freak, and realized soon that she is uncontrollable. She is starved for love, and realized he has lots to give, but only for family.

It broke my heart, the way she grieved in the corner away from his family. She watched as each family member was tortured by Shivaay being at death's door. She had nobody there but him, he kept her by his side like a loved prisoner. Now he wasn't there, and she didn't know where to go or what to do.

This family needs him, he is their Wall. And he was hurt saving her. The unworthy, insignificant one. Poor thing must be feeling wretched. Why does life hand her such complicated situations? To love a man who withholds his love for her.

Of course her loves her as much as she loves him. But HE needs to reach out for her, hold her hand and never let go. No subtle gestures, or hidden meanings for her to interpret. Or she'll never feel at home, constantly waiting to be kicked out. That's torture, not love.

I see your point and what you mean.Anika, for one, will definitely forgive him. Maybe she even already has.
For me as a fangirl though, my thoughts resonate with a lot of what has already been said here. Shivaay needs to acknowledge the wrong he has done. Not only by forcefully marrying her but with the constant insults he hurled upon her. The man did it due to his own conflicting emotions and his obvious attraction to her. And perhaps he recognizes his faults now but I think he still needs to ask for forgiveness. For me, that will make their love stronger cause, in short, it means he respects the woman he loves worthy of the apology.

Well to be frank the actions which Shivaaaye did has no forgiveness, specially since till date he has not been shown ashamed for that act

It's very difficult to hate Shivaay now...hain na and I am ready to forgive him for everything if he accepts his wrong doings and asks for forgiveness. I want him to realize that because of he made Annika's life hell. My heart broke for Annika when I saw her roaming on the street in precap 😭. At least Shivaay should have kept her house if he was not planning to keep her at OM for rest of her life so that Annika can have a place to go. but he decided to sell the place so that he can maintain his control on her life ( selling her house for money was an excuse, he can afford to keep that house, few lakhs are like peanuts for him).